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Love chat with psychic Joanne Gerber

Joanne_Gerber: Happy Valentines Day everyone. Welcome to Psychic Chat with Psychic Medium Joanne Gerber. It is my pleasure to be here with all of you today. Love is in the air, along with snow...Please feel free to post your questions.

Jesandra: Hi Joanne. Can you tell me if my current relationship will improve and become closer?

Joanne_Gerber: Hi Jesandra. I am getting the sense that this realtionship still needs time to evolve and grow. I do feel there is a strong connection between the both of you, adn both of you have been in long term relationships prior to this one. There is much that the both of you cna learn from each other in this relationship.

bea: will my husband forgive me when i tell him about my debt problem?

Joanne_Gerber: Hi Bea. As we all know, honesty is the best policy. True love cannot be seperated when you are true to your partner. Hiding the truth will only lead to future relationship problems that will be more difficult to resolve.

angelicmsgs: Hi Joanne Happy Valentines Day

Joanne_Gerber: Happy Valentines Day to you, too, Angelicmsgs!

RealtorChad: Hi Joanne! It is an honor to chat with you today! First of all, thank you sooo much for the wonderful work that you do! I'd like to ask about what may be coming up for me in 2007 for relationships? Additionally, and I know this is a strange question, but I really could use some help choosing a 'screen name' for some online dating sites I'm considering...any help would be greatly appreciated!

Joanne_Gerber: Hi Chad. It's a pleasure to chat with you too. I do feel realtionship is just around the corner for you, as we go into the Spring months, I see new realtionships, which may progress slowly, but steadily.

Joanne_Gerber: When choosing your screen name for online dating, be sure to keep it positive and upbeat, and chose a name that will arouse interest for the viewer to read your profile. You may even want to add a bit of humor, a wordplay of your profession could be incorporated such as "REAL CHAD". Good luck in your search!

Mrs_Peel: When a guy you're interested in introduces you to his past hookup and insists that they're just friends, and then hookup tells you privately how terrific the guy says you are, is he trying to start some sort of competition between you and Miss Hookup? This was two weeks ago. Last weekend, he let me know they went bowling.

Joanne_Gerber: Hi Mrs. Peel. It is wonderful how within so many relationships that fall out of love, remail on a friendship level. It just may be that he and his ex are still friends, and it is his way to let you know that. Letting go of suspicions, will help you to open your heart to love.

Dibby: How can you connect with someone you want to get to know on a "psychic connection"?

Joanne_Gerber: Hi Dibby. In order to be able to connect with another on a psychic level, you will need to trust your intuition. You may want to read books or take a psychic development class, if this is something that interests you. I get a sense that you are already connecting psychically with the person.

Dibby: How can you connect (speak) with someone .....like a "psychic connection"?

Joanne_Gerber: Hi again Dibby. Everyday, we are communicating psychically with people, in an awake state and in the dream state. It is quite common to have "psychic connections" with those close to us, friends and family. For example, we may get a sense that we need to pick up the phone and call a friend, only to find out that the friend was thinking of calling you too. The term for this is "mental telepathy". Thoughts are energy, and we send and receive energy constantly.

Al: Will I ever fully recover from my last relationship?

Joanne_Gerber: Hi Al. When we end a relationship, we need to grieve the relationship, just as if we experienced a close physical death. You will recover, as long as you allow yourself to let go of the past and to move forward. We do chose, consciously or subconsciously whether we want to live in the past or the present. If we feel we were a victim of circumstance, then you will live your life that way and attract future relationships that will create the same situations. Be aware of what you are creating, and do allow yourself time to heal. Everything in life happens for a reason, alsthough we may not always know exactly why. I do know that whatever lessons we learn, will lead us toward our own hapiness and fulfillment, as long as there is a desire to be happy.

Queenie: Will I ever be loved?

Joanne_Gerber: Hi Queenie. Only if you want to be. Remember, your thoughts and desires are magnetic energy in which the universe will respond to. You may want to read more about "The Law of Attraction".

BJsMom: I want to know my son is OK and I want to wish him a Happy 'Valentine's Day!

Joanne_Gerber: Hi BJsMom. Your son is at peace with others in the spirit side of life. Remember, love is an energy, and never dies. It keeps you connected with your loved ones on the other side. Your loved ones know our thoughts about them and can feel your love.

Trish: I am wondering if I'm going to get married

Joanne_Gerber: Hi Trish. Yes, I do feel a marriage with you, however you need to pur more energy into the realtionship aspect of your life.

Vader666: How long have you known youve been a psychic? What was your first experience? Do you have to be born with it or can one be trained? I think i have the gift and would very much like to become your apprentance can i have your email to send you my resume?

Joanne_Gerber: Hi Vader. Psychic ability is a God given gift that we all have to some extent. With a desire to learn and understand, one can harness their abilities. There is more information about my classes and workshops on my website at www.joannegerber.com, or email me at spiritmedium7@aol.com. I would be happy to assist you on your journey.

sueb: because of past loss in my life and subsequent bouts of depression, I tend to avoid friendships and keep relationships cordial but dont get close. Should I continure to try to make more of an effort or wait until I am no longer depressed, which may not happen. Thank you.

Joanne_Gerber: Hi Sueb. I am sorry to hear about your past experiences. Life is all about perception. If you can look at the past as a learning experience and move toward living in the now, it would be healing for you. Sometimes these things take time to heal, depending on the degree of the hurt and how it compunds with other life experiences. When we open our heart and soul to the desire to expereince love and friendship, there is always risk involved, howerver the benefits may just outweigh the risk.

Angel_Wings: This is not a romance ? but inregards to busines when will it improve?

Joanne_Gerber: Hi AngelWings. You have too much going on in to many "departments". Let go of the things that are not working, and put more time and energy into your business. I see things gradually improving for you, but it is essential to pur more time into developing your business. I am getting the sense that you need to do more marketing to let people know about your services. Put yourself more out in the pubilc eye. Good luck!

Russell: I haven't gotten over my last girlfriend, she's in NY now. Will I ever hear from her again?

Joanne_Gerber: Hi Russell. I am getting the sense that the relationship is over, and you will meet another.

BRYSMAMMA: Hi, can you tell me if my husband and I were married in another life?

Joanne_Gerber: Hi Brysmamma. Yes, I feel that you were connected in another life, maybe not neccesarily a marriage, but very close connection. There is a soulmate energy here.

cp: My husband and I opened a restaurant a year ago...wondering if we will do well in the future with the business

Joanne_Gerber: Hi cp. Yes, I feel sucess around your business, however be aware of your fears of success...they may inhibit your growth.

drewdlebug: I have never been in a "chat" of any kind before, so here goes my first ever.... Joanne I know you are a psychic and a medium, how can a person like me know if who I talk to is legitamate?

Joanne_Gerber: Hi drewdlebug. My suggestion is before you consult with a psychic or psychic medium, do your homework. Using Google is a great way to find out information. Check the psychic mediums web site, see where else they are listed or linked to, and what kind of exposure the psychic has had. It is best to talk to them persoanlly if you can. As busy as I am, I make an effort to talk to potential clients to personally answer their inquiries. It is best to research before walking into a storefront and handing your money to someone. There are many very good professional psychics and mediums available in New England.

kristin: Joanne will I meet my soul mate very soon?

Joanne_Gerber: Hi Kristin. Your soulmate will come into your life when you are ready to receive. I get the sense that right now there is still some loose ends with a past relationship that need to first be resolved.

drewdlebug: Another question I have is about a friend who is going thru a mid-life crisis and feeling very unloved by her husband. She was out last weekend until the wee hours of the morning with her friends and he did not even notice any advice? Thanks!

Joanne_Gerber: Hi drewdlebug. My advice is she needs to make a decision soon about htis unfulfilling relationship. She seems to be seeking fulfillment outside of her relationship, which is a sign that she needs to reevaluate her current situation. I have a feeling she has lost interest in her mate.

livelife: Hi Joanne, is Keith the man I am suppose to connect with in this life for a love interest?

Joanne_Gerber: Hi livelife. Keith is a very attractive man witha very bright energy. I know that you would like to prsue this relationship, but be aware that he has other commitments right now, adn this relationship will take some time and patience.

UncleNuckNuck: i have had a very... experienced... love life... what can i do this valentines day that hasnt been done before?

Joanne_Gerber: Hi UncleNuckNuck. I will leave that question totally up to your creative and passionate imagination!

ruthie: My husband and I have been married almost 25 years, we have been under a lot of stress the last 8 years do you see things improving. do you see us going back to disneyworld for our anniversary.

Joanne_Gerber: Hi Ruthie. The stress I see around your relationship involves a family member and financial worries. May I suggest to you to pick a more romantic get away other than Disney....

dgskier: Hi Joanne I am wondering about when I will meet a decent guy!

Joanne_Gerber: Hi dgskier. You have been looking for love in all the wrong places. Look for places that you can meet likeminded people. That is where you will establish more deeper connections. If you like to ski, then why not join a ski club?

JS: I just checked out your website Joanne. Awesome. The classes that you offer look great! My S.O. and I are talking about getting married. In the past, he had some 'indescretions' that put a strain on our relationship. At this point, I think we are are past it, but I think that I will always have some lingering doubt. Do you see any problems going forward?

Joanne_Gerber: Hi JS. I get the sense that you two love each other very much, and are making an effort to stay together. We are all human and we do make mistakes. I feel that you two are very connected on a spiritual level, and that this relationship has the potential to heal. Work on trust issues will take some time, but I do see positive possibilities. I wish you all the best.

Joanne_Gerber: Well everyone, unfortunately we are out of time for today. It has been a great pleasure to be her today on boston.com. If I can be of future assistance to you, please visit my website at: www.joannegerber.com

Joanne_Gerber: or call 781-883-5403

Joanne_Gerber: God Bless!

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