The diaper-free way

Here's how to begin with a young baby:

Observe your baby's elimination patterns. This can be done by putting the baby on an absorbent pad for an hour or so and simply watching when he or she eliminates. You can also wear the baby in a sling, because you'll know right away when the child eliminates. Take notes if you like.

Choose a signal to cue your baby to go. The most popular one is ''sss," the sound of running water. Start using that signal every time your baby eliminates.

Select a ''toilet place" or receptacle. Use the same place for the first few weeks so that the baby associates it with elimination. One of the most popular places at the beginning is the bathroom sink.

How to hold the baby: Hold the baby's thighs in your hands, while supporting the back and head with your chest. You're essentially helping the baby squat in your arms while you hold the child over the potty or sink.

Try to read the baby's signals and cues. Here are some examples: slowing down or becoming quiet; kicking legs; staring into space; tensing abdominal muscles; grunting. Some parents teach their older babies a hand sign for potty (thumb between first two fingers).

Decide if you really can commit to this method. It takes practice and effort over months and months of trying. It's important not to pressure the child or have specific time goals.

Accidents are a normal part of the process. It's important not to feel guilty about your misses, and it's important not to blame the child. Just clean up and move on.

Infant potty training can be done using diapers as a backup, or with no diapers. It can be done full time, or simply at nights and on weekends, if your child is in day care.

SOURCE: ''INFANT POTTY BASICS" BY LAURIE BOUCKE