October 24, 2008

Cycling on the mommy track

By Jennifer Blaise Kramer

Here's an unlikely disclaimer for this column: I haven't been on two wheels in more than two years.

It's true. I relegated my bike to the basement when I got pregnant and figured I'd spend the next decade of parenting shuffling between car and stroller. It was just too terrifying to think about getting both of us on board, riding steadily, and not crashing into crazy Cambridge traffic - all while not being able to see my little one, who's probably bawling behind me.

I was fine with my decision until a few of my friends started showing up to playgrounds and play dates via bicycle with their babies in tow. They made it look so effortless and European, as if all they needed in life was a basket for their daily baguette and a seat for their babe. So how hard is it to outfit a bike for baby? Since my daughter is not yet 1 year old, which state law requires for babies to ride (Read: the pressure's off for a road test!), I've decided there's no harm in doing a little research.

My curiosity spiked on a warm Sunday afternoon at a birthday party in Somerville when a couple cruised over with their 14-month-old. Alison Nathan, 32, of Cambridge, just hopped off her bike and grabbed little Henry. I assumed that since she was the sporty type who runs half-marathons, it all came easily to her, but it turns out she hadn't really done much biking since college and wanted to get back into it. When summer rolled around, she decided to make the move and the investment with all-new gear, which, she admits, "is not a cheap endeavor."

"There was more discussion on what kind of bike to get than the seat. I knew getting on and off had to be easier than my mountain bike," she says.

Though she really wanted a cruiser, Ace Wheelworks in Somerville recommended something other than a one-speed when you have a 30-pound baby on the back. Instead she settled on a Trek hybrid with the frame of a cruiser and the handlebars of a mountain bike. Then she added a CoPilot baby seat, a basket, two helmets, and a more supportive double kickstand, for a total of about $700.

"When we first put him back there, he screamed bloody murder," Nathan says of Henry, adding that it took about four rides to get him to settle down.

The biggest adjustment for Henry was the helmet, but now he asks to wear his "hat" even in the car. For Alison, it was the starting and stopping that were tough with the extra weight and learning to take wider turns.

"It's very liberating, getting back on the bike," she says. "I'm able to grocery shop, go to the playground, and be out without getting into the car, plus he's outside all morning and not in his car seat."

Alexi Dolloff-Brammer, a sales clerk at Ace Wheelworks, says as soon as a baby can sit up, support his own neck, and wear a helmet, he or she can ride in a trailer, such as the Burley, which is pulled behind the bike. Trailers let the babies (plural if you want two kids to sit side by side) and even pups (yes, they even make them for pets) recline and sleep in the back, while strapped in, and some models convert off the bike for jogging, strolling, or skiing.

"The primary benefit of a trailer over a baby seat in the back is that it pivots so if you fall over, it can stay up," Dolloff-Brammer says. However, given their low profile, which makes them harder to see on the side of the road, adding a flag is a good idea.

At 1 year, babies can ride in baby seats. Rear-mounting seats are most commonly used, and all a bike needs to adapt are mounting points for the seat rack. Some find front-mounting seats easier for keeping an eye on the baby, although they don't fit with all handlebar sizes and are harder to find. Dolloff-Brammer says his store doesn't carry them because they don't pass safety testing and can make the bike harder to steer.

Whether it's a trailer, mounted bike seat, or the trail-a-bike attachment for older kids, any new piece of gear takes some getting used to. Since I started this research, I've spotted all sorts of combinations around the city and almost always the kids are smiling, and so are the parents - which is very encouraging.

My friend Alison says, "avoid Mass. Ave. at all costs," and nearly everyone recommends sticking to the bike paths for a good while to get the hang of it.

"Take it slow, and wear a helmet," advises Dolloff-Brammer. "You don't want to get yourself injured when you have a baby to take care of."

Once you get brave enough for city streets, consider joining an organized tour, such as Urban Adventours in Boston, which offers baby seats and trailers, along with a few pros to help. While there are a lot of organized exercise groups for new moms, like Strollerobics, we have yet to find a group that caters to biking with baby. If you know of any, please let us know!

Readers, have you been back on a bike lately? See it as a good release from -- or complement to -- parenting? Let us know in our comments section below.

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  1. I am sorry. Drivers in Boston are horrible and people open there doors all the time. Most streets are not wide enough for a bike and traffic. I would never risk my child's life when so much is out of my control (ie. drivers erratic behavior). Riding in the countryside or on bike baths in a park is one thing, the streets are another. Just my opinion.

    Posted by Fred October 24, 08 09:04 AM
  1. My wife and I are into riding for health reasons. One of the places we ride is the Cape Cod Canal. The paved road is shared with walkers, joggers, inline skaters and cyclists. It is good to see families riding with young children on their own bikes but, what we often see is that little training is given as to which side of the road (trail) kids should ride on. Often times kids just ride all over the road which is dangerous as they do not look for anything (skaters, bikes, runners) coming in the opposite direction. Please take the time to educate young riders as to the rules of the road not only for their safety but, for the safety of others that try to avoid collisions!

    Posted by Frank Guardabascio October 24, 08 03:20 PM
  1. My husband and I are decidedly non-athletic but we do enjoy biking as a family, which includes two 10-year-olds (step siblings, not twins) and our younger sons, ages 2 and 4. We have a Burley-style trailer that's great for the youngest ones and provides quite a workout for whoever tows it (it also provides quite a bit of storage, so we can load up on drinks and snacks or even pack a blanket and lunch for long rides). Our oldest son likes to bike and has been on his own for 5 years, our daughter is not as comfortable so for long rides we use a tandem attached to one of our bikes, which is a blast. We live in the burbs so we bike everywhere in the summer to run errands, etc. and enjoy biking around Boston but tend to stick to trails when we try new places. I would encourage anyone with kids to give it a try - I hadn't been on a bike in over 10 years when we started and I can't imagine not doing this now.

    Posted by Jen October 24, 08 04:00 PM
  1. As someone who walks, bikes, rollerblades, and drives mostly around Somerville, Cambridge, and Arlington, I see many people using many forms of transportation. I try to be more open-minded about someone behaving casually or maybe just being lazy (i.e.: jaywalking, unclear biking turns, etc...). But those actions paired with crazy drivers, poorly marked bike lanes (have you ever actually tried to navigate it down Mass Ave? You'd be dead if you followed it perfectly.), heavy foot and car traffic, pedestrians not paying attention, dog owners using their leashes as trip-wires, and people double-parked with their flashers on makes biking really really challenging. A few years ago I would see the same woman every morning biking down Mass Ave by Porter with her yellow trailer behind her. Sure she had a flag but in the middle of all that traffic if something had happened would anyone have noticed? No way. Every morning she would squeeze through spots that were fine for her bike but not the trailer and truly was putting her kids in danger. It made me crazy. I am an avid biker and have a young daughter. I love taking her outside and am thrilled that I will be able to bike places with her soon, but given all the variables city riding is NO place for a trailer. Bike path or side roads only!!!

    Posted by Tracy October 24, 08 08:42 PM
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