Dear Becca and Casey,
My daughter, the Groom's (my wife's brother) niece, was asked to be the flower girl in his wedding months ago. We've ordered her dress and she was excited about the wedding. Yesterday, 3 months prior to the wedding, my brother-in-law told my wife he expected my daughter to go home after the ceremony as no kids are invited to the wedding. My wife and I are very upset and feel that our daughter should be allowed to enjoy a meal and some dancing as part of the wedding party. Are we out of line?
Defending my daughter
You're not exactly out of line, but you may need a perspective correction. While I can understand where you're coming from, at the end of day the bride and groom have decided to invite children for the ceremony only and it's their call to make. I'm sure they have their reasons and that the decision was not easy. As you are a member of the family, I say take the high road, swallow the inconvenience. and accept your daughter's participation as a gesture of inclusion and love. Your sole purpose as guest is to celebrate the couple as best you can, while you can. I know when I was growing up it was adventure enough to have a night in a dress, even with a babysitter!
Best of luck,
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