4. Men and strip clubs (Feb. 7)
Her fiancé is planning a trip to a strip club with friends from work., and it bugs her. She’s bothered that another woman is going, too, and that he’ll be blowing money there that they are supposed to be saving for a house and a wedding. “Knowing that men go to strip clubs to see beautifully-sculpted naked women (and pay them to be their eye candy) makes me resentful that he isn’t satisfied with what he has at home. I will give myself credit and say that I am a stunning young woman, who could stand to lose a few pounds, but nevertheless I am very good-looking and like to make my man happy. Is this irrational? Am I crazy to get so upset by this, and do I just have to let it go? Or do I have a right to voice my concerns without seeming like a nagging girlfriend who can’t let her man go to a strip club for a weekend.”
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