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Comment on: How to be friends - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
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Comment on: He treats me like a housekeeper - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
I agree that being a full-time stay-at-home parent is very much a real job. There are professionals who get paid to do that sort of work - daycare providers, teachers who do after school activities ab more »
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Comment on: He treats me like a housekeeper - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
There's something deeper going on here -- and yes, your husband is being a jerk. A real jerk. But this problem is deeper than disrespect. Marriage counseling - stat. Because you're getting ready to more »
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Comment on: I fight the end - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Get professional help. This is above the pay grade of ordinary everyday people on the Internet.
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Comment on: He's just not motivated - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
^^^ THIS. She claims she doesn't care he practically dropped out of college -- but the fact of the matter is it DOES bother her. A lot. Because she IS judging him. What she won't admit to herself is more »
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Comment on: He's far away but I don't want to let go - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Dear God, I must be totally off the mark if even Rico doesn't want to call the guy a cheater.
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Comment on: He's far away but I don't want to let go - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
She's being a fool by living in her own fantasy -- but the guy is telling her he doesn't want to let her go. TELLING her that. That's different from "I think he .... yada, yada, yada"
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Comment on: He's far away but I don't want to let go - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Yes, he IS cheating on his girlfriend -- emotionally cheating by continuing to encourage the feelings you have for one another. The fact that his girlfriend knows about you does NOT get him off the ch more »
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Comment on: He's far away but I don't want to let go - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
OK, time to be blunt. 1. He's a cheater. 2. He has no intention of commiting to you. 3. You cannot be just friends with someone you're in love with -- most especially someone who has little respect more »
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Comment on: Did it end because of problems in the bedroom? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
The fact his wife cheated on him probably made his own bedroom problems even worse. Cheating is a form of sexual rejection. But what does this guy do? He rejected his new girlfriend because of sexua more »
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Comment on: Did it end because of problems in the bedroom? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Agree - his solution to his problem was to bail instead of making having the -- pun intended -- b**** to consult professionals about what's causing his sexual dysfunction issues.
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Comment on: Did it end because of problems in the bedroom? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
P.S. I think what this guy is really looking for, through online dating, is a woman who will settle sexually -- perhaps even as far as putting up with impotency. There are some women who will for vari more »
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Comment on: Did it end because of problems in the bedroom? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Yes, I think you're right -- the sexual problems did end the relationship. HIS problems. His "solution" was to chicken out on doing something about his problems, like seeing a physician to check wheth more »
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Comment on: With Jack ... but thinking about Emily - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
If you want to consider therapy, ask your primary care doctor to give you a list of referals. Jack is NOT your boyfriend. He's just a friend. Period. He's not sexually attracted to you -- and if he more »
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Comment on: Play me some music - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Great big long hug, Meredith. Sending thoughts of love and deepest sympathy.
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Comment on: She keeps going back to her ex - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
He's on the short end of a love triangle with a screwed up woman. There's no fixing crazy.
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Comment on: He won't stop contacting me - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Leaving a gift at your home is weird. That's creepy, showing up in person, even if you weren't home. That, more than anything else, raises a red flag that he's stalking.
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Comment on: He won't stop contacting me - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Tell him to stop contacting you. Block him from all your social media sites. Consider changing your email address If he still persists, get a restraining order. He's straddling the line of sta more »
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Comment on: He has to live in LA - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
This blog really has turned into something right out the plot of the movie Groundhog Day. We're waking up to the same thing every morning, over and over and over again.
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Comment on: He has to live in LA - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
It's a potential deal-breaker issue. You're doing the right thing by actually exploring whether or not you want to want to make a compromise here. Excellent plan.
My work here is done.
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Comment on: He changed his mind about a move - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
EXACTLY!!!! One thing to add - the LW's boyfriend IS being honest with her. Totally honest. She's just not getting the answers she wants to hear. And she's p***** off about it. No way is she ready for more »
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Comment on: Dating seems gross right now - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Honey, you're only 30. You're still young. But you've fallen victim to that myth that there's some sort of sell-by date on your freshness, and you're in danger of getting put onto the "seconds rack" l more »
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Comment on: Do guys just want to sit around? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Or maybe he's just not into her.
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Comment on: Do guys just want to sit around? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
I think a good place for you to get advice is through friends -- female and male -- who went back out onto the dating market in their 40s. Yes, some things have changed since the 1980s -- big changes more »
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Comment on: I don't like him like that - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Who's to say they're not trying to make us all go away.
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You DON'T want to be her friend -- you want to change her mind. You want another shot. You want her to take you back. Be honest with yourself about your real motives here. Then decide whether you more »