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  • Posted 04/14/2015 09:33:54 EDT

    Um, she can have a child on her own. I have two friends who have done it and are happy as clams. What she cannot (or at least should not) do is have a child AND a relationship with a man who does not more »

  • Posted 04/14/2015 09:29:00 EDT

    I'm sorry. He's already given you his answer. If you really want children, you know what you have to do -- and ASAP. Most men who already have kids and then hook up with a younger chick will just go a more »

  • Posted 04/09/2015 09:12:08 EDT

    Every sentence contradicts itself. "We didn't click but there was an immediate sexual attraction." "We never got closer but we grew closer." I don't know whether this is impressive or frightening. Or more »

  • Posted 04/07/2015 01:50:05 EDT

    I don't think it's insulting. I think it acknowledges that men are not the mindreaders women so often expect them to be. If you want jewelry for your birthday, tell him. If you want him to leave the t more »

  • Posted 04/07/2015 09:46:39 EDT

    First of all, Aziz Ansari is confusing love with romance and cathexing. This is not uncommon. It is also incredibly destructive. Love is not ephemeral.   As for the LW, she can make a move but my gues more »

  • Posted 04/02/2015 09:44:49 EDT

    "I seem to be constantly interested in someone new."  Is there a problem here? I guess that depends on how you define problem. If not being capable of true intimacy and connection with another human b more »

  • Posted 03/29/2015 12:41:43 EDT

    RIP, sir. An admirable life. I hope this story makes people shovel their damn sidewalks. It infuriates me when I see clean driveways and impassable sidewalks. Not clearing your sidewalk (or paying som more »

  • Posted 03/29/2015 12:41:40 EDT

    RIP, sir. An admirable life. I hope this story makes people shovel their damn sidewalks. It infuriates me when I see clean driveways and impassable sidewalks. Not clearing your sidewalk (or paying som more »

  • Posted 03/18/2015 09:10:24 EDT

    Are people on dating sites really looking for friends, or is that just what they tell themselves (and the people they want to, um, yeah?) I guess I'm old because I don't get that at all. I have plenty more »

  • Posted 03/03/2015 09:42:09 EST

    I was going to ask, "Why in the world would you keep beating this carcass?" But I know why. And I'm sorry. Because that horse is dead, dead, dead. more »

  • Posted 02/19/2015 09:33:10 EST

    Constant relentless misogyny is so tedious. Yawn. more »

  • Posted 02/19/2015 09:30:54 EST

    She needs to find a behavioral therapist. And to read a book by that guy who discovered he was a sociopath, and who managed to find some therapy that helped him modify his behavior to better support h more »

  • Posted 02/19/2015 09:27:22 EST

    She probably made the decision to marry the guy alone. Look how that turned out. There is nothing wrong -- and in fact great wisdom -- in seeking counsel, help and support when faced with such a major more »

  • Posted 02/15/2015 01:32:15 EST

    Fewer people on the roads, not less. Either you (the reporter) or Baker need to look it up. more »

  • Posted 02/12/2015 09:16:30 EST

    Here is what I've learned after years of this: don't emotionally invest for at least the first three months. Don't invest big for a year. more »

  • Posted 02/10/2015 09:41:09 EST

    What's interesting is that men think women are crazy. more »

  • Posted 02/05/2015 11:55:59 EST

    Are you any good at it? I used to think I wasn't interested in sex too. Then I got divorced and had good sex for the first time. Turns out, I am interested. Very. Most men are not nearly as good as th more »

  • Posted 02/02/2015 09:20:37 EST

    I don't care. But it should be "fewer dates" instead of "less dates." more »

  • Posted 01/28/2015 09:25:43 EST

    Is his name Mark? I think I dated him. The phrase "overly-busy" is a flag. He's not overly-busy, he's busy: with his friends, family, life... and probably other women too. If you can compartmentalize more »

  • Posted 01/27/2015 09:29:46 EST

    Um, it doesn't really sound as if he's mistreating her. It sounds as if he's a) keeping his distance and setting boundaries and b) a guy who has made it clear he's not interested in her. If she's mise more »

  • Posted 01/26/2015 09:33:17 EST

    "I didn't realize you were that much of a princess."

    Stopped reading right there. Whoops, there it is.

    Sorry, hon. Over. more »

  • Posted 01/22/2015 09:37:33 EST

    This is not a grass-is-greener letter. This is a wants-cake-and-wants-to-eat-it-too letter. Sorry, can't. Decide. Do. Whatever. more »

  • Comment on: Text From an Ex

    Posted 01/13/2015 09:34:43 EST

    Yes. more »

  • Posted 01/09/2015 10:21:29 EST

    I love how women who can't make themselves attracted to a man who is out-of-shape are vain and superficial, but men who don't like overweight women....well, never mind. more »

  • Posted 01/09/2015 10:19:21 EST

    I wish there was a pill for this. I wish those wiz kids at MIT would get on it. Seriously, it would be like the female Viagra. Think about how many problems it would solve. I have met probably two doz more »