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  • Posted 06/09/2015 09:28:25 EDT

    You say he's a "loving, caring man." You don't say you're in love with him. You jumped into this new relationship soon after being widowed. Not technically widowed, because your late partner wasn't a more »

  • Posted 06/05/2015 09:22:34 EDT

    He loved you and so he will miss you. But his lingering feelings will die as time passes. What you had in bed that last time was farewell sex. Get it out of his system sex. A mercy f * & k. Don't be a more »

  • Posted 06/04/2015 09:08:12 EDT

    And either a lease or (shudders) a mortgage together. more »

  • Posted 06/04/2015 09:06:39 EDT

    The biggest communication problem is on your side -- your nagging him and trying to control him. He revealed he'd planned to propose. I take it he hasn't, though. Because of the way you acted. You did more »

  • Posted 06/03/2015 09:18:09 EDT

    A new boyfriend isn't going to cure your self-esteem issues about having a chronic illness. A support group and a therapist can help you build your confidence in the many things you do have to offer. more »

  • Posted 05/29/2015 10:12:37 EDT

    Exactly. Videotapes can be digitized. If the stuff on the secret tape includes sex, he's got a problem. more »

  • Posted 05/27/2015 09:12:54 EDT

    He didn't LIE to you. He waited until he felt confident enough in your relationship that he could begin sharing the sort of stuff that could drive a new girlfriend away. And you just proved to him he more »

  • Posted 05/26/2015 10:20:04 EDT

    Definitely dump the manchild. Your relationship is NOT OK. Because he seems to be OK with you feeling miserable. Worse, he's a big liar. He's seriously lying by omission to his mother. So I wouldn't c more »

  • Posted 05/22/2015 08:09:48 EDT

    All Jim Duggar and his pervert of a son cared about was hiding the truth. Fortunately, the media's outed the sex offender and his enabling father. You go right on thumping your Bible. Feel free to sta more »

  • Posted 05/22/2015 07:58:58 EDT

    Seriously. Predators start young -- childhood/teens is when pathologies start to surface. more »

  • Posted 05/22/2015 09:35:07 EDT

    I wonder whether his checklist included 'lose 10 pounds' and 'shop at Forever 21'. more »

  • Posted 05/22/2015 08:57:09 EDT

    I read the letter a second time, and something about your boyfriend made me uneasy. He might be trying to mold you into what he wants -- thus he picked a much younger woman. Be careful. This could be more »

  • Posted 05/22/2015 08:55:06 EDT

    I'm going to play the Daddy Issues card. You're at that awkward age where you still care way too much about what your family thinks, and your grandfather's death made you especially vulnerable. Thus t more »

  • Posted 05/21/2015 09:08:59 EDT

    ^^^ THIS more »

  • Posted 05/21/2015 09:00:17 EDT

    Ms. Right Now.

    Love this! more »

  • Posted 05/21/2015 08:59:22 EDT

    He doesn't love her, because he's in love with someone else -- himself. more »

  • Posted 05/21/2015 08:58:33 EDT

    You want to settle for her as a starter wife. Make sure you can afford the severance package when you hit your mid-life crisis and want to trade her in for a new model. more »

  • Posted 05/20/2015 09:49:15 EDT

    WRONG. His girlfriend's attempts to control his personal life won't stop with her ultimatum that he end his friendship with his ex. And it IS an ultimatum she threw down. In fact, if the guy caves, th more »

  • Posted 05/19/2015 09:45:28 EDT

    She can't let it drop -- and that's the problem. It's been well over a year since the break-up, and still she's obsessing about it. And she's holding against him something that was her own d a m n fau more »

  • Posted 05/19/2015 09:40:15 EDT

    Early in your relationship, you each hurt one another badly, and since then, the wounds have festered. The infection has now spread beyond the point of healing. It's killed the relationship. Throwing more »

  • Comment on: Friendship First?

    Posted 05/18/2015 09:09:31 EDT

    You're letting the fact you are technically still married hold you back, and you're looking down on guys willing to become involved with a still-married woman. Solution: get the divorce. more »

  • Posted 05/14/2015 09:19:11 EDT

    Maybe a better adjective than "terminal" would have been "life-threatening." And instead of saying "recovery" say "remission." more »

  • Posted 05/14/2015 09:05:04 EDT

    I'm not going to call you selfish. Instead, I'm calling you self-aware enough to realize you are settling for less than what you want out of this relationship. You want more from Kevin than he's able more »

  • Posted 05/13/2015 10:23:07 EDT

    Strike two: the dude she b a n g e d for a couple of nights wasn't some stranger she picked up: it was an ex-boyfriend. Also, she didn't confine her affair to those nights at the hotel during her busi more »

  • Posted 05/13/2015 09:39:05 EDT

    Definitely real letter, because this woman is blind to the fact she's a cheater, a liar and a user. more »