Don’t make excuses for him.
“Women too often ignore or excuse the fact that he likes you but he’s not liking you enough,” said Laurent. “Women go into denial: ‘He’s really busy, so I can’t freak out that it’s been a week since I’ve seen him and he hasn’t really asked me out again.’ But that’s a clear message because any guy, even if he’s the most dubious guy on earth, he’s going to call you. By week three, you should be able to see what patterns are happening. If it’s not improving over time and he’s not planning ahead and dinners are turning into a quick drink at the local bar, you need to re-evaluate and weed out who is going to be a waste of time.”