Mormon TV: Harvard video goes viral
A 20-year-old Harvard junior from Idaho has captured the attention of Mormondom with the slow viral spread of a six-month-old video (above) in which she explains her faith to journalist Sally Quinn.
The bloggernacle, as Mormon wags call the extensive network of Mormon bloggers, is abuzz over Rachel Esplin's poised handling of a series of questions about whether she wears sacred undergarments, how she responds to allegations that Mormonism is a cult, how she views the role of women in her church, and what her relationship is with Jesus. "For more than 20 minutes, Rachel's delivery was as unstoppable as the incoming tide,'' gushed MormonTimes. "What is fascinating about this video is the aplomb with which Rachel answers the questions,'' writes Krista at Glass Half Full. "I feel very inadequate now!" blogged Chels of the McGees. And Mark Towner, who blogs as The Captains Spyglass, called the video, "Something every Latter Day Saint Member needs to watch and contemplate."
The video is not exactly a clip from the Colbert Report or the Daily Show -- it's 21 minutes long, without a joke in sight. But the video appears to have captured the attention of Mormons, who tend to be highly attentive to and concerned about how they are perceived in the broader culture. The fascination seems to be in part because of Esplin's youth, and in part because she is at Harvard, which, of course, remains a symbol of the mainstream elite.
Esplin, from Blackfoot, Idaho, is the president of the Harvard Latter-day Saint Student Association. She is also an East Asian Studies major who is planning to get married this summer and expects to graduate in December; she hopes eventually to go to law school. Earlier today I called her to ask her about the video, which is posted on the web site of Harvard Hillel, where the panel on which Esplin appeared took place. Here's a partial transcript of our conversation:
Q: What has happened since the video was posted in September?
A: It's been pretty crazy. I didn't even send it to my family members, but my mom found it by Googling my name, and it just started getting e-mailed around. Some BYU professors started showing it and forwarding it, and then a lot of people told me they watched it in seminary or at family home evening.
Q: Why do you think people are so interested in this particular video?
A: I think people latched onto the fact that I'm 20, and haven't been on mission, and haven't been to the temple yet. And I think Harvard is part of it -- there's a significant LDS presence here, with 50 undergrads, and 50 or 60 at the law school, and some at the business school -- and Mormons have a history at Harvard back to the late 1800s, and a couple of our apostles went to Harvard, so in addition to Harvard being Harvard in the world at large, in the LDS community it has a particular significance.
Q: How has this impacted you?
A: It has been a really strange feeling. I know interfaith discussions like this are happening all over, so it's strange that mine has become so popular, and it's something it didn't necessarily merit. But it's helped me realize that doing things like this, and finding ways to encourage others to do so, is significant. Last spring I organized a "Meet the Mormons" panel at Harvard, and it was a good event, and now I'm working with the LDS Association president at MIT to help other schools do similar events.
Q: What's the goal?
A: There are a few different goals. We believe it's just a good way to show our religion, to show we love everyone, and that we're interested in learning about other people and hope others will learn about us. And this was born out of a time when our religion was in the news a lot, with Mitt Romney and other factors -- a lot is written about us in the media, and it's not all true, so there's a desire to clarify misconceptions. And then, I guess I believe in the idea that one of the best ways to help build our church is to establish friends who are not in the church.



Not to distract from Rachel's poised performance, but - -
Inevitably Mormons claim to be misunderstood and misrepresented in the media. Two things that contribute to this:
Modern-day Mormon doctrine is a confusing mix of official and personal "Mormon" beliefs. Each Mormon receives "personal revelation," and their church receives other revelations that may or may not be known generally, even among Mormons. The essential Mormon doctrine is, in two words, Joseph Smith. Almost everything else is negotiable. To illustrate: Mormons believe "God lives" because Joseph Smith said he met God in the woods in 1820. They know that the conventional understanding of God as the Trinity is wrong because Joseph Smith said he met not only God, but Christ, too, as two separate, physical beings. Some say both are Gods, as has their church; others say only one is God, as the church often implies, and the other an offspring. And so on.
In addition, the Mormon church was founded on careless accusations about other churches and their beliefs. (Famously: that "Presbyterianism is not true," as Joseph Smith said to his mother, as reported in Mormon scripture.) When not focused on wooing others it continues to misrepresent and speak rather unkindly about others. Its claim to be the only true church - - the only true Christian church - - is the foundation for many other aggravating doctrines and a confrontation that Mormons bemoan and blame on others.
Bob,
As a practicing Latter Day Saint for the last 35 years, I take issue with your statement that we "misrepresent and speak rather unkindly about others"-
In my own personal experience I have never, not even one time, heard anyone speak unkindly of another faith from the pulpit. The LDS church website has not one unflattering remark about another faith tradition.
Maybe what a Mormon bemoans is that untrue things about our religion are stated as fact by others. If someone told a lie about something sacred and important to you, would you bemoan such a thing?
Chances are, Lola, that in your 35 years as LDS you have not met with and listened to scores of eager young missionaries of your church. I have. I'll never bet on what one will say!
I have listened to testimonies and little talks in dozens of sacrament meetings and firesides - - usually bland, occasionally demeaning of another faith (not necessarily my own).
The literature of the church is filled with insults. Just one example: "The Strange Gods of Christendom" and "False Gods" - - used by LeGrand Richards in "A Marvelous Work and a Wonder" to describe the faith of all churches except his own, and yours.
At lds.org one can search out comments and teachings that offend others; there's lots of stuff at that site. Comments may seem tame (and true) to members, who are accustomed to the idea that everyone else is wrong. Look at what the church teaches in its student manuals, such as its statement that "the church of the devil" is every church other than the one true church. And so on; sorry to disturb you.
Now, now Bob,
Why would you think you disturbed me?
You leave me to wonder why, if the LDS church is such a bad thing, you would have listened to "scores of eager young missionaries" and "testimonies and little talks in dozens of sacrament meetings?" You did remind me of a comment I heard about the missionaries several years back. "The LDS Church must be true or the missionaries would have destroyed it long ago."
All of us who are of a religious tradition think we are right, whether we are Baptist, Methodist, Jewish or Mormon. Are you offended by all other religions who think they have the truth, or just the Mormons?
As a former missionary and a convert to the church. I would state that we are taught not to discuss other religions disparagingly. In fact our view is to merely offer what we have. The question as to whether other religions are true or not, is something that is imbedded in all religions. After all, if you seek that which is the way to salvation you do not do so by presuming Catholic, Islamic or Baptist are all equally valid or true.
In reading Mormon church history one will find it taught that god told Joseph Smith that all the religions on the earth were an abomination. This idea is not ecumenical in the least bit. When a missionary I taught, as instructed, that all churches were wrong, when explaining the "First Vision". That all religions were wrong was the purported answer Joseph received from God. Supposedly God said, "they draw near to me with their lips but their hearts are far from me."
The girl in the interview left out the part about..."their hearts are far from me."
Furthermore, when I attended the temple, film depicted a protestant
minister as under the influence of Satan. That right there says a lot about how Mormons feel in private about the other Christian sects. Lastly, the Book of Mormon teaches that all other religions are the church of the devil.
Small wonder other Christian religions are hesitant to include the Mormons in community of Christian churches.
As one who works with youth everyday, I can not help but admire the zeal of LDS youths and young adults and how much they stand out in a world become slave to computer games, baggy pants and skateboards. I don't pretend to understand the faith, but the family culture of the Morons leaves me wondering as a parent if I choose the right path for my children.
Let's remember Bob how few reglions send their youth out to represent them. That in it;\'s self is a powerful statement about theLDS.
Attaching yourself to any religious cult (christian, mormon, muslim, etc.) is just another form of power seeking.
Grow up children.
I am human as we all are and any one from any religion, even if they are a memeber of it, can make mistakes. I for one don't try and demean any religion even if I don't understand it altogether. I know that people often times, even Mormon's, may say things about others that are not right. The only way to wade thorough all this is understanding and being christ like. People don't make our church true it is the principles and doctrine that do. Our doctrine is misinterpreted and misunderstood by those that take a piece of it and then turn it to mean something that they actually think it means to their understanding. Whether this is done to demean or done out of good intent it still is misinterpreted or misunderstood. The deep doctrine can be confusing and without a lot of studying, looking into, and talking to someone that is a scholoar then the whole concept cannot be conceived. I do believe that there can only be only one true church, one faith one baptism. How can you believe that you can be saved if you aren't baptised by one holding the right authority. This doesn't mean that what other churches teach is all untrue or that they are bad. I find that other churches have a lot of truths and really teach their congregations great things. I also believe that there are some people out in the world that follow the gospel better than some Mormons. I believe that all people that are not Mormon will have a chance to go to the Kingdom of God. This doesn't distract from the promise of Moroni in the Book of Mormon which states that if you do read the Book of Mormon with real intent that you will find the truth and that is that the Book of Mormon is true scripture. I encourage all that reads this to do just that and I promise you that if you follow this promise you too will find that this book is true and if this book is true then you will know that Joseph Smith is a true prophet and if he is a true prophet then you will know that the he did see God and Jesus and through him they set up the true church again upon this earth. I believe it is important enough to challenge yourself to find out and you too will find your eyes will be opened.
Mitch
Mitch - I just wanted to comment here and thank you for your words. I (as well as many others I'm sure) couldn't have stated it more clearly. What Mitch said rings true 110% and those that have doubts or want to speak lowly about the Mormon church should read Mitch's statement before doing so. After all, we as children of God are told not to judge others. Jesus Christ is and always will be the judge of us and our actions.
I take great umbrage at this article and video. first, "a good way to show our religion", isn't that "your mission" as a mormon (i didn't capitalize the m because the religion does not deserve it) to try to convert as many people as you can to your religion? I will say this: maybe instead of sending mormons all over the world on "their mission" let's send them to all the countries who hide and train terrorists to kill innocent children and adults in countries like Iraq, Iran, Afghanistan,,Pakistan, and then maybe you could stop the extremists. but I think not because you are extremists as well and who like them ,hide behind the church or faith or whatever you want to call it. I read a book called "Leaving the Saints" and inside was a quote :"They say that religion is for people who are afraid of going to hell, and spirituality is for people who've been there.". You decide !!!
agree with Mitch and Todd. Nicely said Mitch ;)
I do wish there was some sort of logical way for me to explain why I am a Mormon... at the same time I wish I could have people feel what I feel when I read the book of Mormon or hear our leaders speak. But even when I can not have you touch with your eyes or see with your eyes what I experience I know these feelings are real and not only are these feelings real but they encourage me to be a better man. They make me want to serve my Heavenly Father by helping his children, for when we are in the service of our fellow man we are only in the service of God.
On the other hand, the book of Mormon you can see it and touch it, and from just reading it you can start to feel these feelings of joy and peace that I was just talking about and get closer to Heavenly Father. Is this not a good thing, even a great thing?
We can talk for days about doctrine and we can discussed why someone said this and that... at the end of the day it will be our actions that speak. I am happy to to be able to lift up my head hight and say that we Mormons are always willing to help our neighbourds, as a church and as individuals. It is something I learnt to do since I was a little boy growing up in the church. We even leave our homes and school and everything we have for two years to go help the Lord, we come from different education backgrounds and cultures. And I swear we have the best intentions to serve wherever we are sent, even if sometimes we fall short to show it do to our young age and lack of experience. But we don't excuse ourselves for the message because it is a message we have lived in our homes and experienced in our lives, and it's beautiful!
Marco said,
..."I wish I could have people feel what I feel when I read the book of Mormon or hear our leaders speak. "
Anytime a pleasant story is shared one can be made to feel good.
I remember listening to Paul H. Dunn stories and wonderfully inspiring stories they were. I felt so good when I heard him or read what he wrote.
"Feeling good" I later discovered has nothing to do with the truth of what I heard. You see Paul Dunn was later found to be a fraud. His stories were fabrications and he soon became a former General Authority. He never played pro baseball for the St. Louis Cardinals nor did many of his wars stories ever happen. Yet many faithful members thought the spirit was making them feel good and confirming the truth of what this charlatan was saying.
Now regarding the Book Of Mormon, if one wants to believe something bad enough one will believe. However if one wants to truly study the Book Of Mormon there needs to be an analysis of the anachronisms i.e. the numbers passages from the King James Bible which was published in 1611. How can the Book Of Mormon which supposedly was written from 600 BC to around 400 AD have passages from a piece of literature written many years later. The King James Bible didn't exist when the BOM purportedly was created.
However it was around when Joseph Smith and Oliver Cowdery (cousin) decided to publish the Book Of Mormon. Not only was the KJV of the bible plagiarized but so were many Revolutionary War writings. The Title of Liberty was taken from Revolutionary war correspondence. Further, many of the geographic names were taken right out of the area Joseph Smith grew up. A google search will readily show this.
So feeling good about something doesn't make it true anymore than feeling good about your favorite football team winning the Super Bowl.
I find it interesting that the "Mormon haters" really are so hateful. If the religion is false then what does it matter what they say or do? It is also interesting to read about "former" Mormons who did something awful in their life by their own choice and now condemn the church that tried to keep them from going down that path. I just think if you don't want to be a Mormon, don't join their church. If you used to belong and now are disaffected with it, just shut up and let other people enjoy what they want. I don't get all the hostility, the Mormons are usually pretty nice people.
The comment about the garments were not really clear. All other religions wear there religious clothes for all to see. Example, priests, nuns, etc. We as Mormons wear our garments close to out hearts so only the Lord knows how we feel about him and how important out religious beliefs are to him
It would be nice to hear a Mormon field some questions about the real issues facing Mormonism for once, like,
#1. How do you explain the fact that Mormons discriminated against blacks based soley upon their race, by denying them the priesthood and entry to their temples for 120 years of their history, especially given the fact that Joseph Smith gave blacks like Elijah Able the priesthood?
#2 How do you reconcile the fact that the Book of Mormon claims that American Indians are descended from an evil race of Jews (Lamanites) with the genetic science, which has proven that Native Americans are not descended from Jews, but are in fact descended from Mongolians?
#3. How do you reconcile the fact that Joseph Smith 'married' the wives of 11 other men (according to the Mormon's own geneological records on FamilySearch.org) with D&C 132:61-63 (Mormon scriptures) which calls that practice (polyandry) adultery?
Once a Mormon can answer those questions honestly, they might be taken seriously, until then, it's just nonsense.
It always astonishes me to see how vocally hostile some people are to my Mormon faith.
I think I can truthfully say that I feel no such hostility toward anybody else's. In fact, quite the contrary. (And I spend much of my time thinking and speaking and writing about other faiths.) Nor do I hear such hostility in the Mormon services that I attend (and have attended on every inhabited continent).
There is, I think, real significance in the difference.
I find it funny when people in the mormon church cry victim and play the persecution card. Or they project their lack of morality on those who have left the mormon faith.
Let’s see what kind of morals and hatred the so called inspired prophets of God preached from their pulpits. Not only did the mormon church teach this vileness but also fought against civil rights for blacks. Do your research and find out for yourself. Make up your own mind, don’t let anyone convince you. You be the judge.
Brigham Young, 2nd President of the church
"Shall I tell you the law of God in regard to the African race? If the white man who belongs to the chosen seed mixes his blood with the seed of Cain, the penalty, under the law of God, is death on the spot. This will always be so." (Brigham Young, Journal of Discourses, Volume 10, page 110.)
John Taylor, President of the Church
“And after the flood we are told that the curse that had been pronounced upon Cain was continued through Ham's wife, as he had married a wife of that seed. And why did it pass through the flood? because it was necessary that the devil should have a representation upon the earth as well as God;...” Journal of Discourses, Vol. 22, page 304
Wilford Woodruff, 4th President of the Church
"And if any man mingle his seed with the seed of Cain the only way he could get rid of it or have Salvation would be to come forward and have his head cut off and spill his blood upon the ground- it would also take the life of his children."
(Wilford Woodruff Journal)
Joseph Fielding Smith, 10th LDS President
"Not only was Cain called upon to suffer, but because of his wickedness he became the father of an inferior race.” The Way to Perfection, pages 101-102.
Inferior race? Kill those who intermarry with blacks? Kill their children too? cut their heads off? Representatives of satan?
This here says it all. These men were no more inspired than a Grand Wizard of the KKK. Call that hatred? I'm just stating the facts.
RE: Sr Dave ;)
I understand completely what you are saying. That's why I said I wish there was a logical way for me to explain why I'm a Mormon. There really isn't. And if people felt good when Sr Paul Dunn was speaking then it was probably because the spirit was testifying according to the faith of the listeners of the truthfulness that the principales he was teaching were correct. It was not testifying necessarily testifying that his stories were true.
then again I didn't intend to convince anyone that what we believe is true. I think it's impossible. It is a path that has to be chosen personally through study and free agency. We do learn true principales in the church and after studying pondering and praying we decide through free agency if what we feel and learn is from our Heavenly Father and then we act upon it. That is the beauty of it. If you decide it's not something you want for yourself you still can't say is not good because of the fruits that you have receive, which are peace, joy, happiness etc etc...
Sr. Stan Green,
If we are never going to agree in some points, and apparently you have made up your mind in some specific ones (3 of them =D) we can at least talk about using the things that we do have in common to do good. That would be more productive no? I'm sure we'll find something...
How many times have Mormons failed to answer your questions honestly, Seth Green?
I won't bother to try because it is obvious that I, nor any other LDS, is privy to the right answer. On top of that I can't be taken seriously. Wow.
Bob:
Joseph Smith's story which relates his account of being told all the other religions and traditions were wrong is an indelible part of our historical underpinning. However, that is an entirely different prospect from overtly teaching one's congregant's Mormon's aren't Christian (ie are going to burn forever in hell's everlasting fire). Our theology posits a God who grants 99.9999% of his children some level of salvation whether Mormon, Baptist, Atheist or Buddhist. Mormon's have no "attack dog" ministries as do mainstream Christians.
Mr. Stan Green et al:
#1 The kingdom of God stands independent of racial culturalism--meaning, God's work cannot necessarily be viewed through a lens of what we may consider racist or not. If one believes in the Bible than one believes the rights of the Priesthood are delegated to different people at differing times, according to God's will and purposes, not because a green man dislikes a yellow man. Remember that Mormons were staunch abolutionists, which was even one of Joseph Smith's U.S. Presidency candidacy platforms. They believed wholely in the freedom and equality of all men--as we do today.
#2 That science is not proven and continues to be debated among scientists to the present day.
#3 Joseph Smith never married a woman who remained married to another man.
I have answered honestly.
Let me at least make a short attempt at being honest with Stan R, though space won't allow much. I'm in my fifties and grew up in Utah but then left for 25 years to pursue my profession, living in 6 countries and working in 40. Growing up in Utah, although we were aware of the priesthood exclusion practice, for most of us blacks (not just African-Americans) weren't really on our radar screen. There just weren't many (any in my school) around. When I did get to know some during summer work, they were extremely popular among the LDS youth. We elected one as our governor at Utah "Boys' State." There really wasn't a lot of prejudice. Though occasionally I would hear a racist comment, not from my parents, not from most of my friends or their parents or my church leaders, I have heard many many more racist comments from non-Mormons outside of Utah. As far as we were concerned growing up, we were just stuck with this odd practice that different people tried to explain in different ways and most of us looked forward to going away some day. Once most of us got out on missions, had more exposure to blacks and learned first hand that there are wonderful people of every race (again, as I had been taught but just not experience much), we began to really look forward to the day when the priesthood policy could be put behind us. There was a great rejoicing, a great relief among the Mormons I know when the practice of priesthood exclusion ended. Many shed tears at the news. We would honestly like to put this behind us. Of course people like you--with all due respect--I guess will never let us. If you don't want to believe that God was involved in all of this in the first place, that is one thing, and I suppose even understandable if you come from outside the faith—I for one firmly believe God was involved in our ending the practice—the beginning is more complex. But for you and others to not let us move on, is another thing. How many years must it be before people stop trying to make us into some kind of racist bigots because of a past practice? Again, I deny that I was ever taught bigotry; I was only taught that I had to have faith to accept this strange practice till the time was right for it to end. Thank God that was in my lifetime. I was one of those thrilled to put it behind us and again, assert with absolute confidence that that was the vast majority of us—in fact, though I would occasionally hear a rumor about a Mormon who didn’t like the change, I have never met one personally. (And I was living in Utah when it ended.) But tell me, Stan R., now this time you honestly, in two hundred years will we have put it behind us sufficiently for you to stop trying to use it against us? In 1000? Or will it be never good enough for you? There's my attempt at your first question--if it's really a question and not just an effort to kick at Mormons. I'll have to see if this answer will post at this length before I go on to the next.
Stan R. Question 2: What the Book of Mormon teaches about the "Lamanites" gets characterized in many ways, sometimes wrong even by some Mormons. The only good way to really know what it teaches about the Lamanites is to read it. It seemed to make sense to Mormon teachers in the past that this was a "history of the American Indians." LDS scholars today agree that it is much more complex than that, and to their credit, work to understand what science and archaeology and anthropology tell us that can further that understanding. But the book doesn't teach they were an evil race of Jews. That the group of American immigrants featured in the Book of Mormon had mid-Eastern ancestry and were part of the Jewish "race" and religious tradition is clear (though there was some Egyptian culture mixed in there too). But the “good” and the “evil” peoples who came out of this group mixed considerably over the roughly 1000-year period covered by this, the main part of the Book of Mormon. The real evil ones, in the end, were the “white” race which was essentially annihilated in warfare with the “Lamanites” who had been off and on, generally wicked, generally good, mixed with the “Nephites,” etc. The reality of the story in the Book of Mormon as to who was good and evil is much more complex, just like the reality in the real life we all know is much more complex about who is good and evil. The DNA experiments, by the way, are interesting about what they may help us understand about who these people were. Although I’m surprised that in just the few years that DNA testing as been brought to bear on these questions, some people are so absolutely sure that the results turn Mormonism on its head, most serious researchers are more thoughtful about them. I nevertheless agree that as time goes on, these and other scientific tests may have us alter our understanding of the contextual story some of us have understood. There's nothing wrong with that--we're supposed to grow in our understanding as new knowledge becomes available. Already we’re pretty sure that the Book of Mormon is not the story of the ancestry of all, perhaps even most, native Americans. I think the best approach to the Book of Mormon is the one others have recommended—study it carefully and approach its message spiritually. There are those out there that will tear the Bible apart just as readily using scientific or archaeological findings—just not as many of them because the Bible belongs to a much more widespread, popular religious tradition (including the Mormons, by the way) . But whatever science says about the Bible, doesn’t change the book’s fundamental truths.
Stan:
You wrote:
#1. How do you explain the fact that Mormons discriminated against blacks based soley upon their race, by denying them the priesthood and entry to their temples for 120 years of their history, especially given the fact that Joseph Smith gave blacks like Elijah Able the priesthood?
My comments: The priesthood policy change by Brigham Young in 1848 has not ever been explained in modern revelation. So, any explanation by any Mormon today is pure speculation. The larger issue is whether or not you can find a faith, or a time in history wherein some discrimination wasn’t a policy or a practice that was either tolerated, sanctioned, or instituted by the God of that particular faith. It is a fact of American history that Americans did not equalize blacks well even after the Emancipation Proclamation. It took America another 100+ years to finally acknowledge the rights of those of the human family, who happen to have black skin. I see the larger question at hand is whether or not the priesthood ban caused the LDS 12 apostles to lose their apostolic authority. Based on scriptural precedent, I don’t see that as a problem for the LDS Church.
Stan wrote:
#2 How do you reconcile the fact that the Book of Mormon claims that American Indians are descended from an evil race of Jews (Lamanites) with the genetic science, which has proven that Native Americans are not descended from Jews, but are in fact descended from Mongolians?
My comments: I’ll kindly ask you to retract your false statement that the Book of Mormon asserts that the American Indians descend from an “evil race of Jews,” which you identify as the “Lamanites.” The Book of Mormon chronicles, in part, the history of the Lamanites AND the Nephites, who all belong to the same “race,” are of the same “family,” and who both, at different times, were righteous and wicked. During the visitation and for 250 years afterward, the two groups were ONE people, equally righteous and good.
You’ve also mixed Mormon folklore with Book of Mormon textual claims. At the time of the publication of the Book of Mormon, many Mormons assumed that Lehi has his party were the principal ancestors of the American Indians. However, such an assumption is not codified in the Book of Mormon text. Why should Mormons not be allowed to expand their views of the historical situation? It is an absurd proposition that Mormons must hold to the unscriptural assumptions of other Mormons.” This commentary can’t address all of the complex issues found in the DNA question, but suffices to say that DNA evidence has not and does not disprove the claims of the Book of Mormon text.
You wrote:
#3. How do you reconcile the fact that Joseph Smith 'married' the wives of 11 other men (according to the Mormon's own genealogical records on FamilySearch.org) with D&C 132:61-63 (Mormon scriptures) which calls that practice (polyandry) adultery?
My comments: Stan, any relationship that moves beyond one man and one woman, without the proper authority and priesthood keys is considered adultery in LDS scripture, history, and doctrine. However, with the proper keys and authority, those relationships become authorized in God’s eyes. For example, Abraham and his grandson, Jacob (Israel) were both polygamist prophets. Is Judaism and Christianity threatened by these polygamous beginnings? Were Abraham and Jacob masquerading as prophets but secretly just lustful polygamists? We also learn in the Bible that God gave King David other men’s wives through his prophet Nathan. (Not in the case of Uriah.) If this is always adultery, why is God authorizing his prophet to do it? LDS members believe that with God, all history is at hand before him – past, present, and future – there is no passage of time for Him in the same sense it passes for us. God’s sanctioning of polygamy or of giving David other men’s wives, is as fresh in God’s mind today, as if it happened a moment ago. Both Jews and Christians must reconcile their views of God with this necessary reality.
It is obvious that Joseph Smith’s revelations on plural marriage offended many in his day, and offends many today. But I don’t see any scriptural precedent for rejecting Joseph Smith as a prophet because of polygamy or polyandry, based on God’s dealings with his prophets from the Bible, in the past. The question is, did Joseph Smith have the authority to act in such a way or institute such relationships? You can’t answer that question by making an appeal to cultural sensitivities or the Protestant interpretation of “adultery” without the rest of the Bible.
Stan wrote:
Once a Mormon can answer those questions honestly, they might be taken seriously, until then, it's just nonsense.
My comments: Stan, this last assertion is nonsense and is a straw man. A person cant take Mormonism seriously and can test the Book of Mormon’s authenticity without answering the questions above.
Stan R. I get to your question number three conveniently at the time I need to get ready for work, because there is no question that it is the most complicated of the three and there are probably others who can do a better job than I at answering it. I will say this: one can approach the Mormon polygamy question from many angles. One angle from outsiders is to say that Mormons "conveniently" put polygamy behind them when the pressure became too great from the outside world and then they moved on (ah, but if only they had been allowed to move on.) This is another one of those where we can say "How many years will be sufficient to let it go?" It seems Christians and Jews have been able to forgive the practice in Abraham, Moses, David and other Biblical figures, so maybe in 2000 years they will give Joseph Smith, Brigham Young and others a pass too. Another approach is to believe that there were some spiritual principles at play in both the instances of the ancient biblical patriarchs who had more than one wife and among that minority of early Mormon settlers who participated in the practice. Although I believe that is true is some sense, I don’t think I’ll even begin to go there, because it gets pretty complicated with the “fundamentalist” remnants of the Mormon church who continue the practice today, even to the point of child abuse in their marriages to minors. I do know that I have an ancestor who had two wives and the last thing on his mind was amassing some kind of harem. He writes in his journal about fears that he will not be up to the sacred obligations entailed by this second marriage. It was a hard slog for these men and women. Otherwise suffice it to say that mainstream Mormons fully reject the practice on earth now and deny the rightness, goodness and authority of those who continue it today. Some (few) say Mormons believe we will practice polygamy again someday or that it will be the order of heaven. Most Mormons I know aren’t so presumptuous. The Mormon men I know are content with having the one wife they have as their partner and friend. True there are vestiges of the practice of “plural marriage” in mainstream Mormonism—though just vestiges—in the sense that a man might still find himself “sealed” to more than one woman if a first spouse has died and he remarries, but this is rare and nobody really knows what this all means--though some (again few) of the lay church claim too. As for Joseph Smith’s practice, most of us are inclined to give him the benefit of the doubt because so much of what he was instrumental in bringing to us has proven itself “by its fruits” to be good and leads to Jesus Christ. When hearing what you have said, most will scratch their heads and say, “huh?” My own belief is that if someday I find that Joseph Smith was wrong in any of these other relationships, it doesn’t destroy everything up till that point in his life that was so right and so good. He was a human being, after all is said and done. But even that is a big IF. We will see. I believe he was a good man, called of God. In the end, there are so many things we are yet to understand and I’m grateful to belong to a religion that teaches that learning and understanding are part of the big scheme of things, that they continue on into eternity, and that ultimately we will find no conflict between the truths unearthed by science and the truths unearthed through spiritual means. Now we “see through a glass darkly,” we even look at each other that way; but we will all see ourselves for what we are when this life is over, as brothers and sisters regardless our race or religion (including you and me, Stan, however unappealing that thought might be to you), , as children of the same God, and will likely all be a little embarrassed (if not deeply chagrined) at how we treated each other, including how we as Mormons sometimes treated others—despite our knowing better.
Correction from above:
Stan wrote:
Once a Mormon can answer those questions honestly, they might be taken seriously, until then, it's just nonsense.
My comments: Stan, this last assertion is nonsense and is a straw man. A person CAN take Mormonism seriously and can test the Book of Mormon’s authenticity without answering the questions above.
Whoops, my apologies: I wrote "Stan R" but meant Stan G, of course.
"To the simple minded, all things are simple."
Dave you wrote
"So feeling good about something doesn't make it true anymore than feeling good about your favorite football team winning the Super Bowl."
So all human feelings are relative? The same feeling of love that I have for the safety and well being of my child and the feeling I have for my favorite sports team, are the same? If all feelings are relative Dave, then why do millions of people exercise their will freely and change and modify their behavior toward a more disciplined spiritual life when they embrace Mormonism? Why doesn’t the feeling for my favorite sport team have the same impact in my life? Clearly the feeling one derives from applying the principles restored by Mormonism is a much more significant moving force in the lives of people than the latest fan craze over a sports team. Can you see the necessary distinction?
Often Mormons speak of their “feelings” to describe their experiences when they have learned truths about the past, present, or the hope they have of future events. When these truths and principles are applied, in real life, their authenticity becomes self-evident – lives change for the better and a greater measure of personal peace permeates life experience.
About your other assertion - you’re going to have to do more research to account for the Book of Mormon than just claiming it was plagiarized. The Book of Mormon wasn’t created in a vacuum, but has a real history that has to be accounted for and addressed. Your disbelief or ignorance of the Book of Mormon isn’t a position of authority or a logical beginning point from which we can test its authenticity.
For example, you said that it’s impossible for the Book of Mormon to contain quotations from the King James Version of the Bible because the KJV was published in 1611 and the Book of Mormon was published [in 1830]. Your failure to distinguish between the concepts of ancient scripture and an English literary style, create problems for your assertions.
The Book of Mormon asserts that Jews in 600 BC had a copy of the Old Testament (written to that point) on metal plates that they took with them on their journey, ergo the source of the “quotations” from the or Old Testament. The Book of Mormon also records the visitation of Jesus Christ, after his resurrection in Jerusalem, during which Jesus shared some of the exact same sermons and messages with the Nephites and Lamanites, ergo the “quotations” from the New Testament. Even if we extract those quotations, we still find a large, rich, and substantive spiritual and religious history, and a significant and impressive contribution to the gospel of Jesus Christ; a work that addresses and answers many, if not, all of the major doctrinal contentions within Christianity. How do you account for that body of literature, Dave?
I am sadly amused that ad nauseum picking and axing doctrinal tenants has supplanted a discussion of religious understanding. I don't recall the purpose of this video to be a derogatory bend to others, and as such, the victimization and defensiveness expressed by such contrarians is simply juvenile. Moreover, it is quite obvious that the questions posed on this thread are neither original nor creative, and have been well-qualified and answered time and time again. The redundant moan of familiar red-herrings hopes only to support a self-evident proposition of illuminating erroneous doctrine, yet finds little substantive or persuasive authority outside its own dicta. It is too bad, indeed, that such antagonists prefer to take offense than to listen. Until they do, they have very little to learn. Why they continue to talk, however, remains a mystery.
I am a 38 year old life long LDS member born of converts; I believe that contention is of the Devil, but it is okay to defend true principles civilly and with love.
God and Jesus want us to fight the good fight, the Adversary would have us be weak and confused.
I pray that all of us can get to the real answers of the Gospel of Jesus Christ, forgive our trespassers, and live in harmony. Fight the good fight as the New Testament claims. And be kind no matter what we believe. God is in charge and He will answer all our questions in due time. Reading all materials with humility is key. Faith and prayer are necessary also. God bless.
God bless.
I have one comment. Toward the bottom of the first page of the Book of Mormon it states:...."to the convincing of the Jew and Gentile that Jesus is the Christ, the Eternal God, manifesting himself unto all nations....And now, if there are faults they are the mistakes of men; wherefore, condemn not the things of God, that ye may be found spotless at the judgment-seat of Christ." Read it and believe it!!
I have no problem as an LDS member in saying that other religions are wrong or that they might be untrue. I believe that all religions are generally good if they practice Christian values but I do not believe that they are actually the church that Christ has established. I have many, many wonderful and committed friends of many other religions. I respect them dearly, particularly when they really stand up for what they believe. However, they have their beliefs and we have ours. We believe ours was restored by Christ himself in these latter days. Other faiths feel that their religion is the true religion else why would they be members of their faith?
Come on kids, play nice. Even a redneck like Toby Keith gets it. "And before all this debating leads to angry words and stife, sometimes we shold just agree to disagree."
Oops, my bad. Toby Keith's words are "angry words and hate." Even more compelling.
What's clear from this is that nearly ALL religions (Christian, Jewish, Muslim, Hindu, etc.) have their extreme fringes and those who say hateful, mean, racist, sexist and/or exclusionary things, either as representatives of their organizations, or because of their standings within their organizations (i.e., Elder, Priest, Rabbi), have their individual comments perceived to be representing their entire faith. While I do not practice any formal religion, I have friends who practice many faith-based traditions, and believe that whatever works for them is only beneficial to their life. They respect my decision to exclude religion from my life for the same reason, especially given that I am a good, caring person.
One thing that does offend me about Mormonism (and believe me, there are lots of things that offend me about other faiths -- but this is not the topic here) is the practice of baptizing the dead (and living) in the Mormon faith. I know that this would deeply offend my ancestors (and also those who are not Christian) -- given that when alive, they CHOSE of their own free will to practice/believe something different. And, I am deeply offended that any church would have the audacity to baptize me into its faith. That is paternalism is at its worst, but Mormons are not alone in practicing that.
Whole lot of Mormons on this blog.
Seems like anytime a Mormon issue crops up they descend upon it to crush the opposition.
I am just waiting for the 2012 Presidential elections when the Mormons and Evangelicals battle it out for control of the Republican Party. My money is on the Mormons.
"Religion" in all forms is just a way to control the masses and to let people feel safe in knowing that "someone" will take care of them after death.
If you need that ---- fine....but my point is DON'T PUSH IT ON ME.
Don't even tell me anything about your religion. If I want to "find the way" I'll come knocking.
If you have to push it on me then how "real" is it?
Can't you just have "faith" in yourself? In others? Why must we push these religious beliefs on others? We're judging who's right & wrong based on books that were written by folks who heard the stories told by other folks!
My kids play the game of "phone tag" where they whisper in the ear of a kid and then that kid tells the next kid. Ever notice how messed up the saying gets after 10 kids? think about it.
Now I do believe in something but I'm not going to tell any of you what it is.
It's none of you business and that's the way it should be.
That was a great presentation of our faith. As a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, I'm grateful to see a young lady with such principles and knowledge answering in a very smart and clear way everything. The youth in the Church are AMAZING! Way to go Rachel!
I'm quite certain that my witty, intelligent and insightful comment on this board will strongly influence another person's view of their religion and Mormonism.
Before you write anything I'll just say it - you're welcome, improving the world one post at a time is my calling in life.
First off it is not the Morman Church. It is THE CHURCH OF JESUS CHRIST OF LATTERDAY SAINTS. no matter where you look all over this earth you will never find the name the morman church any where on any of the church buildings. It is not Morman's church it is JESUS CHRIST CHURCH. In the bible it says that Christ's church will be called by his name. Prisident Gordan B. Hinkley put a notice in the Church Ensine telling members not to refer to the Church as the morman church. Even to the news media he always corrected the miss quote that this is the Morman church. It is so sad that members of the church call it the morman church even tho they have been tolt time after time it is not.
Hmm...Looks like Stan's questions were answered.
Should we have the missionaries sent to his house? =)
Just a note here, as a member of the LDS church, we care about all of Gods people, and want them to know about God's revealed truths of the everlasting gospel. All of God's children will have the opportunity to learn of him, even if they never learned about the gospel of Christ in this life. Only a true and pure religion would teach that Jesus loves little children, and if they die with out baptism or never "confessing" Christ, our Savior would not have them cast into hell - burning in everlasting fire as other churches teach as doctrine. The truth is that these innosent children will all go to the kingdom of heaven. I have spoken to many "Christians" about this subject, and their only reply is that it is too late for them, thus God in his mercy cannot save them nor is he any longer concerned for their souls. ONLY the living now having confessed Christ or are baptized as some churchs require will be in heaven.
What I note about those who cut down the LDS faith for the testimony of its people based upon their faith and the "good feelings" that testimony is part of that base. Objective proof is fine, but requires no faith. Subjective belief requires faith. To me both the subjective and objective are required to know the full truth.
The LDS faith does indeed preach that the have a more complete truth that any other faith. We do not preach that other faiths have no truth in them.
If Mormonism is true does that not make all other churches less than wholely true which in common usage is false?
I think the real question is whether or not Mormonism is true and if not then why?
For it to be false we need real evidence not just because your pastor said so.
JP -
I can understand your frustrations about baptisms for the dead and how you may perceive that your ancestors (on the other side) are having that ordinance forced on them. Just to clarify, when baptisms for the dead are performed, the deceased person does in fact have the right to choose whether or not he or she wants to receive that ordinance.
Christ taught us the proper way of baptism when he was baptized in the Jordan River. In order for someone to be baptized they must be submerged in water (as he was). Since our bodies separate from our spirit at death, those on the other side (our ancestors) need someone else to perform the ordinance for them if they want to take upon themselves the name of Christ. But I'll say it again; he or she can accept or deny that ordinance. We as members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints are simply using our bodies to provide them that opportunity of taking upon themselves the name of Christ.
I hope that somewhat clears up your concerns.
Someone had expressed dismay at the number of comments hostile to Mormons here. I personally have no problem with Mormons practicing their religion in peace. I don't particularly care if their beliefs are proven objectively true or not. If folks want to believe Native Americans are descended from Jews or that the Flying Spaghetti Monster causes the sun to set every night, it's all fine by me. Just please don't try to convince us that the first belief from my example is more plausible than the second. However, I do not appreciate: 1) being accosted by missionaries while walking to the subway 2) Mormon leaders advocating that their followers contribute money to take away civil rights, notably same-sex marriage in CA. These intrusions into the lives of others might explain some of the hostility you are encountering.
Mr. Stan Green,
Should you be a person of faith, I would like you to disclose your beliefs. Once we have this cleared up, then we can begin to deconstruct and pick apart your religion. It is all equally preposterous and that includes your belief system too. In all religions one may find misconceptions, misrepresentations and out and out lies. I think Mormons get the shaft because is a contemporary religion. The others have the advantage of being "historically" based, but that doesn't mean there aren't myriad farcical elements to them. However, I am sure you are of the mindset that your beliefs are paramount to all others. Way to go sport!
JP,
Mormons (or Latter-day Saints) perform baptisms on behalf of departed people, primarily their ancestors, with the idea that the baptism represents the formality and outward aspect of an ordinance that has absolutely no meaning if the dead person chooses not to accept it. If they do accept it, it's the symbol of a covenant, sort of like signing a contract, though that sounds a little crass when put that way. Regardless, free choice reigns in all of this. My guess is that those who live on after death, if you believe there is life after death, rather than be sorely offended are, at worst, amused by Mormon practices that they don't accept. In my view, the Dead are bound to have a much larger perspective than we are (for one thing they'll know that they lived after death), so what seems to be so offensive to people on earth, I doubt is so after this life. Just my opinion. Regardless, the baptisms are done out of love, not presumptuousness on the part of Mormons and if we were to leave somebody out, well, now that would be discrimination that I think one could take issue with. (Why would we choose to give one of God's greatest gifts to some and not others?) Nevertheless, many Jews today take offense that the practice has been done in some cases for Holocaust victims so the LDS Church is trying to work with them to exclude this practice for Jews except in the case of direct ancestors of a practicing Latter-day Saint. Still the key points are it's done out of love but the person for whom one acts as proxy, believed to be living after this life, has the full decision of whether to accept the baptism or not. Really it's the LDS answer to "what about all those people who died and never heard of Christ? Are they condemned to Hell for not having been baptized, etc.?" Mormon answer, no, everybody gets a shot at it and everybody gets to say yea or nay in the end. (By the way, see reference to the practice in the Bible, 1 Corinthians 15:29.)
Don, similarly: we don't believe in pushing anything on anybody. Our missionaries invite and, if they're doing what they're supposed to be doing, they move on when someone says "not interested." If you think they're pushy, tell them I said to leave you alone. ļ :)
Well she gives a nice presentation. I have nothing against LDS or God in anyway. I didn't know the Palmira NY tablet connection. Having gone to college near there and grown up in upstate NY this interests me.
First I always thought Jesus was over in the mideast at least according to the Bible. Apparently the House of David stretched further than we realized. That and God has a good sense of humor . Upstate NY Palmira, NY is the last place I'd look or a Holy revelation but the Lord works in mysterious ways I guess.
To those in the LDS church desiring a "rational" way to explain the church, I would suggest Elder M. Russell Ballard's book, Our Search for Happiness. Nice, succinct and explanatory. It is unapologetic but respectful (at least it seems that way to me...to some it will likely just be another example of "pushy" Mormons..sigh)
Anyway, any time the topic comes up, you can expect the haters to come out of the woodwork, along with the geneuinely interested and the civil. Anyone doubting the resevoir of hate that exists towards the LDS Church and the lengths to which some will go to spew it has only to attend the Hill Cumorah Pageant and watch the behavior of the "antis" parading around outside the parking area...just a little taste of wht the Church went through historically and totally unreciprocated by the Church.
Religion is inane.
That was a truly great video. Well done, Rachel, you are a credit to your family and to your Church.
To all those who posted here, thank you for a great read. it never ceases to amaze me how often the questions Stan posted arise, no matter what the topic may be. The replies to his questions here are, however, on the whole, as honest and inspiring as the above video.
Thank you all.
For those who feel all religion is the invention of man for the purpose of controlling others or satisfying his own superstitions, why do you get so worked up about all your supposed revelations regarding the flaws in the LDS church? Why should you even care? You can live your whole life without being much affected by the beliefs of a minority of Mormons. Why bother to become a critic or an enemy? ...unless it possibly may be a significant movement. And, if so, perhaps you should learn more about it from the source. And for those who are determined to believe it is false for whatever other reason, why do you relish attacking it so. Christ himself said, if you want to know of the doctrine, whether it be of God or whether he speaks of himself (as a man only), live it. Test it. Criticism is easy and a cowardly course, really. Few have the courage to seek out the doctrine from its source, then test it sincerely. Regardless, central to Mormon beliefs is a respect for your agency to believe as you choose. And many Mormons have suffered greatly at the hands of those whose agency they, themselves defended.
It is a cult, anyone who says other wise is stupid.
God turned native americans skin red as punishment
God had intercourse with mary on another planet so it wasn't a virgin birth.
The baptism of dead none mormons (look up all the dead they have baptized including holocaust victims)
The lack of correlation between locations described in the Book of Mormon and American archaeological sites.
References to animals, plants, metals and technologies in the Book of Mormon that archaeological or scientific studies have found no evidence of in post-Pleistocene, pre-Columbian America, frequently referred to as anachronisms.Items typically listed include cattle[horses, asses, oxen,sheep, swine, goats[ elephants,wheat, steel,brass, chains, iron, scimitars, and chariots.
The lack of linguistic connection between any Native American languages and Near Eastern languages.
The lack of current DNA evidence linking any Native American group to the ancient Near East.
It is a scam if you believe in it then I have some magical golden plates I can sell to you.
Bob could not be more wrong concerning the nature of Mormonism. It is, instead, a highly structured religion with consistent, clear doctrines. This can be seen by anyone who will visit any LDS church on the Earth. They will hear the same doctrines, the same beliefs, they will see that the same manuals are used and that there are no divisions as there are in other churches. You'll never hear someone ask in Sunday School: "Do animals have spirits?" because we all know that they do. There are no diverging views on this. As for our "cult" status, this doesn't bother me, as the early Christian church also was widely known as a "cult" that thrived on "secrecy" and so forth. It is a true and living religion.
Wow. I don't know what to say after checking some of these posts. I should know better than to expect more from a liberal newspaper. I am not a member of the LDS, my political leanings are towards the center, and I am a Christian.
Why can't members of the LDS be allowed their beliefs? Is that not their right? Wasn't religious freedom the very reason the country was colonized in the first place?
I may not agree with all LDS teachings, but welcome them as Christians. Of course, the same folks bashing the LDS members here are on the other board bashing Catholics. If you're not an outright atheist, few that post on these boards will give you any respect.
Some comments made here show a lack of understanding on how Latter-day Saints determine truth. . Some have tried to minimize our determination of things spiritual by reducing them to “a feeling”. Let me try to offer an explanation Our beliefs are built feelings that come from the Holy Spirit.
We read this in First Corinthians 2:9-14
9 But as it is written, Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love him.
10 But God hath revealed them unto us by his Spirit: for the Spirit searcheth all things, yea, the deep things of God.
11 For what man knoweth the things of a man, save the spirit of man which is in him? even so the things of God knoweth no man, but the Spirit of God.
12 Now we have received, not the spirit of the world, but the spirit which is of God; that we might know the things that are freely given to us of God.
13 Which things also we speak, not in the words which man's wisdom teacheth, but which the Holy Ghost teacheth; comparing spiritual things with spiritual.
14 But the natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned
In an other place we read: (Here Christ meets with some of his disciples after his resurrection and they do not recognize him).
32 And they said one to another, Did not our heart burn within us, while he talked with us by the way, and while he opened to us the scriptures?
33 And they rose up the same hour, and returned to Jerusalem, and found the eleven gathered together, and them that were with them, (Luke 22:31-32).
When Latter-day Saints speak of a feeling they speak of this kind of knowing. One may say this is totally subjective and we would concur. But it seems to be God’s way of conferring spiritual knowledge to his children.
Believe me you walk away from such an experience both by convinced and enlightened. This may sound foreign to some but it is very real. This is certainly not beyond God’s power to do.
Individuals are not always blessed with direct personal revelation as described above and they only have credence as they comply with church teachings. A personal revealing from the Spirit is usually meant for that person only.
We also rely on the scriptures and the voice of his Prophets today.
Mikemass
You wrote:
“However, I do not appreciate: 1) being accosted by missionaries while walking to the subway 2) Mormon leaders advocating that their followers contribute money to take away civil rights, notably same-sex marriage in CA. These intrusions into the lives of others might explain some of the hostility you are encountering.”
Some Mormon missionaries are certainly persistent, but most are polite regardless of their challenging or aggressive questions. I am certain if the missionaries knew that you felt genuinely threatened, they would take a step backward, (if there is room enough on the subway.) I suppose the best organizations in the world wished they had a dedicated and volunteer group of young men and women at the ready, like the LDS Church has. But, I do understand the protest – you don’t want to be bothered. That is reasonable.
I can also understand how you would feel unappreciative of Mormon leaders advocating to keep marriage only between a man and woman. What most Mormons do not recognize, however, are the attempts by pro gay-marriage groups to redefine marriage as a “civil right,” rather than a license or civil contract. To be clear, a single California Justice, in our view, cannot impose a wide sweeping social experiment upon the people without majority consensus of the same people.
Most of the “hostility” Mormons confront on the internet comes from fundamental Christians or other Christians who 1) either don’t know much about Mormonism, or 2) have been given the wrong information.
As a devout Mormon, I am fine with disagreement, but let’s always agree not to bear false witness against one another’s religion. Let’s get the facts straight. (I am not including you in that group – just commenting on your comment.)
Example? Doug’s comment above.
Really, Doug? There are so many misunderstandings and errors in what you just posted, I don't even know where to begin. You obviously have not searched for the truth about Latter-day Saints for yourself.
I echo Chris Jones' comments above. If someone really wants to know truth (regardless of religious sect), Christ has instructed us to seek it, not to carelessly disparage things you don't have any first-hand knowledge about.
chris jones wrote: "Why should you even care? You can live your whole life without being much affected by the beliefs of a minority of Mormons. Why bother to become a critic or an enemy?"
See post #47 for some reasons why I care. I don't consider myself an "enemy" of Mormons. If they stay out of my life, I'll happily return the favor. But Mormon leaders, in the name of their religious beliefs, actively promoted the passage of a law to revoke the marriages of gays and lesbians in CA. This could literally tear apart families. Do you consider this not "being much affected?" I'd like to ask the Mormon leaders your same question, phrased with one slight change:
"Why should you even care? You can live your whole life without being much affected by the marriages of a minority of same-sex couples. Why bother to become a critic or an enemy?"
"mikemass" my apologies to you for being "accosted" by missionaries on the subway. I hope you were not bruised mentally or physically by their actions. In the future I suggest you steer clear of the "two-somes" wearing name badges.
I also ask that you double check your facts about the "Yes on 8" prop in CA. This would be the second time we Californians have been asked to vote on "same-sex marriage" and as a group of citizens we have declined it. It was not a "Mormons vs gay marriage" prop. It was a citizens vote because the Court decided they could make law. The religious and non-religious were asked to state what they wanted. If all registered voters (Catholics, Baptists, Methodists, Atheists, Agnostics, etc. and Mormons) were all asked the same question and the passing of this proposition was denied, why is it only because of the Mormons who voted? I can't imagine they make up more than 20% of the total population of the state, but the prop passed with over 53% voting YES.
I also believe that if the simple Christ-like lifestyle of the Mormons feels like an intrusion on your lifestyle then you have already closed the door to any true discussion on religion. I am very comfortable with the religious choice I have made for myself and to raise my children with. You should welcome the opportunity as a test of your own beliefs, not a sparing match. I don't slam the door on Jehovah's Witness or other religious missionaries, but I welcome their testaments of faith on my door step and wish them Godspeed in finding others who may welcome their words of positive living. A Christ-like life is one that promotes positive leadership and teaching within a community and not the negative "haters" that break us apart.
Oh, Doug, Doug, Doug...what kind of nonsense are you spewing? With minor additions, this is just a reprint of what anti-Mormons have been saying for a century and not at all a fair representation of what we believe. With all due respect (and just how much is due in such a case) your comment doesn't show careful study and consideration of LDS claims. It seems to show somebody who's in a nasty mood spouting off what somebody else who hates Mormons passed on before, none of it with real knowledge or careful consideration. You don't know how many times your allegations here have been answered--at least the ones that sound like they have some scholarly basis. But your comment about Mary is absolutely nuts and I don't know a single Mormon who believes in such. And personally, anytime anyone connects the words "magic" or "magical" with Mormonism, I find it pretty offensive and just an attempt to discredit, rather than dialogue..This kind of stuff is making me tired. But patience--I must be patient. I think I'll sign off of this site.
Doug:
Oh yes.. the cult word, meaning, “I don’t like that your Church has a lot of influence.”
In your assumed fundamentalist Christian view, how did skin color come about during the 6000 year existence of the human race since Adam? Or since Noah for that matter?
There are no Mormon scripture texts that teach God and Mary had sexual intercourse to create Jesus’ body. The Book of Mormon teaches that Mary was a virgin, at the conception, during the pregnancy, and immediately after the birth of Jesus. However, it was quite evident that Jesus had 46 chromosomes. Mormons believe that God the Father can create a conception in a womb without sexual intercourse.
But, from a fundamentalist Christian point of view, if God could create the universe out of nothing in 6 days, it would seem unnecessary for Mary to be part-creator of Jesus body anyway. Why did God need Mary again if he can create the universe out of nothing in 6 days? Why not just create a Messiah as an adult – ready to preach?
On the Book of Mormon, you’ve presented a straw man argument. You say that all of the things on your list (that you gleaned from the not-found-yet list) must be found before we can genuinely consider the Book of Mormon as authentic history. However, Doug, the lack of those evidences notwithstanding, there are other methods we can use to test the authenticity of the Book of Mormon. Sure, the discovery of horses, sheep, swine or other animals would certainly be interesting, but even if they were, you would still remain unconvinced that the Book of Mormon is authentic history.
In truth, in 1830, there were a great many things that the Book of Mormon predicted that were not yet archeologically substantiated. However, that list continues to shrink every year. Further, the Book of Mormon doesn’t claim that a complete Hebrew language would remain after 2400 years of history. However, there are links between Hebrew and the Mayan language, Quiche, that are impressive.
And no, DNA evidence does not prove or disprove the question of whether or not a group from Israel landed in central America in 600 BC. As evidence for this, just try to make an accurate comparison – please produce what Lehi’s DNA looked like in 600 BC.
But remember Doug, your argument ultimately fails since you still won’t believe when those evidences are found. Like I said, your argument is a straw man – there are other ways to test Book of Mormon authenticity.
Recently archeological evidence of two Book of Mormon settlements were found, which, in part, support the Book of Mormon as authentic narrative history. Both sites support and reinforce one another. Complex predictions were made about both sites and both have been supported by archeological evidence.
How do you account for those evidences Doug?
mikemass; in regards to overall position on gay marriage, do you realize that Mass voters upheld that marriage be limited to the union between one man and one woman? It was a referendum question that we voted "YES" as a majority. Mass Supreme Court, however, chose not to listen to the voters and allowed gay marriage.
What is wrong with LDS leaders trying to prevent something that they feel strongly about (incidentally, many other Christian faiths did the same)? A bunch of nuts got together and effectively banned greyhound racing in this state. Of course, that referendum question became binding.
Mikemass:
You wrote:
"Why should you even care? You can live your whole life without being much affected by the marriages of a minority of same-sex couples. Why bother to become a critic or an enemy?"”
Gay marriage is an untested social experiment that will impact millions of unborn children in the future. Why should citizens of government create families that are either motherless or fatherless by design? Why should Mormons be in favor of gay marriage when it is not necessary for adults, children or society? The human race needs heterosexual unions to survive and thrive, but homosexual unions are not necessary (see human history).
One of the issues at hand in California is whether sexual preferences of adults are more valuable than the rights of children to be born to a mother and a father.
Like I said, I understand that you feel differently. But there is no convincing scientific evidence or legal argument, that isn’t opposed by just as many traditional marriage Supreme Court justices, that require Mormons or Mormon leaders to form any other opinion than they have right now about gay marriage.
Mike, apart from the desire that gays and lesbians want marriage, can you make any compelling arguments as to why gay marriage is necessary for children, adults or government?
Not mentioned in the above comments in particular about baptism for the dead is this thought.... If the LDS Church is wrong, non-Christian, false religion, whether a false Christian religion or false in the sense that some claim all religion to be false...how can our baptisms for the dead harm anyone? If our doctrine and actions are false, then God (if he exists at all, per some viewpoints) will not recognize either us or our actions... and the baptisms for the dead will be so much wasted effort. I personally do not believe this to be the case, but in the meantime, how will we have hurt you? We do not ask you to attend such a baptism. We do not ask you to verify any such baptism. We do not ask you to approve it, or to change your family records to record it. We do not ask you to change your family history to note that such and such a person was a member of the LDS church. We don't have it put on tombstones. We don't ask you for donations in that person's name to pay for the baptism, nor to ensure our prayers in their behalf (or yours)). How can it have hurt either you or the person for whom we were baptized (after their death)?
Why is Hillel posting videos of Mormons?
“In Africa we have an expression,” Norman says. “When you see people throwing stones at the mango tree, you know they are doing so because the tree is bearing good fruit...."
This is taken from the October 2008 Ensign, which is an LDS magazine, you can view it online at www.lds.org. So according to this African expression and reading the comments above we must be doing something right! So thanks to all those that have verified this expression.
I myself am a Latter Day Saint and a convert to the church for almost 31 years and was most impressed with what was said by Rachel. She has a great deal of wisdom for her age and if I were her mother, for I have a 20 year old daughter myself, I'd be proud to have raised such a wonderful young woman. She is a wonderful example of a Latter Day Saint. I testify as well of the words she said were true and am thankful that I share her feelings of the church.
I find the objection of some Jews and others to the LDS practice of baptism for the dead and other ordinances for the dead curious for this reason. If they (the LDS) are wrong what they do means nothing and there is no harm done to anyone. On the other hand if they are right then what an enormouse blessing to those accepting these ordinances. Should there be a here after I for one would not want to have to face an angry ancestor because I denied them the opportunity to be saved.
I think it is safe to say that I have yet to see any LDS members go and rant and bible bash on any other blogs or forum boards about any other religion.
That goes to show you that LDS members strive to be Christ-like and don't like to initiate any type of confrontation. If anything, LDS members try to put out the fire when it arises.
LDS members are commanded (by the Lord) to spread his gospel to every kindred, nation, people, and tongue. That is where the full-time missionaries come in and that is where even member missionaries come in.
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints is currently the fastest growing church in the world, and with good reason. People live it and love it and it changes lives for the better. It has changed mine and I don't know where I'd be or who I'd be without it.
I'm grateful to everyone on this post who has defended the Lord's one and only true church on the earth today (The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints).
re: #59 - TomH:
Thank you for your respectful post. I truly appreciate that.
You made some factually incorrect statements, however:
"the attempts by pro gay-marriage groups to redefine marriage as a “civil right,” rather than a license or civil contract. To be clear, a single California Justice, in our view, cannot impose a wide sweeping social experiment upon the people without majority consensus of the same people."
The SCOTUS in Loving v. Virginia declared marriage a fundamental civil right, so there's no redefinition. This civil right was briefly extended to same sex couples in CA. Mormon leaders encouraged followers to donate to Prop 8, thereby working toward the denial of a civil right. Justices, even by slim majorities, have in fact overruled majority consensus. I'm thinking particularly of cases involving segregation and interracial marriage. Those were no doubt considered sweeping social experiments in their time.
I am truly sorry for any hostility directed to Mormons from other Christian groups. For the record, I'm also appalled by the incidents of vandalism toward Mormon facilities following the passage of Prop 8. That was completely unwarranted and illegal.
"Joseph Smith Jr"., JP, Mikemass, Doug, Avi, Stan, Dave, et al: I wonder why you comment on sites such as these, or even read articles which just make you angry. It seems silly. (The Davey doth protest too much, methinks!) Though you have every right to your beliefs (as do I) it’s odd to spend so much time arguing, mocking, maligning, and trying to discredit others. Do you think you'll convince us to adopt your bitter hatefulness? Do you think your shopworn arguments are convincing? I say, "Live and let live,.-- and don't throw up the support of Prop 8 as "proof of bigotry". The beliefs that guided us existed CENTURIES before gays were convinced en masse that they’re oppressed. There’s nothing wrong with upholding one’s beliefs; nor is it evil to encourage people to do so. Don’t think you can read our minds; it just makes one appear foolish. You don't understand us, and you seem to actively fight against ever gaining such understanding. What’s the point, or do you get a rush from contention? You misuse words such as “polyandry” and “accost”; is it ignorance, or a desire to mislead? Your degradation of others weakens your argument. “It is impossible to belittle another human being without degrading yourself.” (George Washington Carver)
+1 to Rick
re: #62 - jfisher wrote:
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"mikemass" my apologies to you for being "accosted" by missionaries on the subway. I hope you were not bruised mentally or physically by their actions. In the future I suggest you steer clear of the "two-somes" wearing name badges.
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Thank you for the sincere apology free of sarcasm. :) I never said it was a devastating experience, merely that I didn't appreciate it.
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I also ask that you double check your facts about the "Yes on 8" prop in CA.
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Please specifically point out which statements I made that were factually incorrect.
I don't recall saying that this was only a "Mormons vs. gay marriage" thing. I am equally unappreciative of the other groups (Catholics especially) who donated heavily to the yes on 8 campaign. BTW, the courts "make law" all the time. Where was the Mormon activism against the SCOTUS that ruled separate hours and pay rates for women unconstitutional? Or the decision against bans on interracial marriage? Was there no outrage at these activist judges forcing social experiments on the opposed majority? Let's not pretend this was really about respecting the will of the people, shall we? It was motivated by religious opposition to homosexuality, plain and simple.
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I also believe that if the simple Christ-like lifestyle of the Mormons feels like an intrusion on your lifestyle then you have already closed the door to any true discussion on religion.
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It would have been more simple and Christ-like not to try to legislate morality in secular government. So it doesn't just feel like an intrusion, it is an intrusion. I'm not a believer, so I'm not terribly interested in a true discussion on religion, whatever that means.
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You should welcome the opportunity as a test of your own beliefs, not a sparing match.
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A good debate is indeed challenging and interesting. Why are you characterizing this discussion as a sparring match?
To JP (#38, March 9, 09 01:44 PM):
Amen and thanks to Steve Duncan #43, Todd #46, David #49, Elsie #67, and Devon B #71!
I add: Moral agency or freedom of choice is a fundamental concept of Mormonism. We do NOT baptize any deceased person. What we do is a proxy baptism “for and in behalf of” the dead, the validity of which is completely determined by the fully-informed free-will choice of the dead. That is why every faithful Latter-day Saint earnestly aspires to go to hell!
http://scriptures.lds.org/en/dc/138/57#57
If I send you a check for a thousand dollars, you must endorse it in order to cash it. The dead must also freely endorse their proxy ordinances before “cashing in” on them. Some religions, including most Christian religions, damn forever those who happen not to live at a time or under circumstances where they could even learn of, let alone freely accept their doctrines. We believe that the keys for baptism for the dead were restored by Elijah in person to Joseph Smith, and it would be inconsistent of us not to extend this OFFER to everyone.
But our obligation is first to our own ancestors. I happen to “own” a 1/7 interest in my parents, about a 3% interest in my grandparents, and only a few parts per million interest in my earliest known ancestors. Back many generations, you and I are certain to have a common ancestor, and neither of us should presume to speak for him or her. You can't refuse baptism in his behalf, nor can I accept it in his behalf. But if you can somehow force Mormons not to make the offer, then you are, in fact, denying your ancestor that choice, for there without opportunity there can be no choice.
The only explanation I have for all the current opposition to the LDS practice of baptism for the dead is that our missionaries in hell must be doing something that offends the proprietor.
More: http://hthalljr.googlepages.com/choice.html
re: #66 - TomH wrote:
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Gay marriage is an untested social experiment that will impact millions of unborn children in the future.
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Specifically how is it going to impact these millions of unborn children? Please support your claim. BTW, same-sex marriage has been legal in MA for 5 years now, and in other countries for longer than that. Children seem to be growing up in these places unscathed. Why don't these experiences count as 'tested?'
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Why should citizens of government create families that are either motherless or fatherless by design? Why should Mormons be in favor of gay marriage when it is not necessary for adults, children or society? The human race needs heterosexual unions to survive and thrive, but homosexual unions are not necessary (see human history).
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Such families already exist. Many heterosexual marriages are childless. Many same-sex-parented families include children. Mormons don't have to be in favor of same-sex marriage (SSM). If SSM is legal, you can still be against it. You can still choose not to have a SSM. Your temples don't have to perform SSMs. Who are you to say the homosexual unions are not necessary? Have you read any of the theories on the potential beneficial role homosexuality may play in nature? Humans are surviving and thriving and reproducing just fine. Homosexuals have existed throughout history and in many species and the population continues to grow exponentially in spite of that. There is no threat to reproduction or heterosexuality here. If anything overpopulation is becoming a very real threat.
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But there is no convincing scientific evidence or legal argument... that require Mormons or Mormon leaders to form any other opinion than they have right now about gay marriage.
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Certainly no one is required to believe anything. Like I said, you can have whatever opinion you want about SSM, whether it is legal or not. What I have trouble understanding is what makes you take the next step to actively oppose it. Where is the convincing evidence or legal argument to deny SSM? Remember, we are talking about civil law, not church doctrine, which need not change at all.
See next post for the answer to your last question.
re: #66 - TomH wrote:
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Mike, apart from the desire that gays and lesbians want marriage, can you make any compelling arguments as to why gay marriage is necessary for children, adults or government?
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It's less about necessity than equal access. After all marriage laws really don't reflect necessity currently, do they? Does a woman really 'need' to marry a convicted felon? Does a white man really 'need' to marry a black woman? Does an infertile man really 'need' to marry a post-menopausal woman? The answer to most of these is probably no, and yet each of these pairings is legally recognized by our government as a marriage. They don't have to prove that their marriages benefit society. Why should gay or lesbian couples be excluded? What's the compelling reason to deny them access to a right that others enjoy?
But since you asked, I do happen to think the granting of hospital visitation, inheritance rights, and a host of other benefits not covered by civil unions does benefit married couples, and indirectly the communities in which they live. It encourages stable relationships, helps provide safety nets for the individuals involved, and fosters, well, happiness.
There seems to be a perception (not necessarily yours) that same-sex marriage is some kind of attack on heterosexual marriage and/or childrearing. Nothing could be further from the truth. I just don't see the threat.
RE Stan Green Mar 8, 09 10:06 PM
Answer to #1.
The LDS prophet received revelation from God that "all worthy males may be holders of the Priesthood". That revelation changed the Church forever. It brought a blessed and glorious feeling to all members of the Church. It was the Lord's decision not the Church or prophet's decision. A similar thing happened in New Testament times. Jesus Christ said he was only sent to teach the House of Israel. After his death, the appostles and missionaries of the Church of Jesus Christ only taught those of Judaism, or proselytes (converts) to Judaism without exception. Peter received a revelation while in Joppa from the reserected Lord Jesus Christ which changed the Church and Christianity forever. Both of these revelations were given in the Lord's due time and not man's, and it was the Lord's decision when he wanted the gentiles to receive the gospel and all worthy males to have the priesthood. In both cases, apostles received revelation from the Lord.
I just want to say that I know Rachel's family and I come from the same community/school west of Blackfoot. I am also a member of the LDS church. She represents the church the same as anyone should. For those of you who like me are members, we should listen and take note as to how to share our beliefs without being confrontational or overbearing. For those of you are not LDS, she presents the church how each member of the church hopes they can share what they believe. I am grateful to Harvard for hosting open discussions such as this. This is a great example of what dialogue and learning should be like.
Jason Lloyd said>
“Remember that Mormons were staunch abolutionists (sic), which was even one of Joseph Smith's U.S. Presidency candidacy platforms…”
I say Mr. Lloyd doesn’t understand what “stanch abolitionists” means and or the Mormons talk out of both sides of their mouths if they propounded this notion of being strong abolitionists.
Let’s see what the facts say:
Brigham Young on Slavery Interviewed by Horace Greeley for NY Tribune article Aug 20, 1859:
H. G.—What is the position of your church with respect to slavery?
B. Y.—WE CONSIDER IT A DIVINE INSTITUTION, and not to be abolished until the curse pronounced on Ham shall have been removed from his descendants.
H. G.—Are any slaves now held in this territory?
B. Y.—There are.
H. G.—Do your territorial laws uphold slavery?
B. Y.—Those laws are printed—you can read for yourself. If slaves are brought here by those who owned them in the states, we do not favor their escape from the service of those owners.
Now let’s take a look at what the Mormon Newspaper, “Messenger and Advocate” had to say:
“Where can be the common sense of any wishing to see the slaves of the south set at liberty,... Such a thing could not take place without corrupting all civil and wholesome society…the project of EMANSIPATION (sic) IS DESTRUCTIVE TO OUR GOVERNMENT, and the notion of amalgamation is devilish!— And insensible to feeling must be the heart, and low indeed must be the mind, that would consent for a moment, to see his fair daughter, his sister, or perhaps, his bosom companion, in the embrace of a NEGRO!...
(Messenger and Advocate, Vol. 2, pp. 299-301)
Mr. Lloyd, learn church history that has not been white washed.
Because Fred3, Mormons Rock!!
Wow...what a bunch of trash talk. I can't believe all the ridiculous rumors out there about the Mormon faith. Most of them are just incredible ignorance on the part of the people spouting them. For instance...The idea that Mormons believe God had sex with Mary on another planet? Excuse me? You really should ask someone who actually practices and knows the religion instead of spewing out garbage you heard from some gossip mill. Mormons believe in the same King James Bible that the rest of the Christian world believes in. We love and study it to learn about Jesus Christ…and yes…the same Jesus Christ all Christians believe in. Our belief about the life and divinity of Jesus Christ and his atonement is directly founded on and grounded in the pages of the New Testament. We only testify to those who are searching for the Gospel of Christ in their life that there is ANOTHER witness of Christ. Not a different one. The Bible and The Book of Mormon go hand in hand…they do NOT conflict. We believe God still loves His children and has not abandoned them. Why would you believe the Bible is the word of God and then be so quick to believe He can speak no more? Does someone have the power to silence Him when he chooses to speak? Fools.
We have a great reverence for Joseph Smith, yes of course. Don’t Christians everywhere reverence all men who have been prophets down through the ages of history? We DO NOT worship him…we DO NOT pray to him.
We also do not claim that other Christians are “wrong”. We only say that we have “The Rest of the Story”. There are MORE truths, not different truths, which Heavenly Father wants His children to have. More blessings that will help them on their journey home to Him and to feel peace while we live this life. We are not excluding anyone who chooses to learn of our faith. We keep no secrets. As for our missionaries accosting people? Please. If your father gave you a note and told you it was critically important in the lives of your brothers and sisters, that they must receive it, would you then just stand still and wait for them to realize you had a message for them? Or would you search them out and let them know? The responsibility would be on your shoulders if you didn’t at least try to deliver the message, whether they chose to heed the message or not.
Now to address a more specific comment that I would have found really quite laughable had it not been so offensive. And absurdly twisted….
37. “Seems like anytime a Mormon issue crops up they descend upon it to crush the opposition.”
Huh? Correct me if I’m wrong but the very first comment after the video was insulting and derogatory. We are not trying to crush anyone. We are simply defending our beliefs from attacks by people who do not know the facts about our religion yet find it necessary to flaunt their ignorance like some gaudy banner. The rumors being spread here are outright lies, nothing more. Of course, there are people who claim to be members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, and some who truly are, that are way out in left field somewhere. Is it a requirement that all of its professed believers must be perfect for a church (or any other belief system) to be true? Because I don’t think a religion on earth could make that claim. This country was founded on the principle of freedom. We only want to be able to believe as we choose without being bashed and derated at every turn. Freedom of speech is great…but it doesn’t excuse outright rudeness and the spreading of lies. Get a life people and go put your strength into something that will make a positive difference in this messed up world we live in. Don’t just sit around on your laurels and point fingers at people telling them how wrong they are just to make yourself feel superior. Really.
Two simple things
1. I remember a person "bashing" a missionary companion of mine saying iron has never been found in South America so the Book of Mormon is false. He resonded by asking if the newpaper reads tomorrow that iron existed anciently in South American, would you then join the Church? As the answer was of course no, we then discussed reasons not excuses. Far more productive.
2. Jesus Christ didn't say by their doctrines ye shall know them. He said by their fruits ye shall know them. Overall the fruits of the LDS Church are positive. Showing how a Church with 1.4% of the population can have a huge effect on the nation.
Todd said:
"The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints is currently the fastest growing church in the world, and with good reason."
Todd you and many members of the church tell this faith promoting lie and with good reason. It adds to the brain washing. Do your research. The Mormon church is pretty much stagnant right now. Let me ask you Todd, when was the last time a family was baptized into your ward.? I'll almost guarantee you it has either been never, that you can remember, or a very long time ago.
It the church was the fastest growing there would a lot more converts than the typical misfit that joins or the usual 8 year old who really has no clue what is going on.
Now maybe 3rd world countries may have a lot of baptisms but not converts. The retention rate is horrendous. I know I served a mission in South America. Of the 12 or 13 million members of the church, only about 3 to 4 million are active.
The internet has a lot to do with the churches stagnation in the more wealthy countries. Europe has gone backwards in missionary work with the exception of maybe Eastern Europe. The mormon culture is not a one size fits all. Many cultures totally reject it. So I guess they are all going to the mormon hell--the telestial kingdom.
and on the third day, Mormons descended onto the blogs to express delight and squash dissent with a rubber mallet...gently....so as not to appear intollerant or uncivil. Then they all returned to their wives and danced naked for the children.
I apologize for reading through these comments without actually viewing the video in question--this article was sent to me by a friend, and I was distracted while I was trying to find a way to view the video.
First, I consider myself LDS, though I am presently inactive, and living in a state that is in direct contradiction to my faith. Do not judge my faith by my own choices and actions--my decisions are between me and my God.
Second, I am not now, nor have I ever been a 'Mormon'--my church is the Church of JESUS CHRIST of Latter Day Saints.
Third, I do not, nor have I ever presumed to judge others wrong, evil, or wicked for their religious beliefs--I strongly agree with the policy of 'let others worship who, what, or where they may.'
I could go on all night, but many of you have covered the basic facts here. If this world were truly ready for 'proof' of ALL of the truths of God, we would not be arguing semantics nor religion here, but embracing each other as brothers & sisters in a place of peace and love.
God is Love. My firm opinion and belief is that one cannot claim any true association with God if one has contention, hatred, or guile toward any other. hence tmy understanding of the scripture, "...their hearts are far from me."
My friends follow many diverse tenets and beliefs--I love them for what & who they are--not for their religions, beliefs, opinions, or cultures. I love each of you because that is my gift from my God, a love unconditional. I pray for each of you, and welcome your prayers --a sincere prayer is a blessing in all respects.
PLUR (Peace, Love, Unity, Respect)
RAVEN
Dave: (Andrew)
The LDS Church has very high "active" standards for Church members. So the 5-6 million who are active are very active and subsequently very influential. You better pray that the other half doesn't become more devout.
The LDS Church grows by about 250,000 new members a year, gaining converts from mostly other Christian churches. That figure doesn't include the 8 year baptisms or children of record (members of existing Mormon families).
Go to www.mormons.org to sample the average Mormon convert.
LDS believe that the LDS Church will one day fill the world – and while rates increase and decrease, we’re confident that it will continue to grow despite the internet.
In fact, the LDS Church completes a new chapel building about every day. These buildings reflect real growth in the world and not just a revolving door statistic.
Congratulations to this wonderful young woman and to her family and all who are/were part of her life !! As an adult convert to the church, I knew that this was the true church with the fullness of the gospel of Jesus Christ before I had even read very much in the Book of Mormon or knew very much about Joseph Smith.
Conversion to the gospel of Jesus Christ is not an intellectual experience -- it is an exercise of faith in the Lord Jesus Christ and of the spirit, the mind, and the heart. I attended many churches and they provided me with stepping stones to learn from the Bible but not one had any answers to my questions about life and eternity. Even the histories of these churches acknowledge that they were founded by leaders searching for the truth, admitting they couldn't find it but were doing the best they could. Others have formed churches as a business for profit.
Joseph Smith, Jr. , was and is a prophet of God. He had no agenda but to fulfill the commandments of God. It would have been so easy to say it was false in order to save his own hide from men. But he knew that God knew and Joseph would not deny the vision. Who can fear men after they have been in the presence of God and His son Jesus Christ ???
"The Standard of Truth has been erected; no unhallowed hand can stop the work from progressing; persecutions may rage, mobs may combine, armies may assemble, calumny may defame, but the truth of God will go forth boldly, nobly, and independent, till it has penetrated every continent, visited every clime, swept every country, and sounded in every ear, till the purposes of God shall be accomplished and the Great Jehovah shall say the work is done” (History of the Church, 4:540).
It is very humbling to be a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Being baptized is the most important decision I have made in my life.
How was I so blessed to have found the gospel ?
Thank you Elder James Clegg and Elder Norman Weber and other missionaries who served in Minnesota many years ago.
Dave said (in #86):
"when was the last time a family was baptized into your ward.? I'll almost guarantee you it has either been never, that you can remember, or a very long time ago."
Actually to tell you the truth, two families were baptized in my ward this past month. The Gonzalez family and the Marshall family were welcomed with open arms into our ward.
As far as worldwide retention goes, yes the baptisms are much higher than those that remain active, I don't doubt that. I myself saw this retention problem in my service mission to Mexico City. However, the majority of converts go through quite a process in order for them to take upon themselves the ordinance of baptism. Converts know ahead of time that baptism is just the first step to reaching exaltation. The process of reaching exaltation and enduring to the end is where members start to fall away.
The Lord never said it would be easy, he only said it would be worth it. The gospel of Jesus Christ is simple, living it in today's world is where it can become difficult for most people...and that is why we must hold to the iron rod (the scriptures and the advice from our inspired leaders; namely the prophet and his apostles).
Dave, I am not sure what led you to stray away from the church (if you did in fact serve a mission and enter the temple). I'm sure that if you ever decided to come back into the fold you will be welcomed with open arms, not only by the members but by Christ himself. I think it is safe to say that we as members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints love you and will keep you in our prayers.
I already commented once about "contention" (#31) and I have read the comments since then, now on 87... I see some occasional dialogue that may prove productive or somewhat enlightening. Attacking strangers for their written views without knowing the person is a new 21st century phenomenon that we delve in with the Internet. What a miracle! God is taking notes, and may he forgive us our trespasses. No matter what our belief system may be.
I know that through blogging I have overstepped my bounds as far as being vitriolic and rude; I try not to attack anymore, that does not represent my beliefs or how I was taught as to act or communicate-- Which brings me back to the actual topic of this whole thread: the speaker does an excellent job of explaining the LDS faith. Bravo to her..
As for the questions regarding baptism for the dead, same sex marriage, the veracity of the Book of Mormon, the growth and rentention of the restored Church of Jesus Christ, etc...
Cooler heads will prevail. That is my faith.I hope we can all live and learn to co-exist in harmony and peace.
There is no reason for hate.
God bless this Harvard student and the rest of us.
God is a Perfect Father and loves and forgives us all; it is up to us to seek out His Son and His Church. We as LDS try not to force or push anything that is not sought after; we know that that compulsion is from the Enemy.
May we learn to be more understanding and loving, charitable and faithful.
Peace.
All of this bickering back and forth from LDS and non-LDS folks alike reminds me of a few scriptures.......
Solomon writes about all of this yacking....Proverbs 18:6-7 "A fool's lips enter into contention and his mouth calleth for strokes. A fool's mouth is his destruction, and his lips are the snare of his soul"
Paul, writing to the members of Christ's church writes the following to Titus (KJV Titus 3 starting in verse 2..."to speak evil of no man, to be no brawlers, but gentle, shewing all meekness unto all men"...(then verse 9) "but avoid foolish questions...and contentions and strivings...for they are unprofitable and vain."
Why all the contention people? It just breeds contempt and bad feelings. And for you LDS people who KNOW you have been taught to avoid contention...You have read many times the words of Jesus Christ himself in 3 Nephi 11:29 " For verily, verily I say unto you, he that hath the spirit of contention is not of me, but is of the devil, who is the father of contention, and he stirrith up the hearts of men to contend with anger, one with another."
The best way to chase away the light of Christ is to bicker point by point. Any religious person, of any faith, has their convictions and to try to "talk" them out of them is wrong. The best way to share what you believe is to share it and leave it for the other person to take it or leave it.
No amount of backbiting and quarreling is going to suddenly 'convince' them to come around to your way of thinking.
Linda
I can't fathom the utility and sense of ranting about the Mormons, such as Dave who pulled out racist quotes from various Mormon figures to discredit the religion. You could as easily find racist quotes from our American political forefathers and similarly attempt to discredit our entire political system. Sensible? Of course not. Religion and cultures evolve and you must judge a person on his or her own merits. Personally I'm an atheist and put all religions in the bucket of "Faith". None of them can be proven and thus appeal to the admixture of emotion, imagination and spirituality. Every religion has its seemingly offensive features to outsiders: I went to a Protestant college as a Protestant and it cured me of religion with anti-intellectual stances (often from Evangelicals) such as Creation "Science", speaking in tongues, the infallibility of the Bible as the Word of God (though it was developed by committees of scholars over hundreds of years) and the expedient and hypocritical device of being "Saved" yet plodding along and committing all the same vices repeatedly without any sense of self awareness. Live and let live; unless a religion is truly a cult (which I can't see any evidence of in Mormonism) --which to me means manipulating people to their own detriment and controlling their lives in every respect -- then its no better or worse than any other religion.
I appreciate the feedback I’ve seen on the baptism of the dead. I would like to respond to Elsie’s comment (#67) [and that of DevonB (#71)], who stated, “How can it have hurt either you or the person for whom we were baptized (after their death)?” First, I believe that my father may have been “baptized” prior to his death, at which point he was already a practicing Christian, though not Mormon.
Have you considered, that as some mentioned, it may offend the survivors and family members of the deceased person? While the INTENT may be perceived as a blessing by members of the LDS, its IMPACT can and is often perceived as arrogant and disrespectful. I wonder how member of the LDS would feel if, for example, Jews started bar and bat mitzvahs for all dead members of the LDS church…….or if Muslims or Catholics started to perform similar sacred rituals in the name of dead LDS members. I believe that all people, regardless of their faith, appreciate having their religious choices respected while they are alive. What happens after that is all speculation.
I just wrote a book. me and god just had a pow wow out in the woods. anybody want a part of my new religion.
I can't speak for anyone else, but I hope folks haven't interpreted my previous posts as being in any way 'hateful' of Mormons. Hatred, in my book, seeks to deprive someone of his or her humanity. Certainly, there have been posts here that fit that category, but I believe I've attempted to be fair and rational.
Many LDS people on this forum have indicated a 'live and let live' call for mutual tolerance and acceptance. I applaud that and would have been delighted to carry on living and letting live until the moment the LDS leaders decided to abandon 'live and let live' and supported legislation to disintegrate the marriages of same sex couples in CA. Regardless of what you believe about same sex marriage, the effect of the LDS actions (among others) was to destroy thousands of marriages. Please don't try to dodge that fact or cloak yourselves in the mantle of victimhood when I point it out.
It's truly amazing that a large number of LDS members have expressed genuine shock and surprise that gay people might actually be angry with them over this. (And please note, anger and hatred are not the same thing).
Imagine if an important religious organization donated large amounts of money to a campaign to make Mormon marriage illegal for the reason that they felt it was somehow morally wrong. And in the process they trotted out all sorts of lies and distortions about Mormons (or LDS members if that's a more appropriate term?). Say that measure passed and suddenly all of your marriages were broken apart in the eyes of the law. Wouldn't you be just a tiny bit peeved?
My point in bringing up same sex marriage was not to attack anyone or try to sway anyone over to my position -- though follow up questions did spur some healthy debate. And, in spite of what another post implied, I haven't called anyone a 'bigot.' Rather, I want to foster an understanding that the actions of those LDS leaders have consequences. And some of those consequences include feelings of anger toward those leaders, the followers who contributed to prop 8, and whatever doctrine seeks to treat gay and lesbian people as somehow less than others.
BTW, the first two definitions of 'accost' from dictionary.com:
1. to confront boldly: The beggar accosted me for money.
2. to approach, esp. with a greeting, question, or remark.
My experiences with missionaries have fit both of these definitions. Accost does not mean 'assault.'
I am a Brazilian LDS Bishop, and serve on the MTC - Missionary Traing Center, teaching and helping prepare missionaries for the field. I have lived in Texas for some time, and had an office in Dallas, next to a man from Pakistan, and we would just say hi occasionally. One day, I was reading an LDS Church publication in the building, and he asked about our religion. To summarize this, we spent the afternoon talking about his Muslim religion, and I answered many questions about the LDS way of living. I was amazed at how many good things he and his friends do in their community, and we became good friends. No hate. Just brotherly love between two persons who really sat down and decided to learn from another..What a contrast to what |I see in this blog! Articles of Faith 11 and 13 are the cure to all this... http://scriptures.lds.org/en/a_of_f/1
Interesting connections between Mormons and early Christianity:
http://NewTestamentTempleRitual.blogspot.com
Are Mormons Christians?
The 2005 National Study of Youth and Religion published by UNC-Chapel Hill found that Church of Jesus Christ (LDS) youth (ages 13 to 17) were more likely to exhibit these Christian characteristics than Evangelicals (the next most observant group):
1. Attend Religious Services weekly
2. Importance of Religious Faith in shaping daily life – extremely important
3. Believes in life after death
4. Does NOT believe in psychics or fortune-tellers
5. Has taught religious education classes
6. Has fasted or denied something as spiritual discipline
7. Sabbath Observance
8. Shared religious faith with someone not of their faith
9. Family talks about God, scriptures, prayer daily
10. Supportiveness of church for parent in trying to raise teen (very supportive)
11. Church congregation has done an excellent job in helping teens better understand their own sexuality and sexual morality
LDS / Evangelical
1. 71% 55%
2. 52 . . 28
3. 76 . .62
4. 100 . 95
5. 42 . . 28
6. 68 . . 22
7. 67 . . 40
8. 72 . . 56
9. 50 . . 19
10 65 . . 26
11 84 . . 35
So what do you think the motivation is for the Evangelical preachers to denigrate the Mormon Church? You would think Evangelical preachers would be emulating Mormon practices (a creed to believe, a place to belong, a calling to live out, and a hope to hold onto) which were noted by Methodist Rev. Kenda Creasy Dean of the Princeton Theological Seminary, as causing Mormon teenagers to “top the charts” in Christian characteristics.
It seems obvious pastors shouldn't be denigrating a church based on First Century Christianity, with high efficacy.
[One of the plausible reasons why some Evangelical pastors denigrate Mormon belief is to protect their flock against a different interpretation of Christianity (and their livelihood).]
Further Reading: http://jesuschrist.lds.org/SonOfGod/eng/
A Southern Baptist minister says the Book of Mormon is consistent with Jesus Christ’s teachings in the New Testament: http://www.centerplace.org/library/bofm/baptistversionofbofm.htm
There is so much hate in the world........
So very sad.
For Christian, Aethist, Msulim or Jew -
May we all be forgiven.
I am saddened at reading all of this - not because I am a mormon and I don't like or don't want to try to understand all the misconceptions or allegations posted here, but just at the unwillingness on both sides to have an open dialogue. I have been a member my whole life and have experienced questions and misgivings about some of what the church or it's membership (sometimes it's hard to tell which is being represented) has put forth. I do know, that it does help me , motivate me to be the very best that I can. I want to love and help all of those around me regardless of his/her religion and I want to respect the good in each of us. Polygamy does bother me, I'm not sure that Prop 8 in california should have been passed - I have many friends that the passing of Prop 8 offended and understandably so. I don't have all the answers, as I am sure many, if not all, that have posted on here, don't either. When I do have all of the answers, maybe I'll start being so defensive and/or taking offense to all that has been written. As for now, I'm trying to figure out my own life - and that's enough for me. I do believe that the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has been a blessing in my life and has never encouraged me to do/be anything but Christlike. I'm not perfect and neither is anything here on this earth, but so much more would be accomplished by admitting our own faults as individuals than pointing a finger at others to place blame.
Mikemass:
I can understand why you’re angry that you lost the marriage battle in California. The loss for gays and lesbians is a result of varied causes. What Mormons resent, rightfully so, is being targeted as the “scapegoat” for your loss. If you took every single Mormon vote out of the election in California, Prop 8 would have still passed.
One can only speculate whether Prop 8 would have failed if Mormons would not have donated their money and time to it. To argue that the Mormon’s influenced the election is also a matter of speculation. Generally, people in California are not influenced by the Mormon population on political matters. Did Mormons suddenly gain a new and permanent influence there before the election? No. But gays and lesbians are behaving as if they did and treating Mormons as if they “sole” the election from them – both untenable positions.
Mormons are an easy target. In this case, the agendas of the liberal media and gays and lesbians just happen to align perfectly: blame Mormons for gay marriage losses. Back in November, two other states also had similar measures on their ballots – Arizona and Florida. How did those measures pass without the big bad Mormons to help them?
What happened in California and also in Arizona and in Florida is that a majority of citizens reasoned through the evidence and the issues and determined that gay marriage is not a right after all, despite what gay advocates have said and what the left leaning media have tried to assert.
Black Americans in California, those who have a reason to be sensitive to civil rights issues, voted overwhelmingly for Prop 8.
Mike, most, if not all of the missionaries you encounter did not vote for Prop 8. Connecting their religious fervor, ridiculing it to vent your frustrations over the loss of the gay marriage battle in California needs serious examination.
Mormons understand clearly that gays and lesbians wanted gay marriage to be legal. Naturally there is disappointment, hurt feelings, and anger. However, using that anger and venting frustrations because missionaries are walking the streets asking if anyone will listen to their message, is just evidence of sour grapes over a fair and constitutional vote.
My petition to you is – get behind the law and acknowledge the constitutional process. The people have spoken, and at present, the California Supreme Court seems to be leaning to uphold Prop 8 as a viable and legal amendment.
The issue of whether gay marriage will be legal has already been decided. The answer is no, it is not to be legal, despite what one extra California Supreme Court justice reasoned back in June 2008. Gay marriage in California was made temporality legal by one justice – a fallible human being – and a new social experiment was forced upon the people. The people of California responded with a legal amendment – their answer? No gay marriage. And so it is in 25 states which have Constitutional bans on SSM.
This isn’t a narrow Mormon problem Mike, it’s a national referendum on gay marriage. The people of the United States are speaking loudly and clearly to gays and lesbians that they are not in favor of the social experiment of SSM.
Can I fully understand gay and lesbian disappointment? I can try, but in that I am limited because I do not have same-sex attraction.
In an earlier post you asked why Mormons are against gay marriage. I would say that for Mormons, the main reason is because of their belief in the literal resurrection. God made two genders: male and female. These two genders have a specific identify in their perfection. In the resurrection, same sex attraction, a psychological contradiction against gender identity, will not be “resurrected” with it. Subsequently, there can be no gay unions in heaven.
For myself, there is also an important and necessary secular approach to this issue. It too takes its primacy based on human identity. Same sex attraction is contrary to the necessary identity and purpose of human gender. Same sex unions are not necessary for children, adults or for society. While many people desire same sex unions, (their perceived needs), it is not necessary for human society to survive or to thrive.
At present, most of the sociological data since the 1980s has been found to be flawed. Why? The data was skewed by the presence and influence of heterosexuals on children and other adults within the studies. The NEW science that is emerging paints a different picture of the influence that same sex unions have on families. Further, the theory of in-born genes causing same sex attraction has all but been invalidated, even by gay advocate scientists.
In human history, there have been many flirtations with same sex unions, but they all failed as social constructs. Why do they fail? Because they are not necessary for humans. Why must we replay the failures of the past, simply because a few desire the social construct today?
I’ll keep to social outcomes rather than other concerns. But from a religious point of view, there is a genuine concern over the potential loss of religious liberty and control over education.
You mentioned a couple of reasons – for stability between homosexual partners. However, there is no evidence that marriage stabilizes homosexual relationships. This is a stolen concept from heterosexual unions. The nature and general behavioral application of same sex attraction itself contradicts the principle and necessity for strict monogamy.
The emerging results from nations or states where gay marriage is legal comprises 1) fewer marriages among all groups, 2) increased devalue of the marriage institution, 3) increased separation of marriage from parenthood, and 4) increases in unwed birth rates.
From a sociological point of view, all of these social outcomes will significantly impact Americans ONLY in negative ways. Many of these outcomes will result in more crime, more child abuse, and more poverty.
So, why is gay marriage necessary or desirable for the human race again?
mikemass,
In Loving, marriage is declared a basic civil right, but I think you're taking that phrase out of context here. Consider that the entire case rests on the Equal Protection Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment and then re-evaluate how this could be applied to same sex marriages. The law in Virginia prior to 1967 was that any white person entering into a marriage relationship with a non-white person was punishable by prison sentence not to exceed five years, but for a minimum of one year. There is no law on the books in California or anywhere else in the United States that punishes the attempt at a same sex union. The states simply choose to not recognize same sex unions as valid. Loving also delegates, in accordance with precedent, that the "state court is no doubt correct in asserting that marriage is a social relation subject to the State's police power, Maynard v. Hill, 125 U.S. 190 (1888), the State does not contend in its argument before this Court that its powers to regulate marriage are unlimited notwithstanding the commands of the Fourteenth Amendment." And so, according to Loving, The Fourteenth Amendment, specifically the equal protection clause, says nothing of procurring entitlements to marry. It only protects against state sanctioned backlash against interracial marriages. There is nothing wrong with the amendment in California because it was voted on by the people of the entire state and because it doesn't penalize same sex relationships. All the civil benefits of a legal marriage can be obtained by legal contract amongst same sex couples. Blaming Mormons for donating money in support of Prop 8 is flawed because Mormons weren't the only group to donate financially to this cause. Furthermore, they weren't the only ones to vote on the issue. Blaming Mormon leaders is also not appropriate because they encouraged support from their members on an issue on which they have a firm moral stance. Whether they are wrong or right to support this cause, you can decide for yourself, but to oppose thier right to support the cause in the first place is fundamentally wrong. A fundamental right to speak freely is indisputably protected by the constitution. I'll support your right to criticize Mormon leaders provided you equally respect and support their right to openly oppose same sex marriage no matter how ridiculous it seems to you.
1 Nephi 8:33 "And great was the multitude that did enter into that strange building. And after they did enter into that building they did point the finger of scorn at me and those that were partaking of the fruit also; but we heeded them not.
34 These are the words of my father: For as many as heeded them, had fallen away."
Tom H. said:
"In fact, the LDS Church completes a new chapel building about every day. These buildings reflect real growth in the world and not just a revolving door statistic."
This may be true but it doen't account for population shifts and the chapels that are sold off due to poor attendence. In general conference you never hear about the wards and stakes that are dissolved or the wards that are reverted back to branches.
Sorry but these are the facts.
And as for the prophecy of the church filling the whole earth? Not going to happen. The mormon church is a drop in the bucket compared to the world population. The Jehovahas Witnesses the Seven Day Adventists and the Penecostals are growing at a more rapid rate than the mormons.
Maybe theirs churches will fill the earth. That prophesy was misplaced. Just like when Brigham Young said men live on the moon and the sun.
At any rate, many people have never even heard of the mormon church, let alone been approached by a missionary. Many in the U.S. have never even heard of the mormon church.
Too, the church is very busy processing many who do not want to be affilitated with the church. i.e resigning their membership. Gregg Dodge at the church office building had to hire more staff to stay abreast with the numerous members who no longer want any part of the mormon church.
All of you can type out your arguments, reason and debate until the cows come home; however, what it all boils down to is this: we all have our own experiences. I can not say how Stan or Dave or Mitch or Lola or anyone else on this blog came to their conclusions. I can only say how I came to mine. I am the only person who truly knows the intent of my heart. I feel no desire to pressure, condemn, or convince anyone else to feel the same. The footprint I leave on this earth is not only pretty insignificant, it's a fleck of dust through the sands of time. Why can we not be content to pace ourselves against ... ourselves? Why can we not attempt to do our best? To love and treat one another the way we would like to be treated? How about we stop pointing fingers (or wagging them), accept, and love one another. It's not a new idea, but it sure is a good one!
All the Momon naysayers are like the little kids who say, "I won't eat that. I know it's terrible." yet they've never tried it.
When I say "try it", I mean leave your preconceived notions behind. With an honest and open heart, learn about it. (and I don't mean from an ex-mormon or your baptist preacher). Then pray to God to know if it's true. That's it. Simple, pure, and honest. Let yourself be influenced by God, not by man.
If God tells you it's true, then it's up to you to decide if you'll listen.
TomH:
I appreciate you taking the time to respond in such depth. You've clearly put a lot of thought into this issue.
For the record, I explicitly stated that I did not solely blame Mormons for the passage of prop 8. If this were a forum of Catholics wondering why folks don't appreciate them, I'd have made similar points. It is unfortunate that Mormons have been shouldering most of the blame. But the fact remains that LDS leaders worked hard to ensure the passage of prop 8, using large amounts of money and influence. To deny responsibility for that by essentially saying "other folks helped, why not blame them?" is suspect. You said, "If you took every single Mormon vote out of the election in California, Prop 8 would have still passed." Possibly. But can you make the same statment substituting the word "dollar" for "vote?"
You also state: "...a majority of citizens reasoned through the evidence and the issues and determined that gay marriage is not a right after all..." I wish "reason" was the guiding principle here. Unfortunately I think fear and misinformation were more at play. This is one reason why I don't believe minority rights should be put to public vote.
I don't recall linking my irritation with being accosted by missionaries to prop 8. Not sure where you got that from. I listed it as a separate example of intrusion into others' lives. Please don't presume motivation where there is none.
You mentioned "social experiment" again. Please answer the points I made in previous posts in response to that. Likewise for the "necessity" argument. I made several previous points on that to which you did not respond. And I already answered your question about necessity.
You wrote: "At present, most of the sociological data since the 1980s has been found to be flawed." That's news to me. Care to support that statment with empirical fact? What exactly made pre-1980 data unflawed?
"The data was skewed by the presence and influence of heterosexuals on children and other adults within the studies. The NEW science that is emerging paints a different picture of the influence that same sex unions have on families. Further, the theory of in-born genes causing same sex attraction has all but been invalidated, even by gay advocate scientists."
Evidence please. Please cite reputable, peer-reviewed scientific studies that support your claims. I fully acknowledge that the genetic factors are not clear. But there is mounting evidence that homosexuality has biological origin. Read the wikipedia entry on homosexuality (and the studies it cites if you care to) for more on that.
"The nature and general behavioral application of same sex attraction itself contradicts the principle and necessity for strict monogamy."
Please explain. And then explain how opposite sex attraction conforms to the principle and necessity for scrict monogamy. I'm sure all the non-monogamous heterosexuals of the world will be interested to hear that one.
"The emerging results from nations or states where gay marriage is legal comprises 1) fewer marriages among all groups, 2) increased devalue of the marriage institution, 3) increased separation of marriage from parenthood, and 4) increases in unwed birth rates."
Please cite the studies in question and then, more importantly, explain how they clearly show a causal relationship between the phenomenon in question and the legalization of same sex marriage. Remember, correlation is not causation. Average global temperatures have also increased since the legalization of same sex marriage. That doesn't mean gay marriage causes global warming. In order for your argument to be valid, you need to clearly demonstrate that these phenomena were not already on the rise prior to same sex marriage. And for your last trick, please explain why Massachusetts continues to have one of the lowest divorce rates in the country, even after the legalization of same sex marriage here.
This is a great dialog. I just ask that you back up your statements with evidence and facts and I'll be happy to do the same.
Dave: (Andrew)
You wrote:
""In fact, the LDS Church completes a new chapel building about every day. These buildings reflect real growth in the world and not just a revolving door statistic."
This may be true but it doen't account for population shifts and the chapels that are sold off due to poor attendence."
Dave, yes the building of NEW chapels does take into account the population shifts and the ones due to poor attendance or demographic shifts. Every faith has its detractors and its individuals who want to leave. That individuals want to make a big statement when the leave the LDS Church, says something about the appeal to popular culture and not a new found truth they have discovered. I have never known any individual who could logically account for their departure from the LDS faith supported by a new faith that was superior to Mormonism. That is not a statement of arrogance but of experience.
On Church growth, the LDS Church is patient. Over the next 50 years, most of the dogma upon which traditional Christianity was founded (I am referring to those creeds and doctrines created around 300 AD and forward) will mostly be refuted by archeology and scientific evidence. The only faith that stands firm on solid philosophical ground, which is supported by scientific evidence, is the Mormon religion.
In time, whole religious belief systems will be swept from off the face of the earth, because the evidence will be so overwhelming. That process began about 150 years ago with evidence from the sedimentary layers of the earth.
You may not know this yet Dave, but the doctrines of the “6 (24-hour) day creation,” creation out of nothing, negative theology, God as pure consciousness dwelling outside the universe, and permanent human alienation from God, have all been disproved by scientific principles.
Certainly Jehovah’s witness and Seventh Day Adventists are growing at a rapid pace – but to what end? Their faiths share the same founding principles as the rest of the religions based on the primacy of consciousness – they are all threatened by scientific truths. It is only a matter of time.
Dave, you’re mixing of the present and the future is a bit interesting to watch. You appeal to what you want to happen as what will happen, but you present no reasons why you might be right. And no, Brigham Young didn’t “prophesy” that people lived on the moon or sun, he was responding to the truth that God created other worlds and peopled them before this one. Then, he speculated looking to the closest objects he could see with his naked eye. My suspicion is that you already know that.
Dave, let me introduce you to a Mormon principle before it was accepted by the scientific community – it was revealed by Joseph Smith: “matter is neither created nor destroyed.”
That one principle changes EVERYTHIING in traditional Christianity.
If matter is neither created nor destroyed, then:
• God has co-existed with matter for eternity.
• God didn’t create the universe out of nothing but organized it out of existing matter.
• God is not a pure consciousness outside space and time.
• God cannot destroy Satan.
• God cannot destroy the energy of the soul.
• God must exist inside space.
• A six day creation is figurative.
• The earth is billions of years old.
• “In the beginning” in the Bible must refer to the beginning of this earth’s creation, not the beginning of life in the universe.
If one holds to the proven scientific principle of the indestructibility of matter, then one must embrace a new reality about God’s existence. All world religions ultimately rest on the belief that God exists as a pure consciousness, outside space and time, that creates the world out of nothing.
While I respect the right of individuals to their own personal belief, and do not fault them for it, the time has come to put away fables and fantasies that cannot exist in the universe and at the same time be compatible with the indestructibility of matter and energy.
Bence:
"In Loving, marriage is declared a basic civil right, but I think you're taking that phrase out of context here."
Marriage is a civil right. All of your context and explanation do not change that fact. An earlier poster claimed that marriage is not a civil right. I corrected him. That's all. And whether someone is punished or not for trying to seek access to a civil right is irrelevant to the fact that it is a civil right. Not punishing someone for trying to vote, but still denying them access to the voting both is a violation of that person's civil rights. There is no "punishment test" in the determination of what constitutes a civil right.
"Blaming Mormons for donating money in support of Prop 8 is flawed because Mormons weren't the only group to donate financially to this cause."
As I've said repeatedly, I don't blame only Mormons. There's plenty of responsibility to go around. Does this mean Mormons should not be accountable for their actions? If you burn down a building along with two other people, would you say to an arresting officer: "It's not my fault because other people helped too?" Or to use a more positive example, if you build a house as part of a team, would you refuse any money for yourself on that basis that others helped build the house too?
"Blaming Mormon leaders is also not appropriate because they encouraged support from their members on an issue on which they have a firm moral stance."
Oh, I see. So we shouldn't hold folks accountable for their words and actions so long as they're acting out of a firm moral stance? So I guess it would be inappropriate to blame the folks who opposed women's suffrage, the end of slavery, etc.? After all, they were acting on a firm moral stance too.
"Whether they are wrong or right to support this cause, you can decide for yourself, but to oppose thier right to support the cause in the first place is fundamentally wrong."
I've never opposed their right to support or not support anything. Everyone has the right to free speech and to support whatever they want. And I am exercising my right to criticize their position and to try to make folks aware of the results of their actions. That's all.
I appreciate Rachel's youthful "search for truth." All the comments I read have some truth that divides us from one another. Jesus Christ IS TRUTH. If the focus of man was totally on GOD and HIS WORD instead of men and women defending religions created and interpreted by men and women to suit their imperfect understanding of God, we could be united in the will and purposes God has for us. That said, to be suspicious and flee from anything that deviates from God's Holy Word is prudent for all believers in Christ.
Over 1/3 of molestation cases are homosexual. Considering how many homosexuals there are (1-2% and rising), that percentage is far higher than it should be if homosexuality was not dangerous. People may try to dispute this data with other statistics which are agenda driven, but based on the cases in my community, I know this data is correct, if not a very conservative figure. Members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints have great reason to fear this epidemic (homosexuality), as do all people. Everyone has to make a decision based on what they have observed.
response to #61 While I do not agree with the gay or lesbian lifestyle, I do not condemn them. I do however feel that by making it lawful for them to be married, it will start forcing churches to marry them in their church. If the churches do not allow it, then the churches would be held in contempt of the law for discrimination. I live in GA so I had no say in that CA decision, however, If I were, I do have the right to vote my own conscious. I do have the right to support the political stands for which I agree. Just as no one wants religions forcing their beliefs on them, why should religions be forced to agree to same sex marriages?
EVERY RELIGION IS A CULT! Religion is the true root of all evil! People have been fighting and killing over their beliefs since well before Jesus. In the end, they're all the same and those who are consumed with a specific route to God are mindless, without individual thought. Joe Smith is simply the most recent successful cult founder. LDS Church is full of good people who truly care for others. Living in the west, I know many Mormons and have never heard a bad word said about another group. Some of the most honest caring people you will meet are in the LDS church. That said, it is completely understandable why “outsiders” question their beliefs, rules and hypocrisy.
Ryan wrote:
Over 1/3 of molestation cases are homosexual.
I would like to see the origin of this study and why you take it for fact. Also, your community is a very small sample that is really irrelevant in this discussion. Here's a fact, 100% of child molesters are pedophiles, not homosexuals. Fear of gays & lesbians is as silly as fear of other religions or spiders. Don't create stats to justify your hate of another group.
Here’s a brain teaser, if 75%+ of the prison population is black does that mean all African Americans are criminals? Should we fear them because of their skin tone? Because at the end skin tone and homosexuality are both genetic.
Rick
FOR PEOPLE OF ALL FAITHS AND VIEWPOINTS . . . An excellent way to learn more about what the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (the Mormons) stands for, please go to www.lds.org. You can also chat online with a representative of the Church on www.mormon.org. I also recommend reading the Book of Mormon with an open and sincere heart and asking God if it is true and if Joseph Smith wrote the book or translated it by the power of God. Also, a Semi-Annual Conference of the Church can be viewed on April 4th & April 5th.by going to www.lds.org. Leaders of the Church will there speak on various topics.
I did not realize that there were already same sex marriages that would be affected by the proclomation 8. I did not realize either that the court went against the majority vote and legalized same sex marriage anyway. In that respect, it is the courts fault the marriages are not valid, not the public. The people only supported what they believe, that marriage should only be between man and woman. In the 1800s the LDS plural marriages were also revoked when plural marriages were banned in this country. Why is it ok for everyone else to deny plural marriages on behalf of beliefs but LDS members leaders are viewed as "wrong" and unethical or whatever else is said for using those same rights? I agree that it should notr be a tit for tat world but I am simply trying to make a point here.
Re: #93-- There’s an important difference between contending and standing up for one's beliefs. "The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing." Criticizing people for pouring out their hearts is sanctimonious and cruel. We all have a right to opinions. Even those who mock, hiding behind anonymity with the cowardice of all bullies, have that right. It's just too bad that their childish methods speak so poorly of them. And re #97-- it's sad that you assume everything is written JUST to YOU. The “anti” things you say aren’t the only “anti” things said, and you and yours aren’t the only ones hurt by the controversies at hand. There have been repeated acts of domestic terrorism, threats, hazing, violence, and other ugliness directed at people because they “dared” vote their consciences. Are victims not victims, simply because they disagree with YOU?
I hope you can stop jumping on points to argue instead of listening respectfully and trying to learn. (You don’t have to agree.) As any linguist will tell you, some words have certain connotations, leaving distinct impressions. No mature person wants to get into a childish “unh-unh!” “uh-huh!” match with you, and I’m done with this subject, but if you think you’re not being superior, judgmental ,and hateful, you’re fooling yourself. Arrogance and disdain ooze from your posts, and that’s really too bad. I hope you can find some peace. It’s truly sad to see someone stew in such bitterness.
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Sally, thank you for an open respectful conversation. I have always enjoyed your writings.
I appreciate a religious discussion. I am a Latter-Day Saint that was raised by a mother who attended Columbia University and Julliard in NYC and a father who attended Berkeley in California, a lovely balance of parents. My mother gained her testimony of the church reading and praying about The Book of Mormon, while attending Columbia. Both of my parents taught me that I would need to gain my own personal testimony through study and prayer, which I gained when I was 18 years old, which came through feeling the reality and personal love of Jesus Christ in an answer to prayer. As I study the Book of Mormon, I feel I have come home. It stands as a second witness of Jesus Christ together with the Bible. the last In the back chapters of The Book of Mormon is as verse of scripture that helps me listen to and understand others from other religions in the book of Moroni chapter 10 verse 5 , "And by the power of the Holy Ghost ye may know the truth of all things." In other words we can go anywhere and listen to others and know what is true. Our children went with friends to Hebrew school in New York and we have attended other churches meetings and have been enriched in understanding, and through the Holy Ghost we have learned from what the Lord has given to his children throughout the world to guide them. Do we believe that The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints is the truest church on earth, yes.
We believe it is the Lord's restored church, with His guidance and authority. We also believe that our Savior and Lord Jesus Christ died for all of the people that were ever born on earth and that they will all be resurrected, and can repent and be forgiven because of His atonement for all, which was freely given. We believe through the pieces of truth that the Lord has given His children throughout the world, they will be able recognize the fullness of the truth. I find great peace and comfort in the Lord's Plan of Salvation, that continues the practice of baptisms for the dead in the temples, because it gives all of His children the same opportunity to choose baptism and to follow Jesus Christ, if it is their will to do so. To me it is merciful that all of those born on earth have the same blessings.
As a faithful latter-day saint, a convert of 36 years, the one thing we can all agree on is either The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints is true or it is not.
Has it made my life better than it was before I joined? Absolutely. There are so many experiences that would have been much more difficult to get through without my membership and all that has meant to me.
If you looked at the other segments, you would notice that the other participants gained something from their faith. I do not begrudge any of the blessings that they gained from those associations.
Truth is truth. Arguments, even persuasive arguments, do not change truth. Each of us can offer information and others can sift through the infomation to judge where truth may be found.
Because members of a faith recognize the benefits/ blessings that they receive, they often share their experience with a friend, neighbor or co-worker or even a stranger,. Please judge gently. When someone shares something so personal and precious to them, they don't do it to harm. So save insults for someone who is trying to insult. There are many ways to say; "I disagree".
It is interesting to read some of the comments made in reference to Rachel's video clip on the LDS religion. I, too, am a member (life-long with pioneer ancestry on both sides of my family) of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day-Saints. I have been sealed in the Temple and have also served a mission for the Church. Conversion to truth is a process for all members, and for anyone else who feels they have found the truth in what we know as, 'the restored Gospel of Jesus Christ'. Seeking, and finding truth is as easy for any human as it is for the members of the Church, Christian or non-Christian. In James, chapter 1:5, it
states: If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all me liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be give him.' Next, some VERY important words: 'But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering'. If one REALLY wants to know, 'let him (or her) ask in faith'... How can we know? Let's go to John, chapter 14:26, where Jesus tells his disciples (and us, if we claim to be His followers): But the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you. To recognize the fruit of theSpirit we can turn to Galatians 5:22-23, where we read: But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. In my mind, there is no reason to contradict, argue, question, dispute, etc., when we ALL, especially in the Christian world, because we believe in God and His Son, Jesus Christ, have equal access to receive a witness of truth through the Holy Ghost, IF we 'ask in faith, nothing wavering.' Amen