They’ve wracked up sky-high cell phone bills talking about invitation fonts and centerpieces and the latest drama with your in-laws. They’ve footed the bill for over-the-top bachelor parties and feigned interest in cheesy shower games. They’ve ordered the tea-length fuchsia gowns and agreed (to your face, at least) that oh yes, we can definitely wear these again.

Point is, you owe your bridesmaids and your groomsmen. They are your friends, brothers, sisters, and siblings-in-law, and you couldn’t have done this whole wedding thing without them. Thank your attendants with a golf outing, a day at the spa, or with classes at a local yoga studio. Or, if you want to go the more tangible route, give them gifts they can use again and for years to come.