When the crying won't stop

The typical baby cries one to two hours a day; 15 percent cry for more than three hours.

If nothing works to calm your baby, place her safely in the crib to cry it out while you calm yourself.

That's always better than yelling, or hitting or shaking the baby.

For free, 24-hour help, call the Massachusetts Parental Stress Line, 800-632-8188.

When your baby seems inconsolable, run through this checklist:

Does she need to be fed or burped? Feed an infant when she's hungry, not strictly by a schedule.

Is the diaper wet or dirty? Too tight?

Is the baby too hot or cold? Feverish? Sweaty neck or red ears are signs of overheating. Remove or loosen a layer. If hands or feet are cold, add a layer. If you suspect illness, call the pediatrician. Don't be shy!

Does he need to suck? Guide his fingers to his mouth, or offer a pacifier.