Gwen Rogers, Atlanta GA
My deepest sympathy goes out to both the Kennedy and Bessette families during this painful time and terrible tragedy. It is my prayer that all of you will put your FAITH and TRUST in the hands of GOD and he will give you ALL the STRENGTH you need to carry on. May GOD Bless and keep each and everyone of you.

Kathy McWilliams, Livingston
unspeakable sadness, such an appropriate phrase. These beautiful, young, vibrant people with so much to live for, so much to offer, taken too soon. My heart breaks for the families, caroline, the parents of those 2 wonderful women. such unspeakable sadness. all my thoughts and prayers are with the victims and their loved ones Submit: Submit City%2FTown: livingston

Laura, NS. Canada
If we don't climb mountains, we can't see the view... These three wonderful young people embodied all that each one of us hope to achieve and emulate. What a spectacular view there must have been and how full of life and how happy they must have been as John Jr. proudly piloted his plane to attend a blessed family event on that warm Friday night --- but oh! the best view of all must be from their eternal resting place - Heaven. God, comfort their families.

Jeanne, Uxbridge
So much life to live, so much good to do for others, yet it is all gone now. It seems so unfair, but life holds many mysterious secrets and we just never know what will happen tomorrow. It is a sad thing when we lose people we love. My thoughts and prayers are with the Bessette and Kennedy families. Please find them.

Damien Kelly & Karen Ostrom-Kelly, Foxborough
Words alone cannot express how we feel about the horrific plane crash which claimed the lives of JFK Jr., his wife and her sister. My husband and I were of the same generation as JFK Jr. and we feel as if we, too, lost precious family members. We each grew up in Democratic and pro-Kennedy households and if we were to make a scrap-book containing memories of our childhoods, it would certainly include photos and momentos of the Kennedy family. God Bless the Kennedy and Bessette families. They will always be in our thoughts and prayers. And a special prayer for Senator Ted Kennedy who has seen so much tragedy. May he be comforted by his faith, family and friends.

John M, Quincy
like every other person in this country have been inundated with the news coverage of this unfortunate incident, I would like to make a few observations that not many people have the courage to say. These observations are in no way belittling what happened, my sincerest sympathies go out to the entire Kennedy clan for their loss, however.... John F Kennedy Jr. was not qualified to fly that plane in the conditions on that day. He should have had a qualified instructor accompanying him. In past incidents where a small craft has crashed there has not been a search of this intensity, I find this offensive to the surviving families and friends of crash victims. I think that no one persons life is more important than another's. This search was a flagrant abuse of power. I think while it is a tragedy that three people had to loose their lives in such a manner, it could have been avoided by using simple common sense.

Margo Perez, Cambridge
I have always held a high interest and respect for the Kennedys'. I am 26 years old so I was not around for the tragedy of JFK Jr.'s father's death, but to be alive and present for this saddens me. I see what the death of such a promising person does to a country. My heart and love goes out to the Kennedy family and I am sure they know that they have the prayers of every person in the U.S. I pray that they recover the bodies of him and his wife and her sister, not just to locate the three missing bodies, but so that their families may have closure to this neverending story. And I know many people are focusing on the life and death of John, but let us not forget about his wife and her sister. It is always sad when young people die. I can see how happy they were when they are on the television, so I can only imagine the joy they brought eachother in private. To the Kennedy and Bessette families: We all love you and are sorry for your losses. God is with you and so are we.

mary, boston
For all the critics-- the next time something terrible happens in your family let's make sure it gets a headline so the rest of the world can criticize you and your mourning. Who cares who, what or how, the fact is that three young lives were lost and that in itself is a tragedy. Those nasty critics need prayers just as much. Are they jealous because they have never done anything substantial with their lives? How could they when they are so busy being nasty. Rest in peace, John, Carolyn and Lauren

Maria Anderson, Chicago
When Princess Diana was killed in the car accident a couple years ago, the British people were shocked. It took them a while to mourn her loss. Now, it's time for the American people to mourned John F. Kennedy, Jr's loss. He was a very famous person to us. Back when we were mourning the loss of his father, we saw the way he as a young boy saluted his father's casket as it was paraded down to the cementary. We fell in love with him. But don't forget the others who perished in the plane crash with him. There were two sisters Carolyn and Lauren Bessett who died. So young and full of life, it's indeed a tragedy. We may never get over this for weeks or maybe even years to come. But we must learn accept life and death. Remember this world is not perfect.

Bob Calamita, Marlboro
It's a sad day that all three of these fine individuals lost their lives, I hope and pray that they find eternal happiness with god.

Michelle B, Evertt
When I heard the news I had the same numbing feeling all aver as when Princess Di Died. I feel so sorry for both families. Life is not fair on the best of days & this goes to prove life can be very short. Live each day to the fullest.

Beverly Bosilovich, Pittsburgh
To all of the Kennedy Family, My heart goes out to all of you, including the Bessette family. John was such a wonderful man, although I never met him, just seeing him on tv and hearing him make the few speeches he made I know he was a wonderful man and that the people of America will miss him. He would have made a great president of the United States MAY GOD BLESS EACH AND EVERY ONE OF THE FAMILIES. BEVERLY BOSILOVICH

Carolyn Makk, Louisville
To Caroline, sister of John, Jr.: May God speak to you during this very painful time. Your brother is with you always now...in your heart and soul. Pray and open your heart and you will feel him. You are not alone. Just look in the loving eyes of your husband and children. Know that it is love and faith that pulls us through. God Bless. Pax.

Brian, Chelmsford
Yes, it is sad when anyone passes away. He was not qualified to fly the plane, and should not have been flying vith visual flight rules in hazy, moonless skies. This was an accident that should have been prevented. It is hardly an "american tragedy". I know if i crashed my plane, it wouldnt make the news. Im sorry for the Bessette family who lost two daughters, and one identical twin. The Kennedys reap what they sew. Plain as that.

Diana, Melrose
As someone who lost a 35-year old sister in a cruel and untimely way only five months ago, I have deep empathy for the two surviving siblings in each family: Caroline Schlossberg Kennedy and Lisa Anne Bessette. The anguish is acute, but is very slowly starting to be partially supplanted by happy remembrances. I wish the same for these two women.

Emeli Litschauer, Vienna
All our prayers are with you today, may you all rest in peace!

A Friend, Boston
My thoughts & prayers are with both families. My heart especially goes out to the siblings.

Stacie Ehlke, S.D.
When days are sad and lonely, and everything goes wrong. We seem to hear you whisper"Cheer up and carry on." Every time we see your picture, you smile and seem to say."Don't cry, I'm only sleeping, we'll meet again someday." You didn't say a last farewell nor even say good-bye. You were gone before we knew it and only God knows why. Many times we've missed you, so many times we've cried. If love alone could save you, you never would have died. In life we loved you dearly, in death we love you still. In our hearts you hold a place no one else can ever fill. It broke our hearts to lose you, but you didn't go alone...For part of us went with you the day God took you home.. I used this poem at my fathers funeral 2 years ago after we lost him to cancer..I'm hoping maybe it will help you all in your time of mourning, and send my families love and prayers to each of you..Stacie Ehlke ehlke@dtgnet.com

Vickie Gomez, Odessa, TX
If I, as an "outsider", am taking the loss of John-John very personally and find it very difficult to accept that this trajedy has taken place, how much more must his beloved family be suffering. My love and prayers to both families that have suffered such terrible losses. May the beautiful memories they have of their loved ones help ease the pain as years go by.

Geoffrey, Boston
I would like to give my condoleces to the Kennedy and Bessette families for this tragic and untimely loss. It is ALWAYS unfortunate when vibrant people of any age pass away...however, their numbers simply came up and they are now gone.
It does disturb me greatly, however, that the media coverage for this event has been so huge. The news would have us believe that life in America has momentarily ended while everyone and their brother gives some opinion as to why JFK Jr. may have been flying on that night, how fast his plane hit the water, and where the three dead may current be residing. In fact, this has been front page coverage for the last three days...
In contrast, there were two young American service men who died this weekend in Yugosolvia serving their country, and yet they have only gotten passing mention and bylines of their deaths. It is coverage like this that really makes me wonder whether the media cares or is just looking to sell newpapers and web site hits...

Betty Aubuchon, Lunenburg
The death of anyone person is a tragedy. The death of the young seems senseless and cruel, weather this be John Kennedy, Carolyn B. Kennedy her sister Lauren or the two deaths in my on family within months of each other, also young people with futures unfulfilled. The pain of loss can at times be immobilizing and some how the day to day tasks and demands remain in place and we continue, richer having known these people.

Rita, Melrose
In this terrible grief, I hope that we do not see the media behave the way they did with Princess Diana -- completely negative stories. We all make mistakes and bad judgements. If the Bessette family isn't blaming anyone, why should the press or we do so?

Linda S. Mundy
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with the families of these lovely individuals. Maybe one way we as individuals can cope with this awful accident is knowing that John Jr is with his soul mate Carolyn, grandparents, dad & mom, brother and other family members and they all have welcomed Carolyn and Lauren with open arms.

Caroline now has many angels looking over her and her precious family, who in their mysteroius way will guide her through this sad time.

Linda Mundy

Tom, Somerville
It is with the greatest and deepest sense of sadness that our society must now cope...John represented the very best America has to offer.

friend
I would just like to respond to a few of the messages from some people, namely one person who said that john and the others were dead and to just get over it. They also said we all should wait on the beach for the bodies to come to shore. This is a disgrace that someone could even write this. How would you feel if it was one of your loved ones? Very different I would guess. And about the other kennedy's having lived a somewhat of a checkered past. I am sure you have done things in your past that were also not right, but you do not have the media constantly dogging you. To me John Jr. was a role model in the fact that he lived with the media constantly breathing down his back, and yet turned out to be a fine young man. God bless both families and I hope time will heal all.

RENEE WYATT, Monroeville
TO THE BESSETTE AND KENNEDY FAMILIES, I AM VERY SORRY TO HEAR OF THE TRAGEDY THAT HAS COME TO BOTH OF YOUR FAMILIES. MAY GOD KEEP YOU AND GIVE YOU THE STRENGTH YOU WILL NEED TO CARRY ON. GOD BLESS

RENEE

Name: Supernovich Family, McKeesport
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Kennedy & Bessette families. This is a terrible tragedy for any family to go through. With God's strength and the thoughts from so many wonderful people, be what everyone needs to get through this terrible tragedy.

Laura, Boston
I'm still hoping for a miracle. Aren't we all?

Megan, Newton
As much as their families are greiving at this point, they must have some solace in that John, Carolyn, and Lauren were leading happy, prosperous lives and died doing something adventurous and fun. No one can ever say that the Kennendys perished in shame or with the "curse" of their family name...Yes, their death was unlucky and untimely, but they were active people who simply enjoyed their lives and took healthy risks. They should be admired for that, not punished for a freak accident.

Cecil Meeker, Florida
To print any of the letters that are from"anonymous" in"everywhere" or "anywhere" USA is ludicrous.Why give these nay-sayers a stage for there idiotic words in this time of mourning.And all of these "experts" with there flying expertise.we will never know why they left on this ill-fated flight or what finally happened.Better we offer our sympathies and maybe take another look at ourselves and our own lives.God bless Caroline and the Bessette family.

Someone Who Cares
My sincerest sympathies go out to the Bessett and Kennedy families. This sadness breaks all of our hearts, but I fully believe there is a lesson here for all of us. None of us are infallible and the media should not keep trying to place the blame of this accident on anyone - after all it was not intended, it was an ACCIDENT. Let's not keep rehashing the issue over and over again - what purpose does it serve for the families and friends left behind? Let the souls rest in peace. Because these kinds of accidents happen every day, we need to try and follow these three angels' examples of living life to the best of our ability. Finding compasion in our hearts for others less fortunate may be the best tribute we can ever pay to these three who left us all too soon. Live every day to the fullest.

beth & gary, Newburyport
You have made your father proud. You are a shining star! A true role model who will be missed!

Nancy D, Marlboro
My thoughts and prayers and with all of the families involved in this terrible loss. Put your trust in God and you will survive. I only hope that they can recover the bodies so that the families may have closure to this and try to go on with their lives. Caroline Kennedy, the Freeman/Bessett families and everyone else that is affected, please know that you are thought of and prayed for daily.

Kimberly Hargis, Danville, IN
I was born 10 days before JFK was killed and remember being ask in school to ask our parents what they were doing when the heard the news of his death. She just said she was busy with a new baby, but the look on her face made me always remembered that day. I could just tell how it still effected her. I always looked forward to seeing what JFK Jr. would do for my generation. He was someone I always felt would make a difference in my life. I knew I would never meet him but you could just tell you want going to do something great. The lost you feel must be tremendous and I pray the support of all the people in this country will help your family feel proud of what your family means to all of us. To the Bessette Family: I don't even know how to begin to express my feeling to a family who looses two children in one time. God be with you. Kimberly Hargis Danville, IN.

Lori, San Fran, CA
My heart is full of sadness and goes out to the families of John, Caroly and Lauren. I can't begin to imagine what they are going through. I grew up in New England, lived in Boston, spent so much time on the Cape and the Vineyard. It is a place i will always associate with the Kennedy's and mostly, JFK Jr. and his mother Jackie. I am 33, the same age as Carolyn, our birthdays just days apart, and cannot imagine the pain her family feels over lives cut so short. I never knew John's father, but what JKK Jr. represented to myself and others my age was the goodness and hope America had once had for JFK and what "could have been". He lived his life in a most upstanding way, he could have done anything, had anything. And yet he never was arrogant or troublesome. That is the true tragedy. He was an inspiration to MY generation to do good, to be a good person, and to give back to those less fortunate than oneself. I will miss his presence in my world. My deepest sympathies to the families, your children will never be forgotten.

Mary Tracey, South Park
John I feel like you were my brother there was only 4 years difference in our age. You will be missed as your father is missed. God Bless and keep you. We have lost America's Son......I am very sadded. You were to young why why why......

Krista Udziela, Hollywood
To John and Carolyn Kennedy:

To a couple I know so little about, but meant so much...
In your eyes was love
A love that was shown to us all
A bright future with a promise A hope of new beginings
A couple with courage
A courage to believe in themselves and each other
Under the depths of the deep ocean your soul's pour
out a sign, a sign which reads,
"PERMANENT MARK OF LOVE"
We love you and miss you dearly--
Thank you for your sign of love.

Laura Seidler, Jamaica Pl
Shock comes quickly and never leaves in the midst of a tragedy. It's amazing how the one thing you never forget is where you were when you heard about the death of President Kennedy, Princess Diana, and now the three untimely deaths of John and Carolyn Kennedy and Lauren Bissette. I will never understand why God took them now

May heaven hold them and keep them with their families who have gone before them.

I hope both the Kennedy and Bessette families will be able to find some solace eventually because this grief is more than anyone can deal with.

I pray that there will be less risk taken by all for the future. I also pray that Lauren, Carolyn and John, Jr. will be found so that there will be closure.

May they Rest in Peace.

Bob Lewis
The untimely death of John F. Kennedy Jr., his wife and his sister-in-law represents the loss of a major branch of their family tree; this tragedy serves to remind us once of the evanescense of human life and the care that is needed to prolong that life.

With Sympathy,

Robert C. Lewis

Joan Puglia, Somerville
How tragic for the Kennedy and Bessette families. I hope that we can allow the families the privacay they need to mourn their losses. Nothing ever prepapres you for the loss of a child. The Puglia family thoguhts and prayers are with all family members. May they rest in peace.

Elsa R. Velazquez, Brigham,Ut
God has proven to me once more that he truly does, pick the prettiest flowers..........

Claire Davis, Cambridge
I remember the day John F.Kennedy was assasinated, and cried along with the rest of the country. I think we watched television for 3 or 4 days straight.

This seems to be the same thing all over with John, Jr. I again watched television all weekend, and every night since it happend. I hope and pray that the divers will be able to find their bodies, to give to give solace and closure to the families left behind.

I feel especially sad for Carolyn, who has no immediate family members left. Thank God she has her husband anc children to give her the strenght she needs at this time.

My prayers are with you Carolyn and the rest of the Kennedy family members, and also the Bessette family.

Claire Davis

Sinicrope Family, USVI
"We neither know the day or the hour".. I grieve with the Kennedy's and all their other related families including our national family. The seemingly capricious and horrible deaths of family members so young is probably repeated in a hundred different communities around the world on a daily basis. We share the "unspeakable grief" for all of them. I made it a point to tell my husband and son right in the middle of the broadcast that I love them. Leave nothing undone today for the people you love -there is no guarantee of tomorrow. GOD who is never absent will heal their and our sorrow. That is our only guarantee.

Bonnie Engelman, Columbia
The shocking and heartwrenching loss of John F. Kennedy, Jr. is a tragedy of epic proportion and represents a void in America's cultural and political landscape which we will not easily fill. Emotionally, we will never recover. The promise of this young man, like his father and uncle, will remain, sadly, unfulfilled. All three victims represented the essence of beauty, intelligence and achievement. John was the brightest light we had, the best America could offer. His loss is without equal.

Barbara Doran, Stoughton
When I first heard the news, it struck me like the death of Princess Di - Unreal! Our finite minds can not understand the purpose of this tragedy but I do believe that God has purpose for allowing something like this to happen. My prayers and deepest sympathies go out to both of the families.

dee
god be with you and your family. he is always there when you need him.

Marylu, Pittsburgh
My deepest condolences to the Kennedy and Bessette Families. To lose loved ones so young is overwhelming. May they rest in peace.

Jamie Smith, Whitman
It is a very sad and tragic event they will all be missed very much.I send my condolences to family and friends.

Lynne, Swampscott
I am so saddened when I see the negative comments written regarding this tragedy. There but for the grace of God go I....we all use poor judgement at different times in our lives, and none of us are exempt from mistakes......Sometimes the results are meaningless, sometimes terrible. The only comfort I take is that they are all together-----I pray they never had a moment to think of what was coming. And they WERE role models.....models of decency, kindness and generosity. My prayers go out to their families, that here on earth they can find some sort of peace in the midst of what is undoubtedly a terrible time. I pray for John, Carolyn and Lauren's souls that they rest in peace. Death hurts the living the most. I am just so sad......

Twin, Georgia
I would like to express my deepest sympathy for both families. I have been holding on to hope that there would be a miracle for both of them. Being that i am a twin, my heart hurts for Lisa. I will keep her in my prayers and hope that with god and faith, she will make it thru this.

Lauri Sybel, Vermont
It is with tremendous shock and saddness that I write about the deaths of JFK Jr. and the Besette sisters. As a college student in Hyannisport for the summers, I remember JFK Jr. as a gentleman with tremendous intellegence, humor and grace. I had always believed that one day he would make tremendous contributions to the fabric of the Nation. My heart breaks for his family and friends and for the Besette family as well. I keep recalling the words of Billy Joel, "Only the good die young." Why??

Lynne T, Waltham
I pray for closure to this heartbreaking tragedy and for the timely recovery of each of the vicitms so that they can properly be put to rest.

Nancy Davis , Plymouth
In light of all the backlash to media coverage, you are all doing your job and most of us understand. I myself am very up on the situation not because I do not care about the other tragedies happening around us but because of all the symbolism of the deaths of these vibrant individuals. The entire weekend at Kennedy Space Center was devoted to the commemoration of the Moon Walk of Apollo...a project "lifted to reality" by JFK at the height of his career. And on that weekend his son, new wife, and sister in law; from flight come crashing to the sea. Some would say the Kennedy curse, I think more that they are an extensive group of independents that live vicariously to weave their own threads to better their lives and those around them. Their challenge is maybe to learn to respect for elements beyond their control. However, without risk takers, would we have landed on the moon? This country yearns for another leader like JFK senior and we had hopes of findingg that in JFK JR. Certainly no one can deny that, with the hopelessness of recent presidential scandals. I believe this has so deeply affected all of us because we yearn to be in a time like those of the hostile, yet rapidly changing 1960's, a time of new beginnings of a movement that would forever alter our world. Let us look at this, not as a tragedy but a wake up call. It is obvious that people need heros, and John JR. was that link to his father, a man many considered a hero...now that chain is broken...we must forge a new one... I hope that all people can see that every minute counts, and that the future of this great nation has been handed to much us, often with reminders of that from the Kennedy family. Looking to the future, let us seek leaders of such demeanor that our nation will once again feel united and strong with an undying passion to help others especially those within our own cities and towns. We clearly are yearning for a new generation to lead and JFK JR. was a symbol of that for many. Let him serve as that light and that reminder, for us not to settle for less than such a magnetic and intense person to take us toward the next millenium, let his memory give us incentive to care about today, to care about our world, to care about our nation, and to care about ourselves, our families, and our destinies.... President Kennedy's message was clear, "Ask not what your country can do for you, but what you can do for your country....": and John F. Kennedy Junior had devoted much of his life to finding ways beyond politics to do just that.

Mark F, Cape Cod
Dear John Jr., Carolyn, and Lauren: The sun is shining on Cape Cod today but deep down inside looms a sadness for the tragedy which recently occurred. My condolences go out to your families for all that it is worth. I truly am saddened, like the rest of the country, by this unfortunate mishap. May you live in our hearts forever. May you always be in peace wherever you are.

Jack, Roslindale
People are incorrectly using the word tragedy associated with this incident. Tragedy involves some unforeseen or unexplainable event befalling the victim. If I were to be so self indulgent as to fly a plane that I was not nearly experienced enough to fly and to crash the plane killing my family people would say I was an idiot. What unspeakable arrogance to take the lives of ones family for granted and to sacrifice them in this way. Every aviator has said his actions were inexplicable. Then the media creates some myth suurounding his life to portay him as other than a dillettante trust fund baby by describing him as a 'former New York prosecutor' and 'renowned publisher'. It's a shame he or anyone dies in this way but in this case it is an individuals actions that led to his demise and not fate.

Just a Friend, Ma.
JFK's father must have sold his soul to the Devil. The tragedy this family has had to endure over the years is to much for any one family. As a country we must realize how fortunate we were to have had these incredible people as a part of our society and lives. My thoughts and prayers to all the Kennedy and Bissette families and friends.

Isabel, Cambridge
I'm so very sorry!I wish I could be there to embrace each one of the family members.I have heard so much about this terrible story. I still feel in my heart that they're still alive somewhere. Beautiful people like these ,in and out do not deserve to die. I have always admired John Jr.He was not in politics like most of his family but yet made his place in the news.News of what a beautiful human being. If he has passed away then he will be in good hands.In the Lords hands. Good-bye dear John Jr. your are again in your beloved parent's arms along with your beautiful wife. I will continue to pray for you and your family. I would have loved to see what beautiful children you would have had. Good Bye!

colleen, ma
I feel so sorry for Caroline,the Bessette/Freeman/Kennedy families. It is a tragic loss to them all and now to the world too. Being the same age as John and growing up in the same era, you feel like their is a connection in some sense. I thought John Jr. was a real down to earth type of guy. His mother raised he and Caroline very well under much scrutiny. I just hope he is at peace along with his wife and sister-in-law. God bless them all.

Deirdre Murphy, San Fran
I am so saddened by the deaths of these three wonderful human beings. Yet again our world is made to stop in its tracks and reflect on the precious gift of life. It is so hard to believe that in such a short time, the life of a person(s) whose presence alone gave so much joy to thier family, friends and country, can be taken away. Saddest of all, is not being able to share in the accomplishments John, Carolyn and Lauren would have undoubltedly left to the world. May they guide us from heaven and may their spirits fill the lonely hearts of their loved ones.

Gerry, Warwick
Thoughts on this tragedy bring to mind something said 36 yrs. ago during another tragedy: "Johnny, we hardly knew ye."

Joanne Robinson, Burlington
As a canadian, I am truly devestated by this news. JFK, Jr. was a modern day success story to us also. I am pleased that because of a strong faith in God, his family, and his friends will find courage in the face of this tragic occurance. God Bless JFK Jr, Carolyne and her sister Lauren.

Elaine Mallory, West Point
I have seen these people in the news my entire life. I am so sorry for the tremendous loss and my thoughts and prayers are with the families.

Wendy Schmidt, Malden, MA
At this time, all I can offer is my most sincere Apologies to the kennedy family.

May god be with you all. I'm so sorry for this tremendous loss and my thoughts and prayers are with the families.

Inna Gimelberg, Newton
Sympathy to the families, feeling of great loss, unfullfilled dreams, and anger- why him and those two young ladies, why for every wedding-a funeral in this family. He stayed away, minded his b-s, never meant any harm, just started family. Was in Hiannis Saturday, thought it was a practical joke at first, since then can not sleep, dreams with other Kennedys in them, even though I was not around in this country to see them enough on TV. I was a year older than John Jr. when his father was assaisinated and in a small town in Belarus, but I still remember the documentaries shown even by not friendly at all soviet govermentally run movie industry. My tears and support for the families. How do they survive all these tragedies?

Bob, Medford
For both family's sake, I hope they find the bodies...

Wendy Ragosta, Troy
I am very SORRY that such a young, beautiful and full of life and love couple had to die. Why on earth did they have to fly on that night, couldn't they have waited until the next day to fly out.

Shellee
I have much sympathy for the Kennedy and Bessette families. Be strong, Caroline, for many are with you in thought and prayer. However, when the Kennedy men are concerned, I wonder when they will learn that wealth and priviliedge do not guarantee invulnerability. The early members of the family created wealth by questionable means, the middle generation managed to gather political power and contribute much to the nation. It is sad that the legacy of the family today is one of reckless, thoughtless behavior (starting with Ted Kennedy), philandering and worse (JFK, Ted, Michael, William K. Smith). It is sad that what appears to be a sequence of poor personal judgement took the lives of three individuals, two of whom might have given the Kennedy back its value and esteem. Ps- The television and radio media coverage of this situation is ridiculous; for our sake as well as the family's, could we have a bit less minute-by-minute coverage of the search?

Carrie, Rochester
My heart goes out to both the families. It's so sad to see something happen so tragically to 3 young people in the prim of their lives!! They'll never be forgotten and my thoughts and prayers are with them and their families.

kathi, macon, GA
My thoughts and prayers are with the families of the Kennedy and Bessettes. I was devastated I could not believe it happened and Was hoping for recovery of john and his wife and Lauren alive in the water or On shore somewhere. I was hanging on to some hope of them being alive. I think it is a true loss to this country because he did so much for the community And for children with charities. I think it is very possible he would have run for president Later when he got older after having children and spending time as a father and husband. This country has lost a lot and we will miss him dearly. May god be with them now, god bless you all Good night sweet prince, we love you and may you rest in peace.

Ed, Fitchburg
I feel sorry for the wife and sister in law. It was a terrible loss for their family. As far as John goes her willing took his life and 2 others in his hands because his ego was far bigger than his ability. He had a foot injury that he himself said bothers him on training flights. He was piloting a plane he was unfamiliar with and flying in a element that he knew he was unqualified to operate in.

Now we have an all out search for a plane that should have never left the ground with him behind the wheel. what gets me is the use of so much resources. If I sent my plane into the water the search would not be this great. Are we to say that if you are part of a well known political family you deserve special treatment. Time and time again the Kennedy name has pulled them out of trouble from Ted driving his car into the river and a girl dying and him getting off scott free. to Will Kennedy smith who raped a girl at the estate and got off without a hitch.

I do believe any death is a tragedy and I can understand the pain they are going through, But the family brings all this on. The Kennedys keep dancing around the law and morals the rest of us are bound by. Is it a higher justice that is paying this family back by taking all the good ones so the rest can suffer? I don't know but it sure seems that way.

Chris, Boston
"Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice. . ."
William Jennings Bryan My prayers are with the Kennedys and Bessettes; this is truly tragic. I only hope that we all can learn from the mistakes that we and others have made. Not filing for a flight path is like shunning a helpful hand. Flying in sub-par weather, regardless of the amount of flight experience, is inviting tragedy. It is unfortunate that John had two passengers

Michele, Dallas
I have only lived in Dallas for one year - a native Bostonian the rest of my life. When I first moved to Dallas I immediately went to see the infamous School Book Depository .... it was... truly amazing - like stepping back in time and taking all of the Kennedy aura in like a deep breath of fresh air. I felt like I couldn't get enough - know enough... see enough. It left me wanting to learn more and more about this incredible family. John and Caroline were the countries babies... growing up not long behind them and watching their lives unfold into the magnificent adults they are today has been wonderful.

Saturday morning.. my phone rang off the hook with this news. I can't even begin to describe the hollow, empty feeling that has been in my stomach since that moment. I like others continue to hope who would we blame if a young mother lost her baby in a car accident when the baby is not in a car seat?

Let us learn to cherish and value life. Nobody is immortal.

Gale Shanaway, Pittsburgh
Having grown up in Massachusetts, the Kennedys are ingrained in my heart. This is such a tragedy for not only the Kennedys, but for the Bessettes as well. My heart goes out to these families and I pray that can find solace in God.

Terry McGinty, Cambridge
The Kennedy family is not cursed, it is a wonderful group of risk takers, people who live life to the fullest. They have striven to push their own limits and to aim high. When we human beings push limits, tragedies or disappointment can follow. Thankfully unlike many families of privilege, the Kennedy's have never forgotten the disadvantages others face in trying to aim high.

Karen Brzezowski, Marlboro
Such a horrible end for such beautiful people. The best and brightest Kennedy is gone. What a tragedy! He WILL be missed by so very many! He is my age. That hits very close to home! My thoughts and prayers go out to the Kennedy's and Bessette's. Especially Caroline - the lone survivor of Camelot!

So, so sad...I am totally in shock...

Matthew, Boston
The people who have submitted negative comments insult everyone else's intelligence. Of COURSE these "anti-Kennedy" types care...why else would they take the time to enter the chat room, read other people's comments, and then take the time to write their own?

Whether or not we knew J.F.K., Jr. or the Besette sisters, there is something about them that has fascinated us. Admit it, folks. And by the way, it's in very poor taste to speak ill of the deceased and those who mourn them. I suggest you spend time acquiring some manners, rather than wasting our time with your pathetic efforts to be "cool."

Alicia, N. Attleboro
I think this is an awful thing that has happened. I just hope they find bodies so the families can have closure. My heart goes out to Caroline and the Kennedys as well as the Bassett family.

I will be thinking of them all.

Bill and Janet Comby, Conway, PA
To the Kennedy and Bessette Families,

We were stunned to hear the tragic news about John, Caroline and Lauren. We are all appalled and heartbroken at the loss of your bright, charming, lovable children. There are no words to adequately express our sympathy for the devastation and loss you must be feeling. Please know that we are thinking of you and praying for you every minute.

We send our deepest sympathy.

God Bless,

Bill and Janet Comby

AMS, Boston
Where are You John???? desperately for some inconceivable miracle that will bring John and the others back to us.

My heart, tears and sympathy go out to the families that are struggling right now. But as for John... I can't help but find comfort that he is now surrounded by family and loved ones in heaven... including his remarkable father.

Nancy, chelsea
I just feel so sad that this has happened. My deepest sympathies go out to both families and I pray for them to be strong in the days ahead.

Laurice Saggese, Saugus
As a child growing up in Massachusetts, I vividly remember the Kennedy mystique and how they really effected my family. They were in our homes and felt like part of our lives. I am devastated to hear only more tragic news for the Kennedy family. My thoughts and prayers are with the family of both John Jr. and Carolyn and Lauren. I still am having a difficult time with this most recent tragedy and hope that at least the search crews can recover their bodies. I really feel that that will help these families deal with these young lives now presumed dead and give them some closure. God bless their souls.

Anonymous, Everytown
John, Jr. was a role model? In what respect? And now, just because of his name, he has more people searching for him than any one of us would ever have, had we been in the same situation. Only because of a name! Accidents happen. He's dead. Get over it. Stop wasting taxpayers money, and go sit on the beach and wait for the bodies to wash on shore.

Dorothy, Burlington
My thoughts ran the gamut from at first shock and disbelief,to such a deep and profound sense of loss and sadness. That such a tragedy could befall the likes of John John, one of the beautiful people. The little boy we all cried for as he saluted his fathers casket, the shy student we all cheered for during his bar exam problems, the hunk we all secretly adored. This was far too much tragedy, far too sureal to think of him and his beautiful wife just starting a wonderful life together never having the chance to fulfill their dreams for their future nor Lauren of hers. Its just too much to bear. May God bless them!!

michelle, tewksbury
I would like to let the Kennedys & Bessette family know that they are in my thoughts and prayers. I also would like to pray that we find the bodies of JFK Jr., Caroline, and Lauren so the families and the world can have some type of closure to this tragic event. I can't close without saying God Bless Melissa whose body was recovered last night.

Jennifer, Hudson, NH
Such a devastating tradedy. Many thoughts and prayers go out to both families. I guess you never know what life has instore for the future.

Carolyn, RI
The shortest verse in the Bible is: "Jesus wept." I now weep for what could have been, would have been, should have been. My heart and prayers go out to the families. May God wrap His Arms around them as they try to heal from their loss. When my Mom passed away five years ago, the Book from the Bible, Ecclesiastics 3:1-8, was a source of comfort to me...

Joyce Jones, Silver Spr.
The thoughts and prayers of my family are with the Kennedy and Bassette's family. May the Lord continue to comfort and strengthen them in this time of sorrow. May their faith remain strong in a God who alone knows all things and who alone has the answer to all unanswered questions. May we all recognize that all things work according to God's sovereign will and plan, and He has promised to comfort all those who mourn. He is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. May the Lord grant them PEACE.

R. Williams, Hanover
A very sad time as it brings back memories of the promise and hope of the sixties and what his father and uncle were trying to accomplish....two families have been placed in an unimaginable point of mourning....may my prayers and thoughts go with them as I share my thoughts with those who care.....

Kevin Devereaux, Boston
A sad and unnecessary loss, but I'm afraid we are blowing this out of proportion.

We should also think of the two young Americans who died in Kosovo on Sunday(?) when their APC turned over, and that poor teacher who was murdered last week. The loss of a good person (regardless of what their last name might be), is a loss to society. Lastly, we are all mortal, we should not forget that.

Lisa Hopper, Chicago
To John & Carolyn Kennedy:
I didn't even know you, but I felt I did.
From a small child to a man, you were loved by many
I hope to learn something from your lives,
Which I believe I already am.

Instead of all the glamour & glitz,
You chose a more simple route
And lived like everyone else
Instead of having a huge mansion
You chose a New York building
Without the security guards and pretense,
Just a regular place
Instead of buying a huge jet
You bought a simple small plane
You must have learned early
That money or power doesn't buy happiness

God allowed you to find each other as soul mates
And unite as one
You were happily together when you left this world
To go on to the next

I'll miss you
And all you represent to me
You have made a good impression on me
Just by being you
And you have changed my outlook on life
From now on
Until we meet again
one day...

Shannon, Somerville
I can't even begin to image the pain for both families and what they are going threw. My thoughts and prayers are with both families. And I still have hope that maybe in some possible way there might be a happy ending to all this.

Megan, Acton
The Kennedy family is our version of royalty. I grew up along with Caroline and John John. In John?s passing I feel like, as many of us, as though I lost an older brother. It is time for us to grieve and to allow the Kennedy?s to grieve. Please allow them the privacy that we take for granted, at this one of their darkest hours. My prayers are with you

Steve Morse, Ashland
This event has been so sad. My heart goes out to both families. Two sisters lost now leaves the surviving sister alone to deal with her suffering. And another sister who just lost her close brother is the same situation.

As far as the Kennedy family is concerned, numerous members have witnessed death and funerals as a constant and continuous part of growing up. It's no wonder they are mentally so strong and support each other with so much love. Mr. Ted Kennedy has been through so much during his life - it's got to be so hard.

God Bless both families and one can only hope the very best for all involved.

m. stempel, oakland,ia
For those of us that remember President Kennedy, the loss of his JFK, Jr., his wife and sister-in-law is devastating. Whenever any young people die suddenly and tragically it is hard to understand. Perhaps in JFK,Jr.'s case, we will always remember the little boy who saluted his father's casket. I wish to offer my prayers for both the Bessette and Kennedy families.

Very sad
When I heard about JFK's devastating crash in the sea I was very sad and disappointed that this could happen to such a well respected and nice man He will be in my thoughts for years to come. I am praying for their family that they are doing fine and healthy.

Carol Manning, Watertown
The words of the Bessette family that nothing in life prepares you for the loss of a child ring so true here. They have lost two daughters and their grief is unimaginable to me. The Gosules have just learned of the fate of their daughter Melissa and the parents who have just lost their children in Kosovo and their grief is unimaginable. Life is so precious. I have taken the time to reflect on the losses of the Bessette family and of Caroline, of the Gosules, of the parents who in various parts of this country and in Scotland, one day sent their children to school for the last time.

Pray for all.

Jessica
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Michael, Miami, Fl
I barley knew JFK Jr., but I feel very sad for his death and the death of the passengers. I am slowly learning the sad story of the family life and death.

I am only 13, but I can understand how you feel.

Amy, Sandown
It is very sad that yet another Kennedy's life is cut short. But, all of you out there must remember that the Kennedys lived their lives on the edge playing football on the ski slopes, flying in inclement weather, and with that there always a chance that something can happen. So, although I feel very deeply for both families, my sympathy can only go so far.

Diana Ferri
Unrelenting sadness for Caroline Kennedy, all the Kennedy family and the Bessette families. A special fondness for John Kennedy and Caroline through the years, of watching them grow up. We are were all so happy for them these last few years, that they found such joy in their own personal life. Its just so hard to comprehend, how this could happen and why? Our thoughts and prayers will be with all of the Kennedy and Bessette families. We need to find them and have closure. Its almost too much to bear, first the Father, then the Mother and now the Son. The media needs to let the families have their space and only give us updates when necessary!!! God Bless them all!

Bobbie Cercone, Moon
My thoughts and prayers will always be with John and his family. I hope he knows how much we all love him and that he will be missed tremendously.

Lots of Love,

Bobbie

The Cohan Family, Chelmsford
As I watched the media last evening, I crieed quietly for hours. All of the news stations are covering this story so beautifully with childhood memories and thoughts from friends and family of John, Carolyn and Lauren. I also continue the hope for their bodies to be recovered, it would be the slightest bit of closure for the families.

I can't help but wonder what they were thinking when their plane was going down; did they know where they were?

God bless them wherever they are and our thoughts are with John, Carolyn, Lauren and all of their family members

Harlande Roberson, Columbia, MD
My thoughts and prayers are with the Kennedy and Bessette families at this time of sadness. John, Jr. and Carolyn gave the current generation someone to admire like John's parents did for the previous generation. All of them will be sadly missed. To the Bessette family, the world will miss the intelligence that Carolyn and Lauren gave us in their professions. To Lisa Bessette, I sympathize with your pain as I lost my mother suddenly in 1997. The thought that comforted me and my family was knowing that she was at peace in heaven. God Bless the families.

David Taylor, Dallas, TX
May God bless the Bessette and Kennedy families during this tragic time of loss and suffering. I hope they will be comforted and strengthened by their faith, and assured that their loved ones are in God's care. I am but one small person who has been distantly affected by this plane crash. When similar feelings are magnified by the millions of Americans who have been touched by this disaster, we are truly a nation in mourning.

I was 9 years old when JFK was killed in Dallas, and the news coverage I watched from my home in Virginia became my first political memory. That the aspirations of these three vibrant, charismatic, promising people will never be realized is equally sickening.

I share with the families and all of America the shock, the disbelief, the hope for a miracle, and the slow, wrenching acceptance of the truth.

This individual citizen's heart aches.

Tammy, Boston
Opinion: Today is a sad day for all of those who grew up with the Kennedy's. Watching them on Television, reading about all the achievements and future promises for the country. It sad to not to know what may have been. Any loss is enduring and my thoughts and prayers are with all those that where left behind. I believe that the lives of those who have passed on and who have left us so quickly will always be remembered in our hearts.

Sherry Haynes, Ontario, Canada
As I sit and think of a way to put into words the great feeling of loss I am experiencing, I can't help but think of something John himself was quoted as saying "Live life, do not dwell on things that are beyond your control". And all though I struggle with the thought of life without this beautiful human being I know that life goes on, and he would not wish for us to hurt over him but would wish us to celebrate the life he did live.

From my family to yours John, Carolyn, and Lauren

May God Bless You All, The Haynes Family
Kristie, Boston
My heart continues to break every time I see or hear of this terrible tragedy. My prayers and thoughts go out to both families at this time.

I was not born when JFK was alive or shot. However, I know the impact and admire all the great accomplishments, eloquence, and class that they BOTH (JFK and Jackie) brought to our country. I can only imagine the great loss then. I feel very sad that my generation will never be able to see just what JFK Jr. and Carolyn could have brought to us. We'll never know now.

In the past days, I have been thinking - "Wouldn't it be great feeling if all three of them were found and survived this with the entire world watching". It would be nice if that was the case all over the TV instead of the specials that have been on. It's still hard to let go.

Most simply missed will be his laughter and smile I recall that was assumed to always be there. (tears)

Good night Sweet Prince.

Ann Crabtree, Morgantown
The news of John Kennedy, Jr. plane crash was devastating to me. He was the U.S. Prince to me. We have had a GREAT loss since he is gone. I keep hoping and praying they will find them on the ground. We ask ourselves why things like this happen. May God be with them wherever they are. I turn the news on all day to see if they have found them. My heart and prayers go out to the Kennedy's and the Bessette family also.

Sincerely,

Ann Crabtree in Morgantown, West Virginia

Terri Jordan, Woodbridge
I believe John Jr. would be satisfied with the life he lived. Although we feel it wasn't his time, we must come to the realization it's not our choice. The good I look for in this tragic incident is at least he died with his soulmate. I truly believe one would not be happy without the other.

Buchanan Family, Uxbridge
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Kennedy's and the Bessette families. Such a tragic loss.

God Bless,

The Buchanan Family

Cathy Boucher, Boston
I was completely shocked when I first heard the news that the plane was missing. All day was like a vigil just hoping for some good news. As night settled in, I knew it was not good. I can only pray that it was quick and painless for them. That God has taken them up to heaven to be with their loved ones who have gone before them. It's just a shame he decided to take them so early, I know great things would have come from John & Carolyn. I know the White House would have had another Kennedy Family in it. My thoughts and prayers are with the families in hopes that they will be comforted in the fact that they are not grieving alone, a nation joins them. They will never be forgotten.

Robert M. Cook, Laconia NH
As a journalist who covers the Lakes Region and serves as The Citizen's wire editor, I was almost as stunned when I learned what had happened as Walter Conkite was when he told the nation on November 22, 1963 that President John F. Kennedy was assassinated in Dallas, Texas. It had that same impact.

Years from now, people will ask where were you when you heard the news that JFK Jr. died in a plane crash just as they frequently ask that question about his father. Perhaps even more heart-breaking for many members of the same generation as JFK Jr. is that many of us believed that one day he would follow in his father's footsteps and be the future leader this country may need 10 to 20 years from now as we enter the new frontier of the 21 century.

I remember the Oliver Stone movie, "JFK," when Attorney Jim Garrison played by Kevin Costner tells the jury that Kennedy was our king. JFK Jr., his son, may very well have been our future king who is now gone from us.

As I thought about the events that transpired the last few days, only one happy thought entered my mind when I saw footage of President Kennedy's grave at Arlington National Cemetery. I thought wouldn't it be wonderful if such a place like Heaven exists. If in fact it does, perhaps JFK would be reunited with the son he never got a chance to know or watch grow into a man. Wouldn't it be wonderful if somehow the members of the Kennedy family could be reunited in Heaven so they could at least enjoy one another's company and experience the joys that go with having a family they lost on the tragic day in Dallas nearly 36 years ago.

Perhaps this is the prayer that those who are so hurt by JFK Jr.'s loss could send to God. For a family that has experienced as much pain and anguish as the Kennedy's, that could very well be the greatest gift of all that we could wish for them to experience.

Marguerite Tyrance, Brighton
My prayers to both families. I was in denial about the tragic events that unfolded over the weekend. I kept thinking that John, Carolyn and Lauren would all be found very much alive, huddled together not far offshore. I can't imagine the loss in the eyes of John's sister, Caroline. I know that her family is there to comfort her and her strong belief in God is her salvation. I know that God is watching over them and that no more harm could ever come to them again. I also pray for the all those workers searching for their bodies. May God also keep them safe in those waters.

Anita Tilford, Pittsburgh
The Tilford family would like to send their deepest sympathy to the Kennedy-Bessette Family. It is with extreme sorrow for the families' tremendous loss.

Sincerely,

The Stephen Tilford Family

Sharon and Nona Stein, Coraopolis
To the Kennedy family, Even though we both know just how inadequate words are in the face of such tremendous loss we would like you to know that you are in our thoughts. We have long admired your family and your dedication to public service. John and his wife always seemed to glow with joy on the too few occasions when they were captured by the public eye. To lose these young vibrant people in their prime is such a shame.

We will never know what contributions they each could have made in the future, but John already taught us so much about personal courage and grace while enduring seemingly impossible trials. Indeed your whole family has. We wish for you comfort in your sorrow and solace in the days ahead. Our condolences also to the Bessette family. Their pain in losing two children is beyond comprehension. We wish them well.

Sincerely yours,

Sharon

Barb Halvorson, Minneapolis
My deepest sympathies go out to the Kennedy and Bessette families. I was in 2nd grade when President Kennedy was killed and remember it very vividly (as well as when Bobby Kennedy was killed in 1969). I have always held a special interest in the Kennedy family. This past April I took my son on a trip to Washington D.C. and we went and found the homes in Georgetown that the Kennedy's lived in before moving into the White House and also where Jackie and the children moved after moving out of the White House (before moving to New York). I hope that the Kennedy's and Bessette's faith in God will help them through this terrible time and that He will comfort the families as only He can.

Nancy, Boston
For all of those who are sick of the media coverage on this horrific tragedy, here's an idea for you: Try turning off your television set...

Bill Eisele, Woodbury
The observation regarding his (Mr. Kennedy) being part of the "national reserve" come closest to the essence of this loss for the nation. People are sad because he's someone who might have been a future leader. Certainly we're always looking for that.

Brooks Caledon, Brookline
Such a tragedy. Three lives so full of promise. Rest in peace

Peggy Faggioli, Pittsburgh,Pa
My Prayers go to The Kennedy & Bessette Family,We don't understand Gods reasons for these things to happen, but we know you can depend on him to help you through this God bless all of you!

Sencerely,

Peggy Faggioli

All of us from Mt.Washington In Pgh,Pa. give you our love & prayers!

Faith, Needham
My prayers go out to both families. Those of us of JFK Jr.'s generation enjoyed seeing a person finding themselves and of course we had hopes for the future. There aren't too many positive representatives of our generation that could be future leaders. It will make some of us rethink our lives and cherish the moments with those close to us. Life is very fleeting.

donita tegeler, woodson te
I never knew John but i grew up with him all of this is so sad my hero's are no longer around but i will always remeber John F Kennedy Jr and his wife and his sister in law always

Michele Marshall, Richmond, VA
I was very shocked and saddened when I read the news flash on the internet Saturday afternoon. My husband and I have been sitting vigil by the television set on and off all weekend hoping and praying for survivors to be found, as I am sure the Kennedy and Bessette families were. When the search was shifted to search and recovery my heart was very heavy, we were still hoping for a miracle and do not want to face the inevitable.

My husband and I are the same age as John F. Kennedy, Jr. and have followed the Kennedy's life via the media since we were old enough to understand who the Kennedy's were. Although we have never meet anyone of the Kennedy family members, we have, as many American's, considered them our family too. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Kennedy and Bessette families during their tragic loss. I know they will handle this latest tragedy with grace and dignity as they have so well in the past.

We will continue to watch the during the recovery, memorials and/or funerals for John, Carolyn and Lauren so that we too may have closure of this tragic accident. May God Bless the Kennedy and Bessette families. For we know that John, Carolyn and Lauren are in heaven and may they rest in peace.

Beverly Jensen, MI
To all the families involved in this untimely accident We as a nation are again mindful that Our Heavenly Father is in control of our lives and he will decide what is best for us. My personal thoughts and prayers go out to Carolyn and her family. She will bear this loss greater than anyone else. Having lost my only brother I know where she walks today. I am glad that all of these families have a great faith n our Lord Jesus. He will wipe away all tears.