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  • Posted 10/05/2015 09:46:49 EDT

    I have discussed how I feel with him several times in the last few months.

    If you've lived together for 5 months, were you having these discussions like right after moved in together?

  • Posted 10/05/2015 09:38:18 EDT

    I know it takes time to get used to living with someone for the first time.

    Luckily it didn't take you long to start score keeping and build up years worth of resentment.

  • Posted 10/05/2015 09:30:14 EDT

    It didn't work out that way, and we moved a bit closer to his job. My commute is now an hour longer each way and his is 10 minutes longer ----------------- When you live with someone, you can find lot more »

  • Posted 10/05/2015 09:23:49 EDT

    When I think of the future, I don't know if this is what I want anymore as a result. ------------------ Tell me about it. "Marriage? Family? They're prisons! Man-made prisons. You're doing time. You g more »

  • Posted 10/05/2015 09:18:56 EDT

    He does make an effort and tries but it doesn't feel like enough to me.

    People get judged on their effort now? Since when? more »

  • Posted 10/05/2015 09:17:10 EDT

    I decided to break up with him but he has been trying hard to get me to stay ---------------- You've broken up with him or you've threatened to break up with him? You talk like breaking up is still up more »

  • Posted 10/05/2015 09:13:15 EDT

    He's made an effort with cleaning and buying me flowers ------------- He probably did some quick math and figured that the cost of buying you flowers is a lot cheaper than the cost of trying to pay re more »

  • Posted 10/05/2015 09:11:30 EDT

    I feel like I am sacrificing more and it's starting to weigh on me. ------------------ Sacrificing is all part of living with someone. I wonder if the relationship was better would you notice how much more »

  • Posted 10/02/2015 08:43:54 EDT

    I'm constantly worried I'm self-sabotaging or having him think I'm this jealous control freak (I'll admit I am). -------------- There are lots of people out there who are jealous control freaks who ge more »

  • Posted 10/02/2015 08:38:09 EDT

    I've also picked up the habit of stalking his ex-girlfriend on Facebook and Instagram. -------------- Has he given you any indication that he's still interested in her or they still spend a lot of tim more »

  • Posted 10/02/2015 08:25:03 EDT

    However, after we parted ways and he returned to school, our conversations haven't been like our summertime chats -------------- Now that he's back in school and can't focus all his attention on you, more »

  • Posted 10/02/2015 08:19:43 EDT

    while our sex was amazing and we got along and laughed together, I couldn't help but feel overrun with anxiety about our future and the nature of our relationship. ---------------- You're 22, stop wor more »

  • Posted 10/02/2015 08:15:54 EDT

    I asked him about this and he said he's not upset with me and that there's no problem with our relationship, so i suppose I'm just freaking out because of my anxiety. ------------------ Ya think? It s more »

  • Posted 10/01/2015 09:27:32 EDT

    He wishes he "could give me the world" and doesn't fault me if I go do my own thing

    He's allowing you to masturbate? more »

  • Posted 10/01/2015 09:15:02 EDT

    That he's stringing me along until something better comes along?

    Even if he were to "make a commitment" he could still do this, he just wouldn't be so open about it. more »

  • Posted 10/01/2015 09:09:59 EDT

    Am I being blind to some other truth here? That he will never commit to me ------------------- If he recently got out of a three and a half year relationship, I'd say making commitments isn't his issu more »

  • Posted 10/01/2015 09:06:15 EDT

    He said that he wants "us" but just can't right now ------------- Can he not commit right now because there is someone else or he wants to keep his options open, or is that he isn't ready to jump into more »

  • Posted 10/01/2015 09:03:55 EDT

    He wishes he "could give me the world" and doesn't fault me if I go do my own thing, but that he doesn't want to lose me and can't imagine his life without me. ------------- It sounds like he might be more »

  • Posted 10/01/2015 09:00:15 EDT

    I am in love with him and I see a future with him, but I don't know how long I am supposed to wait. -------------- You already know there isn't a set amount of time for anyone to wait. If you feel he more »

  • Posted 10/01/2015 08:57:16 EDT

    We had another drunken discussion about this the other night.

    That's my favorite kind. more »

  • Comment on: Her ex died

    Posted 09/30/2015 10:10:12 EDT

    I try to be understanding and sympathetic.

    "I can't promise I'll try, but I'll try to try." more »

  • Comment on: Her ex died

    Posted 09/30/2015 09:48:45 EDT

    – She's grieving

    Are you trying to out grieve her? She's grieving because she lost someone close, and you're grieving because you think she's grieving too much. GRIEVEFEST 2015 more »

  • Comment on: Her ex died

    Posted 09/30/2015 09:43:37 EDT

    But it's nonetheless hard – extremely hard – to silently swallow and listen to her talk about the pain of losing another man. ---------------- So when you started dating someone who had an ex-husb more »

  • Comment on: Her ex died

    Posted 09/30/2015 09:35:17 EDT

    In the early days I was uncomfortable with the idea she still worked so closely with her ex, but I eventually got over it because I realized it was no threat. -------------------- I'm going to guess h more »

  • Comment on: Her ex died

    Posted 09/30/2015 09:28:34 EDT

    She's been understandably distraught and in anguish ever since. And meanwhile, I've been largely shut out. ---------------- I'm assuming you wouldn't want to be involved much in what was going on anyw more »

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