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It's a (Catholic) boy! Meet baby Benedict

Posted by Michael Paulson July 14, 2009 02:26 PM

Benedict_Bettinelli.jpgTalk about taking your faith seriously: Domenico Bettinelli, Jr., a staffer at the Archdiocese of Boston, has named his baby Benedict. As in, Benedict XVI, who, as careful readers of this blog are undoubtedly aware, is the current occupant of the chair of Peter (the pope!).

I e-mailed Dom, whose official title is manager of gifts processing and donor relations at the Catholic Foundation, to ask about the name choice. Here's his response:

"We had several reasons for choosing the name Benedict Joseph, which I guess is not unlike the experience of most parents. As active Catholics who are serious about our faith, we love the idea of naming our son after the several saints named Benedict, including St. Benedict of Norcia, whose feast day is Saturday, and St. Benedict of Poland, whose feast day was (July 9), my son's birth day.

Then there is our current Holy Father, Pope Benedict XVI. Melanie and I are both big fans of the Pope, ever since he was still Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger. Of course, as much as we love our Pope, if he had picked as a pontifical name something a little less common like Pius, Urban, or Innocent I don't think we'd have saddled our son with it. But like my many friends who showed their esteem for Pope John Paul by naming their sons after him, I think this trend is continuing with our present Holy Father and we're happy to be part of it.

And then the third reason is that my father-in-law's middle name is Benedict, which was his Confirmation name and his religious name as a secular Carmelite. So we did it to honor him as well.

I'm still holding out hope to name a future son Pier Giorgio after my favorite beati Bl. Pier Giorgio Frassati, but Melanie still needs some convincing on that one."

Of course, I learned about this from Dom's blog, which brings up another point: the real saint in the family must be his wife, because not only did Dom liveblog the birth (sort of), but he also tweeted, facebooked, and flickr'd his way through it.

(Photo, of baby Benedict and father Dom Bettinelli, courtesy of the proud father.)

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29 comments so far...
  1. Thanks Michael! Actually Melanie famously liveblogged the labor of our second daughter, Sophia, last year so while I think she's a saint, she's also a committed technophile like me too.

    Posted by Domenico Bettinelli Jr. July 14, 09 02:59 PM
  1. There is no such thing as a Catholic child.

    Is he also a Conservative Republican?

    Let him choose his own religion when he's old enough think and choose for himself.

    Posted by Fran July 14, 09 04:22 PM
  1. Fran,

    Actually when the child is Baptized he does become a Catholic. If it helps you understand it's similar to someone becoming a citizen of the USA. Of course no one can keep the child from practicing a different religion or no religion when he becomes an adult. It's the whole free will deal.

    Peace and Blessings,

    Posted by proud2bcatholic July 14, 09 04:32 PM
  1. There are just millions of Catholic children all and all over the world! They all are just very proud to be Catholic!

    Posted by Germanist July 14, 09 04:32 PM
  1. who cares. Obviously this has already been blogged, tweeted and otherwise documented ad nauseum, so all who had personal interest had already been alerted.

    Posted by Bostonia July 14, 09 04:33 PM
  1. Congrats to Domenic and family. Well done.
    Fran, we can smell an ex-Catholic a mile away.

    Posted by nv July 14, 09 04:35 PM
  1. Pope Benedict is a mess -- why would anyone name their baby after the evil emperor from Star Wars?

    Posted by Andrew Flinders July 14, 09 04:45 PM
  1. Congrats, Dom and Melanie!
    Nice to see the haters can't drop their knives long enough to celebrate the birth of a child, but welcome to 2009.

    Posted by Dale Price July 14, 09 05:42 PM
  1. Congratulations (again), Dom and Melanie -
    Joanne M

    Posted by gigi July 14, 09 06:42 PM
  1. Hello Dom & Melanie,
    congratulations on the birth of your lovely little boy.
    I gave birth to a boy on 28th march this year, and my husband and I also named him Benedict. We are Catholics who also love the Pope!
    Amy Ferguson
    (Melbourne, Australia)

    Posted by Amy Ferguson July 14, 09 07:25 PM
  1. Nv, Fran's comments about letting the child choose his own religion is not an indication that he/she is an ex Catholic. I am Catholic and raised my children as such. When my son was doing his confirmation at age 16, the priest asked him to attend service/mass at churches of other religion to be sure that he wants to remain a Catholic. Was the priest trying to push my son into converting into another religion? No. The priest simply wanted him to make up his own mind. Fran's point precisely.

    Posted by Luciennepierre July 14, 09 07:50 PM
  1. Congratulations! What a wonderful story of a loving family. Welcome to the world, little Benedict!

    Posted by Barb in Nebraska July 14, 09 09:51 PM
  1. Congrats Dom and Melanie.

    Fran, you are an anti-Catholic ! There are millions and millions of Catholic children all around the world.

    Posted by scaldie July 14, 09 10:05 PM
  1. Why is this even slightly relevant to the general population? There is no need for something like this to be on the front page of Boston.com. There's a page for births in the newspaper.. put it there.

    Posted by News Worthy July 14, 09 11:38 PM
  1. I completely agree with News Worthy!!! Religion is much more complicated and exciting these days than this story can even begin to relate! Please, a real article on religion!

    Posted by Rhoda Serafim July 15, 09 12:18 AM
  1. Hi Mike P, Domenico Bettinelli, Jr,

    ST: Your reasoning is Well Sounded

    Congrats on the birth of your boy.

    Yours in GOD, MA/NY MrDave

    Posted by MANY_MrDave July 15, 09 12:52 AM
  1. Hi News Worthy, MikeyP,

    ST: Glory to this Child and The Family

    "Why is this even slightly relevant to the general population? There is no need for something like this to be on the front page of Boston.com. There's a page for births in the newspaper.. put it there."

    Go Tell your frustrations to the Mountain
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XqPkBvTdgT0

    Based on their salary cut backs and their attack on the Church, they in the Globe might have found religion.

    The birth of a child is always special, unless you are with the abortion on demand crowd that degrades all of life for the so called issue of personal Imperial Self privacy. Sonia has to navigate this passage yet I think she knows the answer.

    Posted by MANY_MrDave July 15, 09 01:10 AM
  1. No, a child does not become a Catholic when he or she is baptized - the child becomes A CHRISTIAN.

    Posted by Jay July 15, 09 05:36 AM
  1. Yes, when a child is baptized in the Catholic Church, he or she does become a Catholic.

    Let it go!!

    Posted by Jen July 15, 09 09:49 AM
  1. Posted by Luciennepierre July 14, 09 07:50 PM

    Anyway you can tell me what parish and/or who the Priest was? Was this recently?

    Peace and Blessings

    Posted by proud2bcatholic July 15, 09 10:42 AM
  1. Jay,

    I agree that the child becomes a Christian but if it's in a Catholic Church then they ebcome mebers of the original and only Christian Chruch for the first 1,500 years after the Resurrection.

    Peace and Blessings

    Posted by proud2bcatholic July 15, 09 10:44 AM
  1. "Nv, Fran's comments about letting the child choose his own religion is not an indication that he/she is an ex Catholic. I am Catholic and raised my children as such. When my son was doing his confirmation at age 16, the priest asked him to attend service/mass at churches of other religion to be sure that he wants to remain a Catholic. Was the priest trying to push my son into converting into another religion? No. The priest simply wanted him to make up his own mind. Fran's point precisely." posted by Lucienpierre

    Lucienpierre, there's a big difference between baptism and confirmation. for the observant Catholic and other Christians, baptism is the beginning of a lifetime relationship with Jesus Christ and the entrance into eternal life, and entrance into that community of love which is Jesus' church. Who would not want to give that gift to your baby? Confirmation, while nice, does is not necessary for salvation.

    Plus,unless you changed your name, I see your parents gave you the nice gift of being named afters saints Luke and Peter.

    Posted by gaudete July 15, 09 12:33 PM
  1. Interestingly, the name Benedict comes from Bene, good, well, and dictio, speech, meaning good speech, blessing, the same as Baruch, and Barack, from the Hebrew/Arabic/Semitic beraka. But you can call him Ben, or Bennie, you dassn't half to call him Benedict.

    Posted by gaudete July 15, 09 04:50 PM
  1. Dom and Melanie: Congratulations!!! Your son is beautiful, and what a great name you have chosen for him!!

    Posted by Elizabeth July 15, 09 09:14 PM
  1. I see Pope Benedict XVI as an amazing and beautiful man, so when I bought a new car (which I love dearly)- I christened him Benedict. I feel protected and safe. As a senior citizen, I'm too old to bring more children into the world, and Benedict (my car) brings me love and closeness I need.

    Posted by Lyn July 15, 09 11:40 PM
  1. God Bless you! Our current Holy Father's name will be always encouragement for your son's faith. We, Catholics, are doing what we should have done for centuries so Dom do not ever think of anti-Catholic's sayings.

    Posted by Lawrence the Myanmar July 16, 09 01:15 AM
  1. Careful Proud2bCatholic, your enthusiasm for defending the faith is well taken, however don't let it lead you to a warped understanding of history. Christian unity did not end 1500 years after Christ, but rather a half millennium earlier in 1054 with the great schism, when East and West split.

    While I congratulate Dom and Melanie on the birth of their child, Michael, I must wonder how this news made it onto your blog. They're not the first Catholic couple to name a child in honor of the Pope, nor will they be the last. What's the connection?

    Posted by Colin July 16, 09 11:20 PM
  1. A blog with nothing to say quoting another blog with nothing to say. Narcissus meet your twin.

    Posted by ob July 17, 09 03:51 PM
  1. Dom...my friend named her son in English after Pier Giorgio Frassati. Go for it! May your 4th child be a masculine child. I love the italian version myself. English would be Peter George...maybe Melanie would go for that! But, I say Pier all the way! I pray Boston readers were or are inspired by this beautiful story of a lovely, healthy boy born to such loving parents and family! Blessings, DianaKLoCh

    Posted by DianaKLoCh July 22, 09 11:36 PM

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