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Posted 03/21/2014 11:41:56 EDT
I don't get why people think this kind of stuff is the same as porn. It is not. It's more like stalking, abuse and intimidation. It's really terrible and destructive and I would be very concerned if m more »
Posted 03/21/2014 11:40:12 EDT
So porn in which the participants engage willingly and knowingly and intentionally is the same as "porn" uploaded to shame, intimidate and hurt a former lover? Google the New York Times piece on reven more »
Posted 03/07/2014 09:59:41 EST
Again, thank you. I feel much better about my life decisions now.
Posted 03/03/2014 09:25:03 EST
1. Leave her alone. 2. Spend some time alone growing up. 3. Realize that love is a verb not a noun, and that one can act love even when you don't feel it -- despite what Hollywood would have you think more »
Posted 01/28/2014 12:04:06 EST
Divorced, gave the ring back (I know I didn't have to, wanted to) so he would save it for our daughter or son. It belonged to his grandmother. The thing was, I never wore it anyway. I hate rings and I more »
Posted 01/14/2014 12:01:39 EST
I wonder why (and this is a sincere question) people so often tend to think the only two possibilities are hurtful-but-"true" (whatever true means) or spare-feelings-but-false? Isn't there a middle gr more »
Posted 01/10/2014 11:33:57 EST
Yes, you can be in a committed relationship without being married, and I don't think you have to be married to have/raise children together successfully. But marriage is more than a "piece of paper." more »
Posted 01/03/2014 09:32:31 EST
"Dating for months and exclusive for weeks." Does this mean dating for 2 months, or 11? Exclusive for a week (and she didn't have time to take it down, yet) or, um, I guess three would be the most. So more »
Posted 12/10/2013 10:48:24 EST
That's my ideal, ESS: a duplex (y'all call them two-families up here.) You have your side, I have mine. We could last forever that way.
Posted 12/06/2013 09:20:26 EST
I'm really saddened, and astonished, that someone with such massive problems would turn to a newspaper columnist seeking help. Seriously? Maybe that suggests the real problem here, which, as with most more »
Posted 11/21/2013 09:35:46 EST
Amen and Amen.
Posted 11/12/2013 09:57:53 EST
Yeah. Stopped there. And LW is in her 30s. Pray for the future.
Posted 11/08/2013 12:11:10 EST
Or, she could ask herself why she needs him to say it. I mean, maybe she does really "need" that ... but so much of what we think we "need" we really don't. For me, it would be worth examining my own more »
Posted 11/04/2013 09:41:08 EST
Seriously. "That type of minimal communication?" You know, the one thing about LL is that makes me realize, really for the first time, the level of insanity men often have to put up with from women. more »
Posted 11/01/2013 09:43:35 EDT
I suppose this is some kind of in-group joke.
Posted 10/31/2013 10:56:47 EDT
What's weird is that I actually never set up this pen name, because I would not have chosen readergirl. In all seriousness, I somehow went to log on to Boston.com like a year ago and this came up. I f more »
Posted 10/31/2013 09:52:20 EDT
First, stop referring to yourself as a girl. At 37 years old, you're a woman. Or, rather, you should be. Second, stop thinking "relationships aren't always like in the movies." Relationships are NEVER more »
Posted 10/29/2013 06:41:30 EDT
And yet, defenders, the question remains: why darken your face at all? Wouldn't the outfit and the hair have done it? Should I chalk up my son's face before he goes out as Superman Thursday night?
Posted 10/29/2013 09:32:35 EDT
"I don't feel right when I'm not with you." That's not love. That's co-dependence. They're young, but better to learn to difference now.
Posted 10/28/2013 09:51:07 EDT
My question is this: do people with serious problems such as this REALLY write into an advice column as their sole, or even primary, source of advice and potential solution? Or is this a joke?
Posted 10/28/2013 09:44:46 EDT
Seriously? Why are you, and Meredith, tip-toeing around this? Your husband could kill himself ... or more likely, the way these things happen, someone else. How will you live with that? Sit him down r more »
Posted 10/17/2013 09:15:14 EDT
You know why. Not that it matters. (Man, I hate how lazy texting has made people.) If he wanted more he'd be asking for it; he does not. You do. Just stop responding and move on.
Posted 10/16/2013 11:20:17 EDT
Agreed. People who think a relationship is good because they never fight or disagree are either teenagers or aliens. (At least after 2 years. If a couple married 25 years tells me they never argue or more »
Posted 10/15/2013 09:42:42 EDT