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Tuesday, May 8, 2007

Collegians coming home. Gulp.

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As hard as it is to believe, my son's freshman year in college is over. In four days, we go to pick him up.

It's been a terrific year for him -- and for my husband and me. (I know those of you with high school seniors find that hard to believe. A year ago, I did, too. All I can say is, anticipation is worse than the reality).

It was, however, with anticipation in mind that a year ago I wrote a column about what it's like for parents and student when the rising sophomore comes home for the summer. In the column, I quote Hingham mother Sue Ritchie: ''All of a sudden, there's chaos. The house is a mess, there's no food in the refrigerator, their schedule is so bizarre, kids are coming and going, the phones are all ringing. . ." Ritchie catches her breath. ''And we're confused. Are we supposed to relate to them as parents, or as adults?"

That's the very question on my mind. I'm re-reading the column, and forwarding it to my husband.

Posted by Barbara Meltz at 03:56 PM
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