January 24, 2005 8:28 PM

How to handle setbacks
Posted by Jason Butlerat 8:28 PM

Believe it or not, even your humble job bloggers have been known to commit the occasional CLM*.

What to do? Leave in a huff, leave in disgrace, or get back in the game?

You'll probably be angry with those who shot you down and jealous of whoever trumped you. You'll vow to short the company's stock and go work for its nearest competitor, or at least think bad thoughts about the organization forever. Perhaps you'll feel so terrible that you'll consider quitting on the spot.

Well, don't do any of this, at least not abruptly and in a huff. You'll be amazed at how quickly these feelings pass. Your career isn't over, probably not even stalled. Faster than you imagine, you can again become a Golden Boy or Gal -- if you display maturity and poise. In fact, your ability to play (and truly be) a gracious loser will speak volumes about your suitability as a future team member and leader.