We chatted with the ladies of Bravo’s new dating docu-series, “Miss Advised” (on Mondays at 10 p.m.), to discuss a common singleton’s conundrum: Why?!?!?

Julia Allison, ELLE.com’s “Guinea Pig of Love” blogger; host of the Sex with Emily podcast series, Emily Morse; and professional matchmaker, Amy Laurent, gave their top reasons why relationships go wrong, why first dates aren’t successful, and why women are still single.